Words are power

[Guest guest]

I recieved this in my email and thought I'd share it - I think it

says alot and is benefical. Love and Reiki Prayers to you all, Marge

True Satisfaction comes from learning to communicate without

expectation - Michel through Reid Lowell

Your words give you hope and they create the context of your life.

The conversations you have reflect your inner self and the interests

you would aspire to attain. There are those who have just given up

on life and themselves. You can hang onto these people and these

beliefs or you can focus on yourself and the Divine Co-Creative

Process you have with God to bring change into your life and by

allowing you to adapt to a better way of living.

Start with the simple process of taking modest approaches to

speaking with words that affirm and lift you up. Catch yourself when

you start to judge and catch yourself when you start to gossip and

move beyond that and walk away from such interactions. You can

choose who you want to be and how you want to be perceived. Many

people look outside themselves to blame and assign accountability

for failure, when failure is a necessary part of achievement.

There is a way to find inner-peace and to co-exist with others in an

allowing and non-confrontational way. And know that you cannot be

affected by others unless you bring their reality and perceptions of

the world into your life.

You can cause change by peaceful disruption and allowing. This

simply means to understand that you are connected to others as they

are the reflection of some unhealed part of yourself which you can

release by acknowledging them in a calm and tolerant manner. You do

not have to dissociate for rebuke, confront or correct. Just allow

them to flow through you by acknowledging them with understanding

and love and not getting pulled into their control. If you just step

back, hear them and allow them their presence, they will distance

themselves from you when they realize that you are not going to feed

into their intensity or dynamic. Many people set about to dismiss or

reject others totally and this is their control that they are

projecting which is saying that you must conform to what I want and

how I want you to be. If you just see someone for who they are and

hear them for what they say and peacefully stand your ground,

keeping your boundaries in tack, they will distance themselves from

you once they cannot pull you into their way of being.

Those who dismiss others and those who attempt to control others

through their actions alienate even themselves from their

understanding of humanity. Words can create a sense of complacency

that creates anxious and urgent sensations within the individual

using them. The words you choose entrap many people in meaningless

sensations of futility and daily drudgery of life. This is why it is

important not to feed into negative based ways of expression.

True satisfaction comes in learning how to communicate your needs

through non-threatening words that say to another you are centered

and tolerant yet informed and aware. Attainment of power or prestige

through the control and manipulation of others, by threatening their

material subsistence or wellbeing that would impact how they

survive, pay their mortgages and rent and provide for their families

does little to sustain that person with a sense of true

satisfaction. These types of actions will intrinsically leave that

type of person empty and alone when what they really want is to be

included, respected and needed. For how truly satisfying can it be

to act like this?

The processes of Yamptha, the attainment of a passionate life

created though the use of words to generate happiness is basically

demonstrated through:

1. Choosing words that create a sense of satisfaction.

2. Establishing a use of words that speak to your authenticity.

3. Revaluating the way you commutate to others and how this shapes

their perception of you.

4. Using words to communicate that reflect compassion.

5. Using words to communicate that define your boundaries while

being tolerant of others.

Because life is so full of possibilities these five key components

in communicating will aide you in being aware that you not only co-

create with God but you co-create with each and every person you

interact with.

The process of being aware of the power of words is not only defined

by what you choose to say and how you go about saying it but how you

allow others to communicate to you. There is a spirituality to words

and this has a direct impact on your work through everyday life and

how you work through the processes of recovery. Your words even

shape your body language and this has a great influence on how

other's react to you, even on your physical approach to them. Many

times you begin to react to someone when you see them and how they

approach you. This also happens when you approach other people. The

words you have used though your life shape how you feel about

yourself and this shapes your demeanor. Not many think of this

connection between words, their power and their own presentation of

self and they should.

This form of non-verbal communication began when you were yelled at

in harsh tones and with harsh words for not standing a certain way,

walking a certain way, or being late or feeling rushed and the fear

of chastisement. If you hear sounds of love and compassion and

support then more than likely you stand taller and carry yourself

with pride. Non-verbal communication is shaped by verbal

communication and the tones that are imparted to the words that are

spoken.

Stress is exchanged through the power of words and tones to the

physical body and metabolism. If you learn to express yourself in

calm tones and with words that enhance your communication your body

feels loved and stress is reduced. Being optimistic and co-creating

from optimism changes the way others react to you and how you feel

physically.

Michel through Reid Lowell

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