Re: , Cathrine, and Lou: here's an idea

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> What do you say we drop this and all join in the sexual dysfunction

> thread instead? Despite their 0% sex drive, they all seem to be

> having a better time than we are! Especially Mel and her husband.

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LOL!!! See? Leave it to sex to change a subject, and fast. Come join our

orgasm/no-orgasm

thread, girls and boys, you will have a marvelous time!

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> What do you say we drop this and all join in the sexual

dysfunction

> thread instead?

Sounds good to me, lol! And I am in the same boat as you

...I finally am feeling better and hubby is working super

long hours and is crabby as all get out! Oh well, maybe soon we

will both be in good moods, like eachother and be awake at the same

times. lol

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> > What do you say we drop this and all join in the sexual

> dysfunction

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> Sounds good to me, lol! And I am in the same boat as you

> ...I finally am feeling better and hubby is working super

> long hours and is crabby as all get out! Oh well, maybe soon we

> will both be in good moods, like eachother and be awake at the same

> times. lol

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, that's a tough situation. I've had " DH-not-interested "

problems since the baby was born. The baby is 11 months old now. DH

is constantly tired (as am I). But I kept feeling that it was

important to have sex to stay connected, so I kept getting rejected.

Honestly, it's been like that since I first got pregnant in 2002, now

that I think of it. DH can be an animal (yay!) but when anything is

going on in his head, he loses the urge entirely (boo!). I can

understand it, though. Yet it feels like rejection.

Not enough rejection for me to stop trying to jump him, though. If I

were you I'd keep being playful when you can, or make a sexy comment

here and there, and he will know that despite his long hours and no

matter what's going on in his head, he's still the stud you married,

and that may help. I know it's hard in a situation like that to " get

it together " until you're both on the same page. But it will work out

for you two. I'll be thinking of you!

p.s. CATHERINE, your comment had me rolling... I'm picturing your

DH with shadows under his eyes, pleading, " No more...please...just

let me watch CNN... "

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Now that the doc is discontinuing Lex I've had a couple good rolls in the

hay with my dh. I'm just hoping EffexorXR doesn't ruin it all again.

Hehehehe.

Thea

, Cathrine, and Lou: here's an idea

> What do you say we drop this and all join in the sexual dysfunction

> thread instead? Despite their 0% sex drive, they all seem to be

> having a better time than we are! Especially Mel and her husband.

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