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Jerome,

I have a similar problem. My personal ENT said very few words in a

consultation which was " Mr. Gollinger, I think you would do very well with a

cochlear implant. " However the audiogram and the real world are two different

things for me. My audiogram indicates high frequency sound missing but I hear

about 80 Db in both years at low frequency, People who modulate their voice

and do not speak in whispers I hear good.

CI Implant runs the risks of tinnitus, vertigo and other disorders that came

from the treatment. I realize those people on this list who are totally or near

totally deaf the pros of a CI Implant outweigh the cons. That is just my

perspective, and I do not speak for anyone else.I function good with hearing

aids and for the time being and just for the time being I prefer for myself the

status quo.

Gerald

Jerome Tan <tan.jerome@...> wrote:

Hi,

I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

I'm in this kind of situation:

1. I can deal with people I know.

2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe to

profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years as

I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm thinking

of having my left ear only implanted.

Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

Regards,

Jerome

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Jerome, you said were tested two years ago and told that you were not a

candidate for CI? Maybe you could try again now. I know people don't have to be

totally deaf to qualify now. I was profoundly deaf in both ears, but not

completely deaf. It depends on your decibel losses and your speech

discrimination, and whether hearing aids will help that, I think. If you are

unable to understand speech with hearing aids, and really want to have a CI,

then I think you should give it another try. Where do you live? It might not be

a bad idea to try a different center, if there is another one near you.

Jane

should i insist?

Hi,

I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

I'm in this kind of situation:

1. I can deal with people I know.

2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe to

profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years as

I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm thinking

of having my left ear only implanted.

Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

Regards,

Jerome

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Jerome,

Where are you located? You need to go to a good CI center and get evaluated.

I think the criteria varies from place to place, but in Alabama with BCBS

(one of the stricter places), your speech discrimination must be below 50%

on the sentence test in best aided conditions. I " failed " on my final

evaluation in July. I think the score ended up being 38%.

Remember, you are only going to have one ear implanted, so you will still

have your existing hearing in the other ear. If possible based on the tests

they will do, you want to have your worst ear implanted. Have you ever been

to a CI retreat or group of CI users? If not, you should try to find one in

your area. I think you will feel much better going forward if you can meet

and interact with a number of people who have them. I went to a CI retreat

in Georgia in June, and if I had any doubts about going forward before, they

were gone after that retreat. They were all hearing so much better than me.

If you've got the best hearing aids and aren't doing any better than what

you say, you should definitely insist on going forward with the CI.

Good luck to you.

Lynn

Fairhope, AL

Nucleus Freedom

Surgery date: 9/6/06

Activation date: 9/27/06

_____

From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of

Jerome Tan

Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2006 5:34 AM

Subject: should i insist?

Hi,

I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

I'm in this kind of situation:

1. I can deal with people I know.

2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe to

profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years as

I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm thinking

of having my left ear only implanted.

Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

Regards,

Jerome

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I'm from Philippines.

1. If the speaker is female, I understand 0%. If the speaker has deep low

tone voice, I think I could go as far as 60%.

2. With lip reading and with person I know, I can go as far as 80%

especially with my family members. But with stranger whose verbal cues are

unpredictable to me, I think I can't pass more than 50%.

3. I'm able to understand speech with hearing aids coupled with lipreading.

4. I understand 0% when I watch English TV shows but understand more than

50% when I watch local language show. Filipino language is heavy on vowels

while English is more on consonants.

Regards,

Jerome

On 11/30/06, dogsville <dogsville@...> wrote:

>

> Jerome, you said were tested two years ago and told that you were not a

> candidate for CI? Maybe you could try again now. I know people don't have to

> be totally deaf to qualify now. I was profoundly deaf in both ears, but not

> completely deaf. It depends on your decibel losses and your speech

> discrimination, and whether hearing aids will help that, I think. If you are

> unable to understand speech with hearing aids, and really want to have a CI,

> then I think you should give it another try. Where do you live? It might not

> be a bad idea to try a different center, if there is another one near you.

> Jane

> should i insist?

>

> Hi,

>

> I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

>

> I'm in this kind of situation:

>

> 1. I can deal with people I know.

> 2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

> 3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

> 4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

> cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

> range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

> 5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe

> to

> profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

> 6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years

> as

> I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

>

> Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm

> thinking

> of having my left ear only implanted.

>

> Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

>

> Regards,

> Jerome

>

>

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I'll try to check if I can meet any CI people locally.

