Guest guest Posted July 18, 2008 Report Share Posted July 18, 2008 and if I am will I ever be diagnosed?I dont Know if I should keep on at myGP or try to find a private doctor.Any advice? Delainne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2008 Report Share Posted July 19, 2008 > How long have you been ill and trying to get a disgnosis of why? > Also, I don't mean to be rude, but how old are you? GPs commonly > blame malaise on various stages of women's lives and use that as an > excuse not to diagnose or treat the real problem. > > good luck, > Tracey > > --- thanks for replying.I am 35,I had my lovely 4th child 16 months ago,for about 1 year before i got pregnant i had symptoms of tiredness and anxiety,low mood.Since the baby was born I have had so many symptoms which I now Know to be hypo,the ones that affect my life the most are extreem sleepiness and tiredness,finding it impossible to lose the 2 stone baby wieght and being so slow of mind with a terrible memory.The GP said I had PNDepresion and I was taking prozac from last July tillI took myself off it in May. In the last year I have repeatedly seen the doc,I have never been allowed to tell him my full symptoms such as slow growing,thinning hair and not having to pluck my eyebrows anymore,slow pulse.I am going on hols tomorrow,when i get back I'll try the gp once more then i will have to try private.thanks for listening,Delainne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2008 Report Share Posted July 19, 2008 Ditto Delainne, except that I refused to take the antidepressants and so aquired the label of being a difficult patient! I am now 44 and my problems started around the time of the birth of my 3rd child who is now 10. So you are at the same age and stage as I was back then. I had no problems with my previous 2 births and lost the baby weight approprietly on those occasions. I've breastfed all 3 of my children far more intensively than is the norm in the UK and yet still piled on weight after the birth of my son. Even though I was exhausted for most of his toddler years, I ended up walking a lot with him just to stay awake. The muscle pain from the effort stopped me falling asleep on the hoof. Ironic isn't it! So, I was exercising and should have kept the weight off. My mood was always OK, which was why I pooh-poohed the depression diagnosis. My good humour was the one thing that stayed intact and I didn't want to risk upsetting my brain chemistry in case that broke too! I've seen people with PND and it is nothing like what I was experiencing. I knew I had typical hypothyroid symptoms as my mother is also hypothyroid (though she has a tendency to real depression too - which worsened with tranquillizers but magically eased once on the proper thyroid treatment). BUT even with all my proof - and I've since done my family tree and found EVERY blood female cousin is hypothyroid plus my greatgrandmother's photo shows she had Graves disease- the GPs and endocrinolgist kept prevaricating. I've basically spent 10 years of my life arguing with doctors! You know your body better than they do, especially after having had 4 children, so stick to your guns! I've found the advice and support from other TPA-UK forum members invaluable in starting to get my health back. The awful thing is that stories like ours go back years and are still continuing. Its like the medical profession hasn't learnt anything in all those years. The trick now is to make sure you target the right specialist to help you. Sheila has a private list of the good, bad and indifferent! Have a good holiday and try to get some time to yourself to recover from it if you need to! Tracey > ..I am 35,I had my lovely 4th child 16 months > ago,for about 1 year before i got pregnant i had symptoms of > tiredness and anxiety,low mood.Since the baby was born I have had so > many symptoms which I now Know to be hypo,the ones that affect my > life the most are extreem sleepiness and tiredness,finding it > impossible to lose the 2 stone baby wieght and being so slow of mind > with a terrible memory.The GP said I had PNDepresion and I was Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2008 Report Share Posted July 19, 2008 At my GP surgery they expect you to come with one problem at a time and to make a further 5 minute appointment if you have another problem. For years I used to just present the doctor with my most pressing complaint, whatever was bothering me most at the time. Then eventually one day I presented him with a list of all my symptoms, which ran to two columns of A4 paper. He was really impressed (!) and for the first time seemed to realise what I was up against. He was still unable to help me because all the standard tests proved negative, but his attitude changed and he was more concerned about my situation. I have been trying the private route for the last 5 years and although I haven't found the solution yet, I have a great deal more concrete information about my physical illness. Maybe tackling the adrenal and thyroid problems will prove to be the turning point. I feel it is worth throwing whatever money I have at health problems because I want to get my life back, and if I become well enough to work again it will be cost-effective. Maybe then I shall have the stamina to try and argue about a diagnosis with NHS doctors, but for the time being I am not expecting any help from them. Miriam In the last year I have repeatedly seen the doc,I have never been allowed to tell him my full symptoms such as slow growing,thinning hair and not having to pluck my eyebrows anymore,slow pulse.I am going on hols tomorrow,when i get back I'll try the gp once more then i will have to try private.thanks for listening,Delainne. