[Tap 'n B Free] Decision making

[Guest guest]

> Now I have taught my fingers to go up for yes, down for no, so

every

> time I want to, I ask my fingers, and they respond. This is

fantastic,

> because I can do it surreptitiously any time, anywhere. So now I

KNOW

> what I think, what I feel, and I am now making decisions more

> confidently and therefore relying on my fingers less.

>

> All it takes is the time and effort to teach your fingers to talk

to

> you. Up for yes, down for no. Either hand, depending on how

comfortable

> either hand is at the time.

Vivienne, thanks so much for telling me about this technique --- it

sounds great. When you say 'all it takes is the time and effort to

teach your fingers to talk to you' -- is there anything in particular

you must do to do this??

Many thanks....

Love,

Carly in Australia

[Guest guest]

Carly

I really don't know the answer to your question.

Someone else on the list gave some instructions a few months back for

teaching your body to give certain reactions for yes/no. Basically they

were saying that you tell your body that this is the reaction you want

several times, slowly. Tell your body that it's safe to talk to you this

way, that you will listen, you are giving it a voice, etc. Then you start

saying things to your fingers like " My name is Carly " , My name is Joe

Bloggs " , " I am female " , I am male " , " I have two lovely little girls " etc,

and in this case, making sure that your fingers respond correctly, up for

yes, down for no.

This other person suggested doing this several times, over several days

until your muscles get the hang of it.

Over time, your fingers will also give you other reactions when there isn't

a clear cut yes/no. Mine tend to go sideways when they need more info, or

the answer isn't yes/no, and when the answer is " yes and no, depends " , they

either go up and down, or sideways. Whenever they go sideways, I usually

have to ask a lot more questions to clarify what they are trying to tell me.

See how you go .... Email me directly if you wish for specific help.

Love and best wishes

Vivienne

On 18/6/03 10:12 PM, " carly10475 " <carlyandbill@...> wrote:

>

> Vivienne, thanks so much for telling me about this technique --- it

> sounds great. When you say 'all it takes is the time and effort to

> teach your fingers to talk to you' -- is there anything in particular

> you must do to do this??

>

> Many thanks....

>

> Love,

> Carly in Australia

>