Regards,

Jerome

On 11/30/06, Lynn <HibiscusBelle@...> wrote:

>

> Jerome,

> Where are you located? You need to go to a good CI center and get

> evaluated.

> I think the criteria varies from place to place, but in Alabama with BCBS

> (one of the stricter places), your speech discrimination must be below 50%

> on the sentence test in best aided conditions. I " failed " on my final

> evaluation in July. I think the score ended up being 38%.

>

> Remember, you are only going to have one ear implanted, so you will still

> have your existing hearing in the other ear. If possible based on the

> tests

> they will do, you want to have your worst ear implanted. Have you ever

> been

> to a CI retreat or group of CI users? If not, you should try to find one

> in

> your area. I think you will feel much better going forward if you can meet

> and interact with a number of people who have them. I went to a CI retreat

> in Georgia in June, and if I had any doubts about going forward before,

> they

> were gone after that retreat. They were all hearing so much better than

> me.

>

> If you've got the best hearing aids and aren't doing any better than what

> you say, you should definitely insist on going forward with the CI.

>

> Good luck to you.

> Lynn

> Fairhope, AL

>

> Nucleus Freedom

> Surgery date: 9/6/06

> Activation date: 9/27/06

>

> _____

>

> From: <%40> [mailto:

> <%40>] On Behalf Of

> Jerome Tan

> Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2006 5:34 AM

> <%40>

> Subject: should i insist?

>

>

> Hi,

>

> I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

>

> I'm in this kind of situation:

>

> 1. I can deal with people I know.

> 2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

> 3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

> 4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

> cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

> range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

> 5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe

> to

> profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

> 6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years

> as

> I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

>

> Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm

> thinking

> of having my left ear only implanted.

>

> Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

>

> Regards,

> Jerome

>

> .

>

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Jerome,

No one can tell you what to do, they can only give an opinion that they

themselves would do. If your situation were mine, yes I would insist,

especially

knowing what I have gained wince being able to hear again! If YOU are not

happy with your life the way it is, then you should insist. If you are happy

with things the way they are now, then you should not insist!

In a message dated 11/30/2006 7:14:33 AM Eastern Standard Time,

tan.jerome@... writes:

Hi,

I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

I'm in this kind of situation:

1. I can deal with people I know.

2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe to

profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years as

I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm thinking

of having my left ear only implanted.

Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

Regards,

Jerome

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Jerome,

You don't have to be totally deaf in order to qualify for a CI. Many people

with severe-profound losses (myself included) have been implanted. CI

candidacy was relaxed several years ago allowing people with severe-profound

loss to be implanted as long as they met the criteria for speech

discrimination.

I would talk to your surgeon again and if he is still unwilling to implant

you (because you're not totally deaf), perhaps you might want to be

evaluated at a different CI center.

Left ear - Nucleus 24 Contour Advance with 3G

Implanted: 12/22/04 Activated: 1/18/05

Right ear - Nucleus Freedom

Implanted: 2/1/06 Activated: 3/1/06

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Gerald,

Yes, I can hear people who modulate their voice with hearing aid. And do not

understand people if they don't modulate their voice, even if it's louder.

I've loud tinnitus already in both ears, much worse on my left ear.

Regards,

Jerome

On 11/30/06, Gerald Gollinger <gerald3nyc@...> wrote:

>

> Jerome,

>

> I have a similar problem. My personal ENT said very few words in a

> consultation which was " Mr. Gollinger, I think you would do very well with a

> cochlear implant. " However the audiogram and the real world are two

> different things for me. My audiogram indicates high frequency sound missing

> but I hear about 80 Db in both years at low frequency, People who modulate

> their voice and do not speak in whispers I hear good.

>

> CI Implant runs the risks of tinnitus, vertigo and other disorders that

> came from the treatment. I realize those people on this list who are totally

> or near totally deaf the pros of a CI Implant outweigh the cons. That is

> just my perspective, and I do not speak for anyone else.I function good

> with hearing aids and for the time being and just for the time being I

> prefer for myself the status quo.

>

> Gerald

>

>

>

>

> Jerome Tan <tan.jerome@... <tan.jerome%40gmail.com>> wrote:

> Hi,

>

> I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

>

> I'm in this kind of situation:

>

> 1. I can deal with people I know.