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2008 Report Share Posted July 19, 2008 Hi hon Welcome and I hope you enjoy your holiday I had to wait until I was sleeping for 3 days at a time and waking up tired, nearly bald and a locum doc came into the surgery before I even got a blood test. That was in the 80s. They were listening to me but because they had already diagnosed me with anxiety disorder and depression they would go no further. ''I have never been allowed to tell him my full symptoms such as slow growing,thinning hair and not having to pluck my eyebrows anymore,slow pulse.'' I know about the 'only one complaint at a time' scenario, which is difficult when you have signs and symptoms which would lead to a diagnosis, what a stupid concept that is. I feel for you hon. lotsa luv Dawnx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2008 Report Share Posted July 20, 2008 HI n Sadly, you appear to have hit the nail on the head and it is not worth you wasting your time and energy (and more importantly your health) on the NHS doctors who have not been given the training to know how to deal with your illness. Outside doing blood tests, they haven't a clue - and if your blood tests are within the far too wide reference interval, they tell you that your health is normal and refuse to investigate further as to the cause of your symptoms. All I can encourage you to do is to read, read and then read again about hypothyroidism and the associated conditions that go hand in hand with it from our website www.tpa-uk.org.uk The more you understand, the more you will know how to treat yourself, what the tests are that you need to get done, how to interpret those tests, what condition to treat first, and why and what the next step to take is. There is light at the end of the tunnel and we can walk you through it. We have had so many members who have come to TPA not knowing where to turn and been so ill they have had to leave paid employment, who are now back to good health and back to work - so never lose hope. Keep asking questions and rattle on until you get somebody, somewhere to answer - but I would leave the NHS doctors to get on with their handing out of antidepressants giving their wonderful advice on eating the right diet , the need to get exercise, pulling yourself together etc. etc. Feeling a bit cynical today about our wonderful NHS - but then Dr P is holding his clinic at my home, and I am listening to some of the horrendous stories that some of his patients have to tell of their experience within the NHS. These stories would make anybody depressed. On a positive note, the sun is shining today, the sky is blue, there will be new patients today who will find out that a healthy future is possible and they will regain their health again. Luv - Sheila I have been trying the private route for the last 5 years and althoughI haven't found the solution yet, I have a great deal more concreteinformation about my physical illness. Maybe tackling the adrenal andthyroid problems will prove to be the turning point. I feel it isworth throwing whatever money I have at health problems because I wantto get my life back, and if I become well enough to work again it willbe cost-effective. Maybe then I shall have the stamina to try andargue about a diagnosis with NHS doctors, but for the time being I amnot expecting any help from them. Miriam In the last year I have repeatedly seen the doc,I have never beenallowed to tell him my full symptoms such as slow growing,thinninghair and not having to pluck my eyebrows anymore,slow pulse.I am goingon hols tomorrow,when i get back I'll try the gp once more then iwill have to try private.thanks for listening,Delainne.>No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG - http://www.avg.com Version: 8.0.138 / Virus Database: 270.5.2/1561 - Release Date: 18/07/2008 18:35 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2008 Report Share Posted July 20, 2008 Hi Delainne, sorry to hear you're not having much luck with your GP. Have you had any thyroid tests at all? You need TSH, free T3, Free T4, thyroid antibodies doing. The best thing you can do before you go back to see your GP is to type out the list of your symptoms and how they affect you, this will go in your notes. I had to do that as head goes blank when I see my GP, not good :-) If you have no luck with current GP, would you be able to try another one? Ruth x > > > > How long have you been ill and trying to get a disgnosis of why? > > Also, I don't mean to be rude, but how old are you? GPs commonly > > blame malaise on various stages of women's lives and use that as an > > excuse not to diagnose or treat the real problem. > > > > good luck, > > Tracey > > > > --- thanks for replying.I am 35,I had my lovely 4th child 16 months > ago,for about 1 year before i got pregnant i had symptoms of > tiredness and anxiety,low mood.Since the baby was born I have had so > many symptoms which I now Know to be hypo,the ones that affect my > life the most are extreem sleepiness and tiredness,finding it > impossible to lose the 2 stone baby wieght and being so slow of mind > with a terrible memory.The GP said I had PNDepresion and I was taking > prozac from last July tillI took myself off it in May. In the last > year I have repeatedly seen the doc,I have never been allowed to tell > him my full symptoms such as slow growing,thinning hair and not > having to pluck my eyebrows anymore,slow pulse.I am going on hols > tomorrow,when i get back I'll try the gp once more then i will have > to try private.thanks for listening,Delainne. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2008 Report Share Posted July 20, 2008 Hi Dawn Having at various points over the past few years told my doc about various symptoms I feel that they were brushed off due to my diagnosis of recurrent depression. I was telling my cpn the other day and said how I feel that when you tell of symptoms like the ones I have been having and you have a mental health diagnosis you are seen as being a neurotic woman and given the brush off. She was shocked that despite having bloods done for certain things I had never had full bloods taken until a few weeks ago when it looked like I may have kidney problems (my kidneys are fine by the way). Has anyone else had a similar reception due to having a mental health diagnosis? Jen > I had to wait until I was sleeping for 3 days at a time and waking up > tired, nearly bald and a locum doc came into the surgery before I even > got a blood test. That was in the 80s. They were listening to me but > because they had already diagnosed me with anxiety disorder and > depression they would go no further. