: BSFF Case History - On Stuttering

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: BSFF Case History - On Stuttering

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The other day, I had a client of mine email me and mention that she had a friend

who stuttered and could I help? I muscle-tested that he needed 3 sessions, and

that she herself could do 2 of them with him. She did some preliminary work

with him, using Silvia's Thought Flow method, which served as a useful " pattern

interrupt " , but the deep stuff still remained to be healed.

Why I like BSFF so much is it is an Energy Psychology modality that can heal

deeply, thoroughly and completely. " " (not his real name), age 23 or so,

spoke very little English...his first language was Spanish, so my friend...I'll

call her " Amy " stayed on the phone to be of assistance. We did a wonderful

phone session using BSFF and surrogate muscle-testing. I was also intuitively

tuning in to some of 's issues....and asking him questions as we went

along. I find this is useful in BSFF, as it is in any EP modality. It was

actually a double-session (2 hours, 20 minutes) as so many issues came up

related to the stammering. Here is what transpired.

For those who are new to BSFF, or Be Set Free Fast - a little background info -

it was developed by Larry Philip Nims, Ph.D. See http://besetfreefast.com In

BSFF (also known as " Instant BSFF " , there are a set of instructions that are

read by the client to his/her subconscious mind and a cue word is installed that

will automatically do all that the subconscious mind has been instructed to do -

to eliminate the roots of the programming that is creating the problem.

's cue word was " esperansa " (in Spanish), which I'm told translates to

" faith and hope " in English. didn't consciously understand much of the

instructions in English, but they were successfully installed nevertheless - the

muscle testing confirmed that. [if anyone has the instructions translated into

Spanish or any other language, I'd sure appreciate a copy. I work with people

from so many different countries, it helps to have them in different languages!]

When we use BSFF, we muscle-test the number of stoppers, or reasons why a person

may want to hold on to the problem. This way, as we use muscle-testing, along

the way we can progressively see the number of stoppers dwindling till they come

down to zero.

Although it is not necessary for a person to have a belief in past lives, nor to

muscle-test if past lives are involved, I usually ask the client if he/she does

believe in this and if they want to know how far back the programming goes....if

it is in fact related to past lives. In this case, said yes...and I

muscle-tested that it was related to two past lives. Just information. This

step can be omitted, based on the client's belief-system.

In 's case, we found many reasons why he had stoppers. The first thing

that came up as he was repeating the cue word, was a feeling in his solar plexus

- like a butterfly moving. We treated that and it cleared. As we continued he

felt something in his heart and he said he remembered when he was 12, kids were

laughing at him because of his stuttering. He didn't feel good at all. We

treated for that and it cleared as well.

Then, continuing, his lower back started to hurt and felt tight. Knowing that

lower back problems often have to do with feeling supported, I asked if he had

any issues around that. He said he did not feel supported by his sister or

mother or father. Apparently we had hit a raw nerve here. He said he could

trust his friends, but not his family. He discovered a mirror effect - because

he doesn't trust them, they don't trust him! He kept repeating his cue word and

I supported him to a place of understanding of all 3 members of his family,

releasing all judgment, criticism and blame...and releasing all unforgivenesses

towards them, towards himself and towards God. As he took responsibility for

himself, we muscle-tested him again on Mother, Father and sister. Eventually

all of them tested strong. Yay! He felt much much much LIGHTER!

had a problem with frequent urination...something to consider in another

wholistic work session, but for now, after a short bathroom break, we started up

again and he found he had some tension in the base of his neck. I muscle-tested

the age-capacity of these emotions - it turned out it was in the womb. I

muscle-tested again if it related to Mum/Dad or possibly who else? It turned

out, they were NOT his feelings at all, but those of his Mother. No need to

hang on to stuff that was not even HIS!!!! So we had him send these to the

Light. Lo and behold - the pain in the neck suddenly disappeared! :-)

There was more to come. He was working at an antique store which was about to

shut down in three weeks. He was presently moving furniture, doing deliveries,

etc. Soon he would be without a job. I asked him, " What kind of work makes you

feel good? " He said he wanted to take a course - a program - to learn welding.