> 2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

> 3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

> 4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

> cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

> range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

> 5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe

> to

> profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

> 6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years

> as

> I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

>

> Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm

> thinking

> of having my left ear only implanted.

>

> Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

>

> Regards,

> Jerome

>

>

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By the way, I want to add that with kid voice or female voice younger than

30, I can't understand them at all...

Regards,

Jerome

On 12/1/06, Jerome Tan <tan.jerome@...> wrote:

>

> Gerald,

>

> Yes, I can hear people who modulate their voice with hearing aid. And do

> not understand people if they don't modulate their voice, even if it's

> louder. I've loud tinnitus already in both ears, much worse on my left ear.

>

> Regards,

> Jerome

>

> On 11/30/06, Gerald Gollinger <gerald3nyc@...> wrote:

> >

> > Jerome,

> >

> > I have a similar problem. My personal ENT said very few words in a

> > consultation which was " Mr. Gollinger, I think you would do very well with a

> > cochlear implant. " However the audiogram and the real world are two

> > different things for me. My audiogram indicates high frequency sound missing

> > but I hear about 80 Db in both years at low frequency, People who modulate

> > their voice and do not speak in whispers I hear good.

> >

> > CI Implant runs the risks of tinnitus, vertigo and other disorders that

> > came from the treatment. I realize those people on this list who are totally

> > or near totally deaf the pros of a CI Implant outweigh the cons. That is

> > just my perspective, and I do not speak for anyone else.I function good

> > with hearing aids and for the time being and just for the time being I

> > prefer for myself the status quo.

> >

> > Gerald

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Jerome Tan <tan.jerome@... <tan.jerome%40gmail.com>> wrote:

> > Hi,

> >

> > I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

> >

> > I'm in this kind of situation:

> >

> > 1. I can deal with people I know.

> > 2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

> > 3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

> > 4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as

> > I

> > cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of

> > dynamic

> > range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

> > 5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm

> > severe to

> > profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

> > 6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years

> > as

> > I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

> >

> > Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm

> > thinking

> > of having my left ear only implanted.

> >

> > Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Jerome

> >

> >

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Jerome I think that you will have to meet the criteria for a implant and if the

doctor says you don't meet the criteria then I would go to another doctor to get

a second opinion. It is my understanding that unless you meet the criteria

doctors will not implant you and you will not be able to get insurance approval.

I do believe in the last two years the criteria have changed so if you see an

ENT you might find that you don't need to insist as you may now qualify. I had

a little chuckle at your mention of a good ear and a bad ear as I was the same

way. Well now, one year after my CI, I realize that what I hear with my " good "

ear is minimal compared to what I hear with my CI in my bad ear.

Connie

Jerome Tan <tan.jerome@...> wrote:

Hi,

I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

I'm in this kind of situation:

1. I can deal with people I know.

2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe to

profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years as

I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm thinking

of having my left ear only implanted.

Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

Regards,

Jerome

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Jerome me again.

The reason you don't understand female voices as well as male voices is

because you have probably lost your hearing in the high pitched areas--most

female voices are high pitch. This is not uncommon. Before my CI I too could

understand my family especially my husband better than anyone else. His voice

is very low and he always made a point of talking slowly and enunciating slowly.

One thing I would suggest to you is to try to listen to the person you think

you hear best but close your eyes when you listen and that will be a good

indicator as to what you are really hearing and what you are lipreading. I know

in my case I was shocked how little I was really hearing and even my doctor told

me I was an excellent lip reader.

Connie

Jerome Tan <tan.jerome@...> wrote:

I'm from Philippines.

1. If the speaker is female, I understand 0%. If the speaker has deep low

tone voice, I think I could go as far as 60%.

2. With lip reading and with person I know, I can go as far as 80%

especially with my family members. But with stranger whose verbal cues are

unpredictable to me, I think I can't pass more than 50%.

3. I'm able to understand speech with hearing aids coupled with lipreading.

4. I understand 0% when I watch English TV shows but understand more than

50% when I watch local language show. Filipino language is heavy on vowels

while English is more on consonants.

Regards,

Jerome

On 11/30/06, dogsville <dogsville@...> wrote:

>

> Jerome, you said were tested two years ago and told that you were not a

> candidate for CI? Maybe you could try again now. I know people don't have to

> be totally deaf to qualify now. I was profoundly deaf in both ears, but not

> completely deaf. It depends on your decibel losses and your speech

> discrimination, and whether hearing aids will help that, I think. If you are

> unable to understand speech with hearing aids, and really want to have a CI,

> then I think you should give it another try. Where do you live? It might not

> be a bad idea to try a different center, if there is another one near you.

