[Tap 'n B Free] Re: cutting the cords

[Guest guest]

Thank you ,

This was very enlightening. This is very important subject for me so I want to

be sure that I have clearly understood the procedure.I would like to summarize

the procedure I used in the past,if you don't mind.

Visualizing the person in front of me.

Imagining the connections with the person.

Cutting the cords.

Imagining the cords left on his side

Than saying something like this " I am passing these cords through violet light

and I am returning these cords to you in cleaned,healed ,purified form. "

same thing is done for the cords on my side.

So,this is little different than the words you used.

`Obviously you need to come up with some words that accompany this. I

use something like: " I, , connect my heart to your heart,

retaining everything positive between us and intending whatever is

for both our higher good. "

`

So,does it seem that I had cleared everything between this person and myself and

did not allow any positive interactions? Or does my wording look okay?The person

I tried this process in the past was my father .he was hating me and depleting

my energy at that time.He passed away. I felt that cutting the cords between us

had truly weakened him.I feel guilty about this nowadays and wish to know if I

have done something wrong.I also have energy drain problem with my brother who

is mentally sick. He has strong negative emotions for me due to his illusions. I

am thinking of cutting the cords with him,too but I don't want to make a

mistake.That is why I am going into details.

Thank you very much.

p.s.I have severe guilt issues and I am lately working on them.

Nil

[Tap 'n B Free] Re: cutting the cords

Hi Nil,

Although I don't pretend to give Dayu's response to your question, I

thought I would give my feeling/opinion about this as I have used

this technique quite a bit.

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[Guest guest]

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From: Jocie_Dobson [mailto:jocie_dobson@...]

Sent: Friday, January 14, 2005 4:01 AM

EmotionalFreedomTechniques

Subject: Re: [Tap 'n B Free] Re: cutting the cords

* Hi Yildiz

Working with anyone with mental illness problems is a lot more complex than

working with average Joe Blow.

However, that shouldn¹t stop you from doing this exercise with him.

What might be a good idea is to do the exercise with someone who is Œsafer¹

first, to get some experience with doing the exercise. Then try with several

other workmates/family members and see how you go. That should give you the

confidence to know that when you do it, you won¹t cause any harm to either

yourself or your brother.

Best wishes

Jocie

On 14/1/05 1:33 PM, " Yildiz " <yil_diz@...> wrote:

>

> I also have energy drain problem with my brother who is mentally sick. He

has

> strong negative emotions for me due to his illusions. I am thinking of

cutting

> the cords with him,too but I don't want to make a mistake.