[Relationships] Book of Life Relationships ~Maurene

[Guest guest]

Turning the Page in Your Book of

Life Relationships- Partnership Inventory The New Ascended Masters- through Maurene

Question: There are times when I can

barely tolerate my husband. How do I know if we are holding each other back or

just mirroring our issues? It seems I have to drag him along the path? I am

considering leaving him? I’m no longer willing to live as a prisoner in

my own house. Should I divorce?

Answer: As you make the shift into the new Earth energy,

your soul spirit naturally claims that you trade/complete more of your human

ego needs and old ideas of loving for more

independence and self love. Your Soul Spirit awakens and reminds you

at this time, that your primary relationship has always been the one you have

with your own soul spirit as your: lover, source, supply, channel, guide, and

inner immortal healer. Yet, many memory videos may still fly out of the body’s

emotions, telling you that everyone in your life is a lie, that love will

always be a trap, and you’ll never escape the recycling bin of never

ending disappointment, un-fulfillment, and enslavement. Such is the appearance

and not the real you! Your body wants to be one unified heart chakra, no longer

split into fractioned crystals, but one that moves through space and time like

a fluid playful spiraling orb. When did you last acknowledge your own beauty?

Your sexual bodies are challenged to move/transform the FALSE SELF energy in the lower chakras of: 1)

survival/death, 2) self worth/dis-eased identity and 3) power/loss of control. This

life force I AM energy wants to spiral up the spine seeking the true heart and

raising up to the brain to turn on new brain cells. The spirit wants to claim

the sexual energy to create, to open the brain channels, and share love with

those of equal frequency and purpose. The true heart wants abundant life,

unique expression, and soul power as its own. The flesh body is claimed by the

soul heart agenda of completion and awakening, while the spirit observers and

pours through the love spout whenever we surrender to play with life! What can you allow yourself to receive from spirit?

The more receptive you are; the more open is your channel to guidance and receiving

support in your conscious dream management.

Relationship with one person can be very limiting in this time of

global community, unless there is equal communication, respect, shared purpose,

constant change and re-evaluation with commitment; not to speak of time alone

for inner investigation and guidance.

Women are used to the role of being emotional and spiritual caretakers

while men follow as the physical and mental caretakers. Now both roles must be

combined as dramatic global awakening, on all levels, stresses a redefinition

of love. Soul and Spirit service queries to all; ‘Can you be your true

self, share your love and unique gifts with the world, and be a part of the

oneness of all life again?’ Many of you have yet to share un-judging love

with those you now live with and are intimate with. Add the stress of morphing

your bodies, receiving downloads of new information daily and becoming a new

self with the old struggling to let go and desperately clinging to maintain

control.

Can you change and surrender the old weaponry of love in your old

addictive bodies’ emotions, with beliefs and lies of enslavement,

control, and getting a love reflection, a fix, from outside the self. Allow

false self the grieving of these seeming lost possibilities from the lockdown

of the soul. For as these memories rise up to say goodbye, they offer sweet revelations and flashes of why your

genius created them, under the veils. Enjoy this profound liquid focus of your

inner source where the invisible realms call to you, reassuring you that your

true gifts await, now that you have mastered; that nothing outside of you

happens unless it is going on inside of you first! Allow the inventory below

to help you evaluate your self love with partner.

Partnership Inventory: Turning the Page in Your

Life Book Completions:

_DO you move in/out of phase in sympathetic vibration? If one of

you shifts, does the other follow? Are you focused on human or the false self

differences, or are you both ready to look for your deeper soul desires?

_Are you willing to be your own inner partner first?

_Have you both lost the real “yous”, and you are so

suppressed that you are now paralyzed by the others presence, such that being

apart is a necessity to get you both back inside your selves? So old and crusty

is the pattern that you have both allowed it to hold you in your old identities

of self in a stubborn refusal to change?

_ Are you prisoners to each other or to self in your very own

home/existence? Or, do you have a working model for mediation, conflict

resolution, and problem solving?

_Do you and your partner seek support/help outside relationship for:

body, mind, emotional, or spiritual balancing for growth? Or do you expect your

partner to do that for you? Does each partner take responsibility for those

issues that impede their own true self, which impacts the greater good of the

family?

_ Have your contracts, vows, and commitments been renewed recently and is

there a plan of action by both to do whatever is necessary to change and become

more loving?

_Can you make a list of your commonalities and all the things that are

wonderful and beautiful with you? Make a list of your differences. Where do you

meet? Where are you both stagnant? Where do you still feed off each other into

judgments, blame, rage, or hurts?

_What happens when you share your bodies, your deepest feelings, your

inspired creations? If you can not share these, then why are you together?

_Always recheck the keys; childhood human cell memories that clamor

from release, modeled from your human parents. What wounds are you willing to

surrender to make the relationship work for both partners?

_ Make a list of negatively charged addictive feelings and beliefs

which want change? Are faith, trust, love, respect, safety, and honesty present

and represented, as well?

_Do you acknowledge all that is grand in your relationship to see if

your center of gravity is coming from the heart as a reality check? Does your

body still fear that change means death?

_Is your partner willing to be present in offering themselves to change,

in spite of the fact that they appear asleep or not yet awake, about a

particular issue that needs revision to move forward?

_Can partner provide enough of a mirror for you to grow and move

forward in the new energy, or are you both suppressing and stuffing who you are

and shutting down your emotions and bodies?

_Do you give the other person time alone to explore their own inner world,

only to share it with you also; or is the addiction to old patterns and drama

too entangled/entrenched, holding you both in the definition of your old human

selves??

_Are you ready to face the terror of leaving a partner behind or letting

go, or are you just flirting with the possibility and making things worse, because

you can’t bear fulfillment for either of you, and the demons of old human

self hold false safety, while holding you in the powerlessness of your acting

out wounded child?

_Are you deserving of a new partner and can you give yourself one? You

have to take ownership of this before you can move on. Can you let yourself

imagine being with the right partner for you? Then design that relationship and

give it to yourself!

_Are you afraid of change, being alone, owning who you are, or giving

up the old identity for what you say you really want? How much do you really

trust yourself?

_ Can you allow spirit to move your divine intent for self love into

divine action? Have you designed a non-traumatic strategy if you need to part

so spirit can match your focus?

_Do you have proper professional legal and financial representation to

deal with practicalities need be?

_Do you need a relationship to validate you, if you are deepening your

inner relationship with your twin flame soul, twin flame spirit and twin flame

Earth? Can relationship be optional?

_Have you made a list of the communication for changes to your partner

or are you assuming where they stand and what they think and feel? Is love

replenished with play, joy, caring?

_Have you given spirit a practical list of all the things that need to

run smoothly when you decide to change your arrangement? Can you give your

dependencies and lost feelings to spirit?

_ Are you still using marriage or relationship as freedom, or as a

weapon, to punish and battle? Are you still using sex, money, trust, emotions,

male against female, hurt, jealousy, competition, or blame as leverage? Love is

not a weapon. _Most

important, are you changing who your children are with all the conflict and

putting them in the middle, or are you providing a positive model of love, so they

can be themselves?

_So, are you divorcing or separating from

your self, your children, or your partner?

_With your partner, can you make a list of your completions, those

things that are still coming up to limit you or not working, and those things you

want to create next?

Partner Decree: When I allow self to receive and surrender to self love first, then I

don’t have to leave the body, or shut down the body’s emotions. I

can have my love and my feelings; my direct connection to spirit, and so I retrieve

my dreams.

Maurene is author of: The New

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