Winning an argument with the spouse...

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Winning an argument with the spouse...Sometimes we do not

say what is in our mind for fear of hurting people. This silence can

cause problems. Contrarily we tell immediately what is in our mind and

this also can create misunderstandings. What do we do? There is no hard

and fast rule. There is a time and place for everything. A wrong timing

or place can do harm to relationship.Sharmila did not mean to

hurt Sanjay.Yet when he came from office and went straight to give her

a bear hug, she said, “Sanjay, you smell a lot. Take a wash and change

your dress before you come near me. Sorry, don’t take me amiss.â€It

was a truthful statement as he was stinking after the long drive in the

afternoon to the project site. The ‘sorry’ did little to assuage the

hurt in Sanjay...Click here to read the full article...

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