Re: Please guide me

[Guest guest]

Dear Gaurang,

 

When you get involved in such thoughts leading you moodlessness, start reading a book or listen a song or talk/ gossip with someone. Keep your mind engaged in activity.

 

Also practice helping people whatever small possible way you can. Complement people always whatever possible way.

 

This way your mind will be guided towards positive thought and you will feel better.

 

Regards

Chandra

On Thu, Aug 6, 2009 at 7:40 AM, Gaurang Bhatt <information1968@...> wrote:

 

Hello Friedns , I regularly read  articles on PTM in e-mail.My name is Gaurang Bhatt from Vadodara, my age is 42 I am unmarried person.I am patient of epilepsy & depression. In every moonsoon I get  deep depression.

I take medicines for epilesy & depression. I also start meditaion for it.But now-a-days I get very peculiar type thoughts every person die one day. I also die one day. If I die one day so why should I earn money, I go to office, I eat good food, I wake up early in the morning & startmy daily rouite work.I enjoy to see movie or attent party. All after in old age 60 or 65 or 70  or any age I shall die.Thinking all above thoughts I become moodless &   no concentra at my work so I request  please guide me.

 

Thanking you.fromGaurang Bhatt

[Guest guest]

dear gaurang,i think you are overexagerrating your problems because of your

depression brought about by your epilepsy and advice not to marry from your

family.

in western country it is advisable to lead as normal a life as possible and

epilepsy is brought on more because of stress related problems.you must not be

thinking that your families financial problems are yours to bear,they are not

and your family must take responsibility for their own affairs and not burden

you with it.

you should take a more independent route in your life and make decisions by

yourself....you sound like an adult so you must not be thinking you are going to

have an epileptic fit at any time.whoever you are with must be made aware of the

situation and know what to do,numbers to call etc but you must start leading

your own life,be independent and you will meet someone.....

my cousin has been epileptic since a very young age and hospitalized many times

but it didnt stop him marryin g and having children.you can do thec same but you

must take strength and courage that you are not going to fit every second of the

day.you have a life as much as anyone else so dont let epilepsy or your families

problems hinder you from enjoying it.

find your sense of self again and you will stop being so depressed...

>

> Shri MulkSir & other Friends,

> Namaskr ! Second time I want guidence. I am person of epilepsy & Depression &

I take mediciner egularly fot it. Still I am unmarried. My younger brother & my

younger sister had marriedMy father's financil positon is not good so we theree

have stayed with our grandfather & uncle. My father was purjair in temple. These

is another home beside temple my father & mother had stayed in that home. 10

years ago my father's become serious then my uncle took grandfather's house then

my mother also styed with grand father's house.And then both did'nt go temple's

house. My uncle who was teacher & he is unmarried he  good took care of us. He

spend our study expenses. My sister & my brother's marriage expense. But now he

say you not marry becase I have epilepsy & Depression. My younger brother's

nature is very good for me. When I become sick he take me hospital also. His

wife's nature is average.But I think today my uncle & my mother alive  so I say

my personal

> talk. But when thye are not in world for which person I say my talk? & old

age all man necessay some good person who take care for him?

> I request plese guide me as soon as possible.

> From

> Gaurang

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