being made to feel guilty....

[Guest guest]

Do any of you have spouses or significant others that sometimes get overwhelmed

and frustrated with having to do more around the house due to us having CMT? Do

any of them say things that are so obviously hurtful (because CMT is difficult

enough

to live with without being made to feel guilty about not being able to cook

dinner or

help with the laundry on bad days), and yet still not see your point of view??

Maybe

we were just having a bad day over here yesterday but after working for 7 1/2

hours

on my feet all day and being in such pain I could barely get out of the car I

didn't

need to be made to feel worthless and guilty because I was too sore to go stand

in

the kitchen and make dinner. Usually my husband is really helpful and does the

majority of the stuff that needs to be done here as far as laundry and

vacuuming, but

sometimes when he's stressed and has a lot to do with his job he loses it and I

take it

" very, very " personally and it hurts. I have dealt with this type of thing in

the past and

it never seems to get any easier. I know I should have thrown something in the

crock

pot for dinner yesterday so it would have been ready when I came home, but I

didn't

think about it and really didn't think working would kick my butt so hard

yesterday.

has anyone else every dealt with this, and if so, what's the best way to handle

it???