However, he had stalled on that decision...he found decision-making and taking

charge of his life difficult. Neither did he test strong for " All my needs are

satisfied. " So we treated for decision-making, taking charge of his life and

taking responsibility to satisfy his life's needs. I brought in a little bit of

Kalos work here with the affirmations and threw in some 2-sided EFT tapping as

well. We tapped on the left eyebrow point, " I'm not in charge of my life, " and

on the right eyebrow point, " I'm in charge of my life. " He also said his BSFF

cue word, " esperansa " . Then we tapped on the left side-of-eye acupoint, " I

don't make good decisions, " and on the right, " I make good decisions. "

" Esperansa " . We tapped the left under-the-eye acupoint, " My needs are not

satisfied, " and under the right, " All my needs are satisfied. " Again,

" esperansa " . When we had finished, he tested very very strong on all 3 positive

statements. Yippee! We were really making headway now.

We were not done yet. The next thing that came up was relationships. He had

had a relationship with someone and broken up her and it had left its scars - it

had left him with a belief that he did not know how to have relationships. So

presently he had no steady girlfriend, but was dating lots of girls. However,

it was not satisfying to to live like this. He said, " I don't believe

that I can have a relationship. " That is what he believed, and that is what he

was attracting and creating. He was not happy. We treated for that belief. I

discussed a lot of the Abraham material with him in the process, discussing how

Law of Attraction worked, how Deliberate Creation worked...he listened as he

repeated his cue word...by the time we were done, he was quite confident that

" If I believe it, I can have it! " His vibrations were so light and jolly and

happy! We ended the session by clearing all leftover emotions. A lot of issues

to treat, but that was definitely one satisfying double-session. Now all that

remained to be seen is how it affected the stuttering in the long run.

It was amazing how many underlying issues were related to the stammering.

I subsequently received a letter from " Amy " in which she wrote:

" Dayu ----

Thanks so much!!! was so happy and relieved. It was all so new to him,

but he knew it was for his own healing - and he trusted! Will send testimonial

when I talk to him next.

Well done, Dayu!

Love,

Amy "

I just got off the phone with Amy, who sees 2-3 times a week, and here

is the latest feedback she gave me. Incidentally, it has now been 12 days since

our BSFF session:

1.. He is " beaming " these days! (Amy's choice of word) She said this was not

the case before.

2.. He is stuttering only very occasionally now - around 10% of his previous

frequency. He uses his cue word when it happens.

3.. He apparently uses his cue word, " esperansa " , to go to sleep and has

successfully cured his sleeplessness, too. If he is feeling angry, disturbed or

frustrated at night, he says his cue word, and apparently, it puts him right off

to sleep!!

4.. He has started coming to work early. This is out of character for him!

5.. Amy says it is incredible that he opened up to this, as in his culture

(Mexican), they are not very open to this. But he trusted her, and she trusted

me...and he is just thrilled with his cue word, " esperansa " . He uses it as a

sacred word, closes his eyes and says it " with strong intent " .

6.. He is much more conscious now of his behavior and how it impacts others -

he says, " I don't want someone to do that to me, so I don't do that to someone. "

7.. He looks at life differently....he has a greater consciousness.

8.. He wants to pay off his debts, and he is doing so.

9.. He wants to make amends for his behavior. For example, he had a problem

and a lot of tension with his coworker (also Mexican). The other guy was

blaming - in the past he would have had a much more " macho " approach,

like a proud peacock (Amy's words!) but this time, he had feelings for the other

person - he approached him and sorted it out amicably.

10.. He was on drugs before. He had already quit before our BSFF session, but

now he is not using them at all and is not inclined to.

11.. He is using " Thought Flow " for an oncoming cold and is wondering if he

can use " esperansa " together with Thought Flow to stop it completely!!!

12.. He is very private about this. " Esperansa. " To him it is sacred.

This was such a rewarding BSFF session. I thought it worth sharing.

Your feedback and comments are always welcome.

Love and hugs,

Daya

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Dayawanti D'Sa, BBA [Fin & Bkg], CKHFT [Dip - A.K.]

Applied Kinesiologist

Certified Kalos Health Facilitator Trainer www.kalos.org

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