Guest guest Posted July 10, 2005 Report Share Posted July 10, 2005 I have to leave town for a week and I'm going to miss you guys alot. You have all lifted my spirits. Thank you to everyone who has address me these past few days. I never thought there was so many of us out there who needs to just bitch sometimes and not have to feel guilty.It's been so nice to beable to actually say I'm in pain. Lastnight my back started spasming while I was cooking dinner for my son and I usally just tell my husband I'm extra sleepy and go to bed and hope noone hears my crys. But lastnight I thought you know what I'm sick of putting on a smile for them. So, I told him my back is killing me and I need to go to bed. The world didn't end and he supported me. I guess another reason I never tell him is because I'm scared he is going to get sick of being with a cripled. It's a drag being with someone like that. But now I think from this day forward I'm going to start telling people when they ask how's your back I will say It hurt's like hell and if they can't handle the truth then stop asking me.I hope while I'm out of town I can get access to the web and continue talking with you guys. If not talk with ya next week. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2005 Report Share Posted July 11, 2005 In a message dated 7/10/2005 1:06:28 P.M. Central Standard Time, rnpyoungblood@... writes: But now I think from this day forward I'm going to start telling people when they ask how's your back I will say It hurt's like hell and if they can't handle the truth then stop asking me. That is funny. I have list of " rules of dealing with me " once I get to know someone fairly well. One of them is they can ask how I feel and one of the categories is " hurts like hell " . We all only get one life and it is too short to spend with people that don't offer mutual support! I want to also say a huge thanks to everyone on this list. It has been a god send. Finding people that suffer like I do, or more, helps me put everything in perspective. Even if I choose not to be completely honest with people face to face, because they don't understand, I have this group that knows what I am talking about. You have helped me find my voice in advocating for myself. Thanks from the bottom of my heart. (TN) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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