RE: Installations not holding

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----- Tiffanie, you are right on it. You make me think about one part of the

last lesson on the hub: " Your constant, everyday Immunic actions. " It's the

last thing on the page of Skill 12:

http://www.immunics.org/colleague/0lesson/0che.htm

Thanks for such a great post! xo, Deanya ------------

Tiffanie wrote:

I feel that installing is something that you can do with just about

anything. The trick is to realize what is actually happening when you

install things.

Let me digress for a moment.

If you have ever been to a chiropractor, and gotten an adjustment, does one

time do it?

If you try to divert a stream with rocks and mud, does one time do it?

If you try a new habit or to break a habit, does one day do it?

No, all of these things are set in their ways and while it works for a time

or a day, it isn't permanently fixed. Does that invalidate the method? No,

it just means that you have to go back and continue the next day and the

next until the pattern is reset. 21 days for a new habit. 6-8 weeks for the

chiropractor, etc.

Installing is the same principle (removing too). Yes, you installed it

today, but tomorrow you are a new person, its a new day. You have old

problems that are worn deep into the systems and so you have to make

adjustments, put the rocks back, etc. But, eventually, if you continue, it

will become a set pattern and then you only have to check it now and then to

make sure it stays the course, because we are always encountering things in

life that are trying to change us or to resist our changes (like muscles,

and water in the above examples)

Once you understand the nature of installing and admit to yourself that it

is going to be a long haul, then you can have positive results with

installing/removing and can start tracking how long the installation last,

and seeing the length of time increasing between check ups!

You only need the desire to want to do something to begin it. Each little

step builds on the one before. Installing emotional changes are not a

copout, they are a beginning. But emotional baggage is just a solid as

physical difficulties, and often are even more set in their ruts. So you

have to plug away at them longer and harder, like taking a vitamin every

day.

Take forgiveness since it was the example below.

First you have to want to forgive. So you install the desire to forgive.

Then, after a while you realize that you want to forgive. Then you pick

someone to forgive, and you install a desire to forgive them. Soon, you

actually want to forgive them. So, you install forgiveness of them. Next

thing you know, you have forgotten why you needed to forgive them at all!

You may have to install other things as support network to the desire: (Like

mud and sticks as well as rocks and digging a furrow for the stream). These

might be: Install a more tender heart, or install understanding, etc. Little

by little it builds and you achieve success.

Can you do permanent installing and removals? Yes, but even they, will be

worn down by time and pressure, just like a concrete block set under a

dripping hose. So, you have to be vigilent. Its like taking your vitamins

even though you don't feel sick.

Lastly, sometimes you need to do something for a couple of weeks (21 days)

before testing. Its like peeling back the bandaid on the wound everyday to

see if it is well. Give it some time to heal, don't just keep inflaming it.

That's my 2 cents, from my experience.

Tiffanie

Message below:

Message: 4

Date: Sun, 10 Jul 2005 10:45:52 -0000

From: " Keely Stahl " <keely_stahl@...>

Subject: Install, or do? - by Bayard

I keep seeing people installing things they're supposed to be doing.

Later, they wonder why they didn't hold the " installation, " and are

behaving in the same old way.

The rule of thumb is:

install things that can't be done. Do things that can be done.

So, as far as your DNA codes go, these are things that have to be

worked with via removal and installation. There's an application of

Skill 1 about this:

http://www.wayimmune.org/colleague/apps/a04/0dna.htm

But if it's something you choose to do, or not do, " installing " it is

just a copout, and even though you test yes, you installed it, you may

not have any more tendency, or ability, to do it than you did before.

Like forgiveness.

Just actually see if you can forgive, and then test, " Have I

forgiven? " And keep at it till you do it -- and test that you did.

And if you're really determined to, that should only take a few

minutes, no matter what they've done to you.

Your illuminating buddy,

Bayard