Guest guest Posted January 28, 2010 Report Share Posted January 28, 2010 Well, for me I didn't experience those feelings. You have to stop and remind yourself, you and your body have been through a lot. You didn't say what you age is. You didn't say if you have skin that is sagging now either. I think it is worth talking to someone--maybe a counselor. And talk with your partner, so he doesn't think it is about him. You said you were uncomfortable with your body before, it takes the mind awhile to heal too. In your brain you may still be thinking like the person who still has 83 pounds to lose. Don't be embarrassed about asking things like this. I say talk with you partner because he may be able to help if he thinks you are interested. Sometimes, it just takes a little jump start and he might be able to help you feel a little more comfortable. Being open and honest with him will make him feel better too. Take care, Suzanne In a message dated 1/28/2010 8:12:22 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, chicalatina928@... writes: This is very imbarrasing to me but I have to ask ~I wanted to find out if any have had any type of sexual side effects due to surgery ? I was very uncomfortable with my body before but now 83lbs lighter its got real bad I'm with no sexual appetite. I just wanted to know if its because of the surgery or not I've started to get concerned please help. Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2010 Report Share Posted January 28, 2010 I feel uncomfortable too. And I hardly ever want to get frisky. I find myself not wanting to "do" it as much, if ever. Poor hubby has to bribe me for any nooky right now. It never used to be that way. But I feel so much more drained after work and the last thing I want to do is get down. I think my body is still healing, and that's just the way it is right now. Maybe it will get better.I also noticed that I am way more sensitive these days. Certain positions that I used to love really hurt me now. What about you? Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerryFrom: chicalatina928@...Date: Thu, 28 Jan 2010 23:35:24 +0000< >Subject: After sleeve surgery This is very imbarrasing to me but I have to ask ~I wanted to find out if any have had any type of sexual side effects due to surgery ? I was very uncomfortable with my body before but now 83lbs lighter its got real bad I'm with no sexual appetite. I just wanted to know if its because of the surgery or not I've started to get concerned please help. Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2010 Report Share Posted January 29, 2010 No... have your vitamin and hormone levels checked. From: chicalatina928@... <chicalatina928@...>Subject: After sleeve surgery Date: Thursday, January 28, 2010, 6:35 PM This is very imbarrasing to me but I have to ask ~I wanted to find out if any have had any type of sexual side effects due to surgery ? I was very uncomfortable with my body before but now 83lbs lighter its got real bad I'm with no sexual appetite. I just wanted to know if its because of the surgery or not I've started to get concerned please help. Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2010 Report Share Posted January 29, 2010 I still feel this way... Sleeved 1 yr 5 mos ago... Robyn Boothe. After sleeve surgery This is very imbarrasing to me but I have to ask ~I wanted to find out if any have had any type of sexual side effects due to surgery ? I was very uncomfortable with my body before but now 83lbs lighter its got real bad I'm with no sexual appetite. I just wanted to know if its because of the surgery or not I've started to get concerned please help. Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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