Guest guest Posted August 9, 2006 Report Share Posted August 9, 2006 Kat, you go through so much. I don't know how you do it all. I often wonder if being the caregiver is harder than being the patient. You have to go through all his emotions, plus your own and taking care of yourself, too. I can't remember, do y'all have kids at home, too? Hang in there, honey. I'll keep praying for you both. Love & hugs, De [Norton AntiSpam] Re: HEY * Kat..thank you so much for keeping us updated on ..How is he taking all the news w/o his pills?...Did this happen to our tp members here in group?, did they make you get off your antids & sleep aids, etc?..just wondering how it all works at the beginning.. Kat?..Hoping s heart is not enlarged either...seems he is building up fluid for sure..not good honey...is he on a salt free diet..also do they restrict you to just so much liquid a day?.. when the hospital drained fluid off macs abdomin, it just returned, but mac was in very late stages by this time..then we found out he had 7 tumors in his liver...it was shocking..we didnt know much at all about hepc back then... Your a wonderful wife being there for him & we are all so very proud of you... Hang In There Girl..love & prayers, Pat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2006 Report Share Posted November 16, 2006 Good Morning all and Kat...You poor thing, I remember when I had a sick hubby and it aint easy sugar...You need to find more time for yourself..leave the ole poot at home by him self for awhile and do something you want to do, even if it spending the night away so you can get your thoughts and mind together..you need a rest..I was working those hours and it about killed me...I started taking the weekends off two weeks ago and it has already made a difference, physically and emotionally..I was Tarrrrrrred....lol and you have two clients to care for..Tell your other half to take charge of his health or die!!..TELL HIM YOU COULD USE THE WIDOWS PENSION!)..you cant do it all for him and if he can go visit people, he can surely check his damn sugars & take his meds.....MEN!!!errrrrrrrrrrrr...shake up his world before he kills you woman...take a couple of weekends off to catch up to feel better honey... Love ya and want you to be ok Kat...Love & Hugs,Pattypooh HEY HI EVERY ONE HOPE YALL ARE DOING OK FOR ME IM NOT SURE IF IM COMING OR GOING WORKING 6 TO 7 DAYS A WEEK 12 HRS A DAY IS BETTING ME I HAVE TWO HERE TO TAKE CARE OF THE WIFE IS MY CLIENT BUT THE HUBBY HAD SURGERY AND HAS WOUND CARE TO BE DONE THEN THERE IS MY BUTHOLE AT HOME THAT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY HE IS NOT SICK ENOUGH FOR A SITTER BUT SOMETIMES IM NOT SURE HIS SUGAR DROPPED AGAIN YESTERDAY HE SAID HE GOT SICK WHILE AT HIS UNCLE'S HOUSE ASK IF HE CHECKED HIS SUGAR WHEN HE GOT HOME HE SAID I DID NOT FEEL UP TO IT IM STILL NOT FEELING GOOD HE HAS CUT OUT MOST OF HIS DIABETIC MEDS EXCEPT HIS MORNING DOSE HE COMPLAINS OF BEING SICK AT STOMACH WITH VOMITING AND THAT HE HURTS I HAVE TO WORK BUT NEED TO BE AT HOME MORE OR SOMEONE NEEDS TO TAKE MY HUBBY OFF MY HANDS IM NOT AT THE POINT WHERE I WANT TO KILL HIM AGAIN YET BUT IT IS GETTING CLOSE IT MAY BE TOMORROW BECAUSE I WILL HAVE TO LISTEN TO HIS MOUTH ABOUT MY DRIVING ALL THE WAY TO THE DR AND BACK HOME I THINK I NEED A WEEK SOME WHERE BY MYSELF BUT I WOULD THINK OF ALL THE THINGS I NEED TO DO AND TAKE CARE OF SO I CAN FORGET THAT SORRY FOR THE LONG VENT I FEEL BETTER NOW KAT I am using the free version of SPAMfighter for private users.It has removed 934 spam emails to date.Paying users do not have this message in their emails.Try SPAMfighter for free now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2006 