[Tap 'n B Free] Re: Tapping on memorys

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Rick,

Thank you very much for your explanations.

I understand you but I felt a need to make some explanation here. The

reason I mention about my mom is not trying to find someone to put

the guilt on. I came to this point after reaching to my issues with

my mom during almost all EFT sessions I have done. I am not actually

working on my mother but I came to the poýnt that I felt a need to

resolve my issues with her which most of them I was unaware. I tap

for my fear,some emotions related to my mom comes up. I tap on my

insecurity and again my mom comes up.etc.That was why I had to start

thinking about my relationship with my mom.It is for understanding

the core issue,release it and than forgive.I wished I was one of

those people who were gifted with ability to forgive. Unfortunately I

am not one of those people. I have problems of both forgiving myself

and others.I am quite a religious person and I could not achieve

forgiveness even though I thought thousand times that God wants us

to forgive. Nothing worked and I was really in pain for that.I have

CFS and I was going worse because of my feelings of anger,hate and

unforgiveness. It was only after I started practicing Eft and going

into core issues that I started being able to be aware and release

stocked emotions and start forgiving. And it was only after I

started to practice EFT on my daily problems that I noticed how

important was my childhood relationship with my mother was

important.Today I had another session on my feelings of

insecurity.Right after starting tapping I again went back to my

relationship with my mother naturally and after good amount of

emotional release about our relationship, I was able to understand

her more,feel more peace in my heart,meanwhile forgive her.Everytime

I am able to make such a release I am able to forgive people and

myself more. I am changing. I can feel that. It could be that

different methodologies work for different people. I think I was one

of those people who needed to find the core issue.I thank Eft for

giving me the chance to reach the core issues. That really has helped

me. Hope I am on the right track and my transformation continues.

Thank you very much for your valuable insights:)

Nil

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> Nill asks: I have a feeling that my mother hated me. Is that

possible? Is

> it

> possible for a mother to hate her child?

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> What is hate? It is an intense form of fear that has an " object " as

its

> target. Is it possible for a mother to be so fearful and angry that

she

> directs this fear towards anyone and everyone around her, including

her

> child? Yes.

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