> Jane

> should i insist?

>

> Hi,

>

> I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

>

> I'm in this kind of situation:

>

> 1. I can deal with people I know.

> 2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing problem.

> 3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

> 4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much worse as I

> cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance of dynamic

> range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

> 5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because I'm severe

> to

> profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

> 6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next 10 years

> as

> I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

>

> Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting, I'm

> thinking

> of having my left ear only implanted.

>

> Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

>

> Regards,

> Jerome

>

>

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Hi Jerome,

I hope you take 's post to heart. She is right on about

how you need to decide if you are happy with your life the way it is

or not and then you'll have your own answer as to wheather to insist

on being implanted or not.

I wasn't quite in the same boat as you are now; but I grew up

with profound hearing loss in both ears and only wore a hearing aid

in my left ear. My right ear was never aidable. The best way I

could describe hearing with a hearing aid was muffled and

distorted. But, that's what I knew. I didn't know any better

hearing so I never complained. I was only good at lipreading as

the speaker was speaking so the word " what " was one of my most used

words. In the late 80's my audiologist wanted to have me tested

for a CI; but I was not ready for it. I was not ready to go into

the unknown. Plus, it did not help that there was a guy in the

waiting room who had been implanted 3 weeks before and he was not

hearing well at all and was screaming and said he was confused by

what he was hearing. At that time, that was not for me and I told

them so. I knew what I had with my hearing aid and as long as I

was getting by in college with notetakers and lipreading, I was

content. Then in 2002, I lost the final wee bit of my aidable

hearing and then and only then was I ready for the CI testing. I

was implanted a month after being declared a CI Candidate. It's

been one heck of a journey since surgery day! Do I regret waiting

all those years to get implanted? Nope! I knew I was not ready.

Back then I was content and happy with the way my life was going. I

didn't know any other way of life to know how much better my

hearing could have been and what my life could be like today. I am

in awe with what my CI has given me in almost 4 years of being

hooked up! I am very glad I got implanted.

Good luck to you on your decision. It's one only you can make.

Patti

Surgery Day 11/25/02 (What A Day!)

Hook Up Day BWP 1/2/03 (A Happy Day!)

3G 1/31/03 (An Even Happier Day!)

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Jerome,

How does the funding of CIs work in the Philippines?

Are you seeking coverage under private health insurance or are you

going through some kind of public health system? I think the

criteria is more fixed for the latter because they like to

prioritise people in terms of need. But with private health

insurance you should definitely put up a good fight.

I wonder if you should do some kind of research that shows that

overseas you would meet the criteria and there are good benefits for

yourself and then present it to your doctors?

From what you have described about the way you function you simply

aren't getting much benefit from conventional aids.

> >

> > Jerome, you said were tested two years ago and told that you

were not a

> > candidate for CI? Maybe you could try again now. I know people

don't have to

> > be totally deaf to qualify now. I was profoundly deaf in both

ears, but not

> > completely deaf. It depends on your decibel losses and your

speech

> > discrimination, and whether hearing aids will help that, I

think. If you are

> > unable to understand speech with hearing aids, and really want

to have a CI,

> > then I think you should give it another try. Where do you live?

It might not

> > be a bad idea to try a different center, if there is another one

near you.

> > Jane

> > should i insist?

> >

> > Hi,

> >

> > I'm still stuck whether I should insist on getting CI.

> >

> > I'm in this kind of situation:

> >

> > 1. I can deal with people I know.

> > 2. I lipread very well, not all people can detect my hearing

problem.

> > 3. With stranger, I'm helpless unless I started the conversation.

> > 4. My two ears are both severe to profound, with left ear much

worse as I

> > cannot discriminate well. Yes, I can appreciate the importance

of dynamic

> > range by comparing the hearing of my left and right ear.

> > 5. Two (2) years ago doctors do not want to implant me because

I'm severe

> > to

> > profound, they want total deaf before they can implant.

> > 6. I doubt I can be total deaf any time soon, even for the next

10 years

> > as

> > I can hear low frequency sounds way below the speech range.

> >

> > Now, back to original, should I insist? Should I be insisting,

I'm

> > thinking

> > of having my left ear only implanted.

> >

> > Would be glad to receive different opinions. Thanks.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Jerome

> >

> >

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