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2008 Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 Hi Jen, I have had my symptoms blamed on being a young mother, being a housewife, being a woman (!), depression (which was 10 years ago when I lost my grandpa), even being married to someone older than me. My previous GP is very sexist, last time I saw him he said he sees lots of women like me whatever that's supposed to mean and that I'm disrepectful for not trusting his opinion and not to go back to see him because I have CFS and there's nothing he can do or indeed wants to do for me. I stormed out slamming the door and changed to another practice. I intend to complain to the GMC about him. It's obvious that he only cares about money, not his patients and I'm not alone in thinking this. It worries me that he said he sees many women like me and they probably get the same treatment. Ruth x > > Has anyone else had a similar reception due to having a mental health > diagnosis? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2008 Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 Someone ought to have told him that if he treated his patients correctly there might be less women 'like you' . Reminds me of the case of the doctor treating diabetics giving them the wrong advice. All his patients ended up with serious complications. He then wrote a paper to say that ALL diabetics get complications (omitting to say what advice he was giving them as he took it for granted that all doctors gave the same advice). Other doctors who read the paper, presumed that the doctor was giving his patients the same correct advice as they were then believed that all diabetics got complications and therefore treated their patients as if it were inevitable. It became self perpetuating. When some patients didn't get complications it was not put down to the fact that they were being given the correct advice because "everyone knew they got complications". But then I once overheard a conversation where one woman was telling the other that "everyone knows eating eggs gives you high cholesterol". It is the "everyone knows" that stops people thinking for themselves. And it would not surprise me that doctors fall into the same trap. Take Armour for example "everyone knows it is unstable", so the myth is self perpetuating. Lilian My previous GP is very sexist, last time I saw him he said he sees lots of women like me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2008 Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 Hi Ruth, I imagine that if it keeps happening (as with yourself) the PCT will be looking hard at his capacity/empathy as a doctor .... poor bed- side manner leads to poorer patients ~ who then take much longer to recover after an interaction of that sort. As independent 'contractors' the only way to make an impression is that they loose too many of their patients. Non-compliant patients may be the ones who do some of their own research. Patients who are then patronised for having the temerity to question God in his wisdom inflict clear wounds when they get angry at such (non-) treatment......such ingratitude...bah... The regrettable consequence is that the practice then acquires an overload of 'compliant' and 'respectful' ageing patients and no young mothers. One GOD down...too many to go... Bob > > Hi Jen, I have had my symptoms blamed on being a young mother, being a housewife, being a woman (!), depression (which was 10 years ago when I lost my grandpa) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2008 Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 Incidentally, what is the correct advice for people with diabetes? I mean Type 1 here. I have a friend who is getting complications. Thanks, Miriam > > Someone ought to have told him that if he treated his patients correctly there might be less women 'like you' . > > Reminds me of the case of the doctor treating diabetics giving them the wrong advice. All his patients ended up with serious complications. He then wrote a paper to say that ALL diabetics get complications (omitting to say what advice he was giving them as he took it for granted that all doctors gave the same advice). Other doctors who read the paper, presumed that the doctor was giving his patients the same correct advice as they were then believed that all diabetics got complications and therefore treated their patients as if it were inevitable. It became self perpetuating. When some patients didn't get complications it was not put down to the fact that they were being given the correct advice because " everyone knew they got complications " . > > > Lilian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2008 Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 Agree with you there Lilian, this is one of my favourite quotes which is very fitting: " Do not believe in what you have heard; do not believe in traditions becuase they have been handed down for many generations; do not believe anything becuase it is rumoured and spoken of by many; do not believe merely because some old sage are produced; do not believe in conjectures; do not believe in that as a truth to which you have become attached to by habit; do not believe on the authority of your teachers or elders. After observation and analysis; when it agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it. " (Gautama Buddha, spoken 50 BC) I have so much respect for all those people who question the 'norm' and try to change the world for the better even at personal cost, Dr P for example, one of many people who work tirelessly to help people. They do exist within the NHS but unfortunately there are ones that let them down. Ruth x > > Someone ought to have told him that if he treated his patients correctly there might be less women 'like you' . > > Reminds