Guest guest Posted August 21, 2006 Report Share Posted August 21, 2006 Last night I went to my weekly meditation meeting, and the message that came though was “to forgive” everyone. In the video we watched, my Spiritual Teacher, Sant Rajinder Singh, said: If you were sitting next to your spouse, forgive them for everything that had happened till now, and start afresh from today. Similarly for brothers, sisters, relatives, colleagues, friends, etc. In fact, the new name for this discussion board came from the title of one of his talks called “Live in the Current Moment”. Living in the Current Moment means letting go of the past, and it also means letting go of all apprehensions and worries and fears and anxieties about the future. This morning, while attempting to meditate, I remembered last night’s message, and thought of one person I found it hard to forgive. So before sitting in meditation, I decided to do a forgiveness of this person. I used TAT, Tapas Acupressure Technique, one of the Energy Psychology methods I am a trainer in: Step 1: All that happened that resulted in me not being able to forgive this person. Step 2: It happened, it’s over, I’m ok, and I’m no longer bothered by this problem, and I can relax. Etc. (see Tapas’ website www.unstressforsuccess.com for the remaining steps, if you need to know more.) After doing this, I felt peaceful…and many realizations set in. What I learned from this was that I had not initially set appropriate boundaries, and I was blaming this other person in my mind, but I needed to take responsibility for attracting this whole scenario into my life in the first place. Now I realize, it was a lesson I had to learn about boundaries – and we will always attract people into our lives to learn our lessons, whether it is this person or another one who we enact the drama with. So where is the need to blame a specific person? Forgiveness allows you to see the lesson you need to learn. The truth is, life is an ongoing path of consciousness, and when we refuse to learn the lessons of the moment, then our personal history repeats itself over and over in our lives, till the lesson is learnt. The people may change, but the “drama” is the same. The “pattern” is the same. The “holodyne” is the same. The “fractal” is the same, even if it started in some past life. That’s why, I’ve often used fractals on the home page of my healing groups – it’s about letting go of those repetitive patterns that have been running our lives. My lesson for today was - when we set appropriate boundaries, it is easier to be loving to all, because one feels safe and protected by the appropriate boundaries we have set. We will keep on attracting people into our lives based on our conscious and unconscious beliefs, until we see our illusions staring us in our face through the dramas we enact, and learn the life lessons that our life is showing us. The founder of Kalos, Seeman Moreton, now Gersch, called these illusions “perpetrations” and used to teach us how to play “The Perpetration Game”. If you’d like to learn to play this game to enhance your consciousness, there are many examples in the archives. Just do a search for “perpetration game” and also for “Universal Principles”. All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely actors, said Shakespeare, in “As You Like It”. Shakespeare - All the world's a stage (from As You Like It 2/7) All the world's a stage,And all the men and women merely players:They have their exits and their entrances;And one man in his time plays many parts,His acts being seven ages. At first the infant,Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms.And then the whining school-boy, with his satchelAnd shining morning face, creeping like snailUnwillingly to school. And then the lover,Sighing like furnace, with a woeful balladMade to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,Jealous in honour, sudden and quick in quarrel,Seeking the bubble reputationEven in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice,In fair round belly with good capon lined,With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,Full of wise saws and modern instances;And so he plays his part. The sixth age shiftsInto the lean and slipper'd pantaloon,With spectacles on nose and pouch on side,His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wideFor his shrunk shank; and his big manly voice,Turning again toward childish treble, pipesAnd whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,That ends this strange eventful history,Is second childishness and mere oblivion,Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything. http://www.artofeurope.com/shakespeare/sha9.htm Today, if your heart is feeling hard and heavy with unforgiveness, then make a choice to forgive, and then choose a method of forgiveness that works for you, and do it. There are many ways to do this using our wonderful energy psychology modalities, or by a meditation, or any other way that feels good to you. I did a search and found 331 entries for forgiveness on our 5-year list archives – check them out, if you like: LiveInTheCurrentMoment11-11/msearch?query=Forgiveness & pos=0 & cnt=10 I leave you with that thought for today. Happy forgiving! Love, Dayu Applied Kinesiologist, Miami Member of National Assoc. of Naturopaths, Montreal +1.786.293.8123 LiveInTheCurrentMoment11-11/ 60-second health test: www.683683999.awarenesslife.com One_MyNaturalBodyWeight_CleanseNRebuild/ ~ A little progress every day …adds up to BIG results. ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.