[PIVOT] Empowerment Protocol Clarified!!!! :-) A Soul Connection

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From: dayu d'sa [mailto:sequoia40adelphia (DOT) net]

Sent: Friday, January 14, 2005

10:43 PM

energyflows ;

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Subject: [energyflows] Empowerment

Protocol Clarified!!!! :-) A Soul Connection

I have been

following the discussion on cutting cords and I must say, I think a lot of

people misunderstand what the Empowerment Protocol is! I would like you

all to understand it clearly, so I’ll take the time to explain.

When we

connect at the heart – soul to soul – we connect with the Light in

us to the Light in them – as in the definition of the Hindi word

“Namaste” - and we also disconnect at the solar plexus. When we do

these two actions, what we are doing is simply disconnecting from our

knee-jerk reactions to the person….from the disempowered way of relating

that we may have had as a pattern…..we are NOT DISCONNECTING from the

person….we are in fact CONNECTING to them in a HEALTHIER way…an

EMPOWERED way.

***A 100 %

boundary means we have 100% choice (that is, power) in how we respond to the

person and 0% knee-jerk reaction (powerlessness).

A 75%

boundary means we have 75% choice (that is, power) and 25% knee-jerk reaction

(or no choice) - that means 25% powerlessness.

A 50%

boundary means we have 50% choice (that is, power) and 50% knee-jerk reaction

(or no choice) - that means 50% powerlessness.

A 10%%

boundary means we have 10% choice (that is, power) and 90% knee-jerk reaction

(or no choice) - that means 90% powerlessness.

A 0%

boundary means we have 0% choice (that is, power) and 100% knee-jerk reaction

(or no choice) - that means 100% powerlessness.

***The goal

is to have a 100% boundary with that person.

It has

NOTHING to do with the other person, except for the fact that that person

TRIGGERS YOU into that particular reaction!!!!! It’s NOT about them

at all – it’s about YOU – how YOU react to that person.

So when do

the Empowerment Protocol where you 1) cut cords with them and 2) also reconnect

at the heart…you give yourself 100% of your power back. You have

control over how you will respond to the other person…. You can respond

with love, you can respond with patience, you can respond with kindness, you

can respond with gentleness, you can respond with understanding, you can

respond with compassion, or you can also respond from the old pattern, you can

respond IN ANY WAY you please…the difference is this…your reaction

doesn’t control you any more…you are in the driver’s seat

again and YOU get to choose!!! J You are

EMPOWERED!!!

And when you

surrogately do the Empowerment Protocol for them, you stand in their shoes and

let them take their choice/power back in their reaction to you (or to anyone

else).

It has

nothing to do with disconnection from the other person, and everything to do

with your control or lack of control over your reaction.

I hope that

is clear..if not, please ask questions.

This is very

important for you to understand…it rebalances your whole solar plexus

when you have 100% boundaries with all the significant people in your life

– it brings you into the “NOW” – a fresh choice at all

times….total empowerment.

Beautiful,

eh?

And

sometimes you’ve got to keep cutting, ‘coz you have so many

patterns going in reaction to that person, that it is your own sabotaging

patterns you are saying good-bye to, not to the other person. Feel how

thick the cord it…is it as thick as a tree trunk? Use an electric

chainsaw to cut it. As thick as a rope? Use shears. As thick

as a piece of string? Use a pair of scissors. Get creative.

It is the

intention, the intention, the intention, always the intention. The intention

to set yourself free from the habits of your own knee-jerk reactions. And

in letting go of those patterns that you have with that person (or that sort of

person), you set yourself free.

So cut away

(at the solar plexus), and connect away (at the heart), and set yourself

free!!!!! J

Sometimes I

get the client to ask Archangel or some other spiritual form that they

believe in to help, and to ask him to disconnect at all chakras. Like

slicing through a rainbow – violet, indigo, blue, green, yellow, orange,

red, and then reconnect at the heart. Sometimes this is

needed….sometimes not. It depends.

Sometimes, I

go further and have the client disconnect at the aura too….depends how

sensitive they are. The more sensitive they are, the more need to

disconnect all the way through…not just solar plexus, but all chakras and

also the aura too.

Also when

you connect at the heart, it is NOT a relationship connection such as

father-daughter, husband-wife, boyfriend-girlfriend, friend-friend, etc….in

fact, it is just ONE SOUL CoNNeCTing to ANOTHER SOUL…in NEUTRAL

GEAR…..just as if they were TWO DROPS in an OCEAN of all CONSCIOUSNESS,

all LOVE, all BLISS, all TRUTH. The Ego does not get into the picture

when you connect at the heart in this way. It is A SOUL CONNECTION.

We

disconnect at the level of the Ego and connect at the level of the Soul.

Does that make sense????

The gift in

all of this? Acceptance. Of yourself, and of them. What a blessing.

Love,

Dayu

P.S. –

if you’d like a copy of the Empowerment Protocol, please read it in the

PIVOT manual. You can write to me to send you a copy of this 3 MB .pdf

manual.

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