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I am so sorry, each one that leaves this world hurts all of us. My prayer are with you and his family. This support group has been a life line for me so when someone leaves it is like losing a family member. Peace to you.

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My Dear Birdie,

I am so sorry for your loss. Yet, we know that Layne, will no longer suffer. He is at peace now. I too am glad that you both met and have grown together in the last 3 years. Being able to support each other during a very trying time. Yet knowing, that you were both there for each other and he had you and His Mom and all the fellow members from AA.

There was a reason you both met when you did. It is not over yet for you. You will go on and fight for those who cannot fight for them selves. I believe you have the strength to do this and Layne is your strength.

Please keep coming here and you can e-mail me anytime you want. Please feel free to do that.

I am here whenever you need me.

Conflicting advice about this disease is par for the course because this disease is a conflict in it self.

Keep searching for answers for yourself and your friends.

This Internet is a wonderful world of information.

Take comfort in knowing that Layne is no longer suffering.

Take care,

Irish

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Birdie,

I'm so sorry for your loss...I'm always very saddened by the loss of

another hepper whether I knew him or not, it doesn't matter...we all

share a common thread, hcv, and we're like a big family. My prayers

are with you.

Love,

> Hi Everyone,

> A week ago yesterday my boyfriend Layne died. He was diagnosed

with

> advanced hep C only this past August. He had been ill and in pain

> for a long time, but the VA, which he relied upon for his health

> care, never tested him until then.

>

> Two weeks ago today, after a long weekend of calls to the local VA

> hospital in which his mom was told not to bring him in, she finally

> had the ambulance carry him there. That same evening they sent him

> home with antibiotics. He was swollen, had a terrible headache,

and

> had had about 102 temp for days. The next day back at his mom's he

> felt no better. Through a series of blessings, that seem to have

> come nonstop for the past week or so, he got an ambulance to take

him

> to a private hospital near where we live. They admitted him that

> night. Over the next five days he rapidly detriorated and passed

> away Monday, Nov 21.

>

> During those days I was able to be at his side, hold his hand, wipe

> his brow and tell him how much I love him. His mom and plenty of

> friends were also able to come to his side. Layne had been in pain

> for a long time. Pain we didn't really understand until we finally

> saw him at peace. As one friend said at the visitation " That look

of

> worry was gone from his face. "

>

> I met Layne in the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous a little over

> three years ago. We got sober together, became " best buds " and

then

> came to love each other deeply. I am incredibly grateful that he

> died sober and in these past three years we both made friends who

> love us dearly. I don't know what I'd be doing right now if it

> weren't for this incrdeible fellowship and the love we both found

> there.

>

> Layne was a Viet Nam vet.

>

> I thank this group for being here over the last couple of months.

I

> can't say I have come to understand this disease. I still have

> plenty of friends with it who all have been given conflicting

advice

> about how to or weather to pursue treatment. None of that has been

> cleared up by this group but I have enjoyed the lively discussion

and

> supportive words, especially from and Irish. God bless you

> all.

> birdie

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  • 9 months later...

yesterday Tim wrote a little note to a friend, hope you are feeling better, love

tim. I bought a little teddy, put them both in an envelope and sent them to the

hospital where she was staying. Around the time I was posting the letter she

was being lifted onto her mums lap, life support was being removed and her

ventilator was switched off. A few minutes later she died after her family had

said their goodbyes. She was just 8 years old.

I told tim after school, I only heard this afternoon myself. he is more puzzled

than anything, can't understand that she can't come back. We go get her, he

said, she come back. When I said we can't get her, we can't see her anymore he

asked 'you see tim?' So I said yes, I can see you. He said 'I'm alive,

hallelujah'. Later he jumped up and down in excitement and said she not dead,

she not dead. Its a hard lesson for an intellectually challenged child to deal

with. The funeral is next monday, maybe he will understand a little better

then.

For those who pray please send one up for this little girls parents as they come

to terms with this sudden loss after a short illness.

sue wong

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So am I sorry to hear about your nephew ..My prayers are with your family..Kathy

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, Im so sorry to hear of your nephews passing, my prayers are with you and your family. Pat

Re: Crippen

Well thanks suzie,what a good story,I have never heard it.

We had a Dr's wife here,also a Dr,that burnt their house down and killed two of their children in the fire,when they came running out of their house,Dr Green told them to go back in and stay there,they burned to death.

What a crazy world,so glad I have a sane place to visit here.

On a sad note,my sisters oldest son passed away a few hours ago after struggling with congestive heart failure.

He had been on a ventilator for several days.

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