me of the case of the doctor treating diabetics giving them the wrong advice. All his patients ended up with serious complications. He then wrote a paper to say that ALL diabetics get complications (omitting to say what advice he was giving them as he took it for granted that all doctors gave the same advice). Other doctors who read the paper, presumed that the doctor was giving his patients the same correct advice as they were then believed that all diabetics got complications and therefore treated their patients as if it were inevitable. It became self perpetuating. When some patients didn't get complications it was not put down to the fact that they were being given the correct advice because " everyone knew they got complications " . > > But then I once overheard a conversation where one woman was telling the other that " everyone knows eating eggs gives you high cholesterol " . It is the " everyone knows " that stops people thinking for themselves. And it would not surprise me that doctors fall into the same trap. Take Armour for example " everyone knows it is unstable " , so the myth is self perpetuating. > > Lilian > > My previous GP is very sexist, last time I saw him he said he sees lots of women like me > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2008 Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 What seems to be happening these days that if the number of people suffering an ailment exceeds a critical mass, then the definition of " normal " is changed so that illness is considered normal. I'm not even being cynical. There is a skin condition (I cannot remember its name but both my daughter and I have patches of it)which used to be considered a defect when a small percentage of people displayed it. It can be unsightly but it is no big deal. Such a high percentage of the population now has it to some extent that, these days, it is simply regarded a skin variation. I do hope the same doesn't happen with thyroid problems. Tracey <snipped> After observation and analysis; when it agrees > with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, > then accept it and live up to it. " (Gautama Buddha, spoken 50 BC) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2008 Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 > > Incidentally, what is the correct advice for people with diabetes? I > mean Type 1 here. I have a friend who is getting complications. Miriam, the correct advice for all diabetics, whether Type 1 or Type 2 (I am Type 2 myself) is to maintain stable blood sugars around the clock. Normal, stable blood sugars is the holy grail of diabetes management and is perfectly manageable for all diabetics. The attitude of doctors that diabetics can't be expected or even encouraged to keep normal blood sugars is plain wrong. All your friend needs to know can be found in this book: Dr Bernstein's Diabetes Solution: Complete Guide to Achieving Normal Blood Sugars Available on amazon. Dr Bernstein is a lifelong T1 and he is well into his seventies and in perfect health. Although his method is oftentimes tedious, I prefer it to blindness, neuropathy and salami surgery. Personally, I was developing complications, but when I got my blood sugars under control, they healed themselves. I cannot recommend this book highly enough. Rosie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2008 Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 Hi Rosie The name of Professor *Greet van den Berghe crops up time and again in her work on critical care and managing blood glucose levels during a critical period of illness ~ it seems to apply to survival as well. *The Catholic Universiy of Leuven, Belgium. best wishes Bob > > --- In thyroid treatment , " miriam_hinch " > <miriam_hinch@> wrote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2008 Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 Thanks very much Rosie. Maybe I'll recommend that book to my friend. I am pleased to see Dr Bernstein's advice ties in with what Taubes says in " Good Calories, Bad Calories " which I think highly of. This charts the history of nutritional advice in the States and shows how the public ended up being given recommendations that are in conflict with scientific research! http://www.nytimes.com/2007/10/07/books/review/Kolata-t.html Miriam > > > Miriam, the correct advice for all diabetics, whether Type 1 or Type 2 > (I am Type 2 myself) is to maintain stable blood sugars around the > clock. Normal, stable blood sugars is the holy grail of diabetes > management and is perfectly manageable for all diabetics. The > attitude of doctors that diabetics can't be expected or even > encouraged to keep normal blood sugars is plain wrong. > > All your friend needs to know can be found in this book: > > Dr Bernstein's Diabetes Solution: Complete Guide to Achieving Normal > Blood Sugars > > Available on amazon. Dr Bernstein is a lifelong T1 and he is well > into his seventies and in perfect health. Although his method is > oftentimes tedious, I prefer it to blindness, neuropathy and salami > surgery. Personally, I was developing complications, but when I got > my blood sugars under control, they healed themselves. > > I cannot recommend this book highly enough. > > Rosie > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2008 Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 Well Tracey - considering that some doctors (such as Dr P) consider there are as many as 1 in 4 who suffer with a thyroid problem, perhaps it has now become too common a malady and it is now considered 'normal' for people to have this condition. Luv - Sheila What seems to be happening these days that if the number of people suffering an ailment exceeds a critical mass, then the definition of "normal" is changed so that illness is considered normal. .. No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG - http://www.avg.com Version: 8.0.138 / Virus Database: 270.5.3/1564 - Release Date: 21/07/2008 06:42 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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