Report Share Posted November 16, 2006 Patty When You Have Some Time I Need To Ask Ya A Few Questions. Love d [pmcbride1@...] wrote: Good Morning all and Kat...You poor thing, I remember when I had a sick hubby and it aint easy sugar...You need to find more time for yourself..leave the ole poot at home by him self for awhile and do something you want to do, even if it spending the night away so you can get your thoughts and mind together..you need a rest..I was working those hours and it about killed me...I started taking the weekends off two weeks ago and it has already made a difference, physically and emotionally..I was Tarrrrrrred....lol and you have two clients to care for..Tell your other half to take charge of his health or die!!..TELL HIM YOU COULD USE THE WIDOWS PENSION!)..you cant do it all for him and if he can go visit people, he can surely check his damn sugars & take his meds.....MEN!!!errrrrrrrrrrrr...shake up his world before he kills you woman...take a couple of weekends off to catch up to feel better honey... Love ya and want you to be ok Kat...Love & Hugs,Pattypooh HEY HI EVERY ONE HOPE YALL ARE DOING OK FOR ME IM NOT SURE IF IM COMING OR GOING WORKING 6 TO 7 DAYS A WEEK 12 HRS A DAY IS BETTING ME I HAVE TWO HERE TO TAKE CARE OF THE WIFE IS MY CLIENT BUT THE HUBBY HAD SURGERY AND HAS WOUND CARE TO BE DONE THEN THERE IS MY BUTHOLE AT HOME THAT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY HE IS NOT SICK ENOUGH FOR A SITTER BUT SOMETIMES IM NOT SURE HIS SUGAR DROPPED AGAIN YESTERDAY HE SAID HE GOT SICK WHILE AT HIS UNCLE'S HOUSE ASK IF HE CHECKED HIS SUGAR WHEN HE GOT HOME HE SAID I DID NOT FEEL UP TO IT IM STILL NOT FEELING GOOD HE HAS CUT OUT MOST OF HIS DIABETIC MEDS EXCEPT HIS MORNING DOSE HE COMPLAINS OF BEING SICK AT STOMACH WITH VOMITING AND THAT HE HURTS I HAVE TO WORK BUT NEED TO BE AT HOME MORE OR SOMEONE NEEDS TO TAKE MY HUBBY OFF MY HANDS IM NOT AT THE POINT WHERE I WANT TO KILL HIM AGAIN YET BUT IT IS GETTING CLOSE IT MAY BE TOMORROW BECAUSE I WILL HAVE TO LISTEN TO HIS MOUTH ABOUT MY DRIVING ALL THE WAY TO THE DR AND BACK HOME I THINK I NEED A WEEK SOME WHERE BY MYSELF BUT I WOULD THINK OF ALL THE THINGS I NEED TO DO AND TAKE CARE OF SO I CAN FORGET THAT SORRY FOR THE LONG VENT I FEEL BETTER NOW KAT ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ I am using the free version of SPAMfighter for private users. It has removed 934 spam emails to date. Paying users do not have this message in their emails. Try SPAMfighter for free now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2007 Report Share Posted January 21, 2007 Yeah, cuz you don’t already have enough to do without finding a new house, packing and moving! De Re: HEY CHAT GROUP Where does he wanna live Kat?..whos gonna do all the work(you?)..Hugs, Patty HEY CHAT GROUP I HOPE EVERYONE HAS HAD A GOOD WEEK AND ARE DOING FINE I'M GOING TO HAVE TO MISS CHAT TONIGHT I HAVE TO WORK I WILL CATCH YA'LL NEXT WEEK WE ARE DOING FINE ITS JUST DONALD DRIVING ME CRAZY HE WANT TO MOVE SOMEWHERE AND HE IS MAD BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO MOVE SO HE BEING AN A---HOLE ALL THIS WEEK KAT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 I hate that. I happened to me once, too. Glad y’all are OK though. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, honey. De HEY HEY EVERYONE JUST STOPPED BY TO SAY HI AND THAT WE ARE OK IM SORRY I FORGET TO TELL YOU I HAD TO WORK THUR AND I HAVE TO WORK THIS THUR ALSO. I DO MISS CHAT. DONALD IS OK HE IS A LITTLE UP SET SOMEONE SHOT SPORT ON SUNDAY AND HE DIED. OTHER THEN THAT WE ARE OK KAT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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