[One_EFT Healing Highrise] Re: new issue

[Guest guest]

Hi, Kerrie,

2 messages in one. One with my moderator's hat on, and one just as me, an

ordinary human being going through that same aloneness that you are.

The first, with the moderator's hat on: I'd appreciate it if next time you

post a message, in which the original message is long, you'd trim off the

original message. We have a board in which so may people correspond, that

if everyone did that, it would make a daily digest cumbersome to read. It

also makes it cumbersome if everyone responds to the same long message, and

it gets repeated several times in a day. Thanks for your understanding and

cooperation. This board has 3,500 people, so you can understand how

difficult it makes my job or the job of any co-moderator, if I have to keep

doing it for each one. The good thing is, one can go online and see what the

original post is, to which the reply is being given..they are all linked by

discussion thread. Here I am at 6:10 a.m., moderating, to rally each person

who sends in a message to do it themselves instead of me having to do it for

them. You know the old adage, " Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day,

teach a man to fish and he fishes for a lifetime. " So, I'm aiming to " teach "

rather than " do it for " or " enable " . Sometimes it feels like an uphill job.

And I understand it can be hard for the members, too. Sometimes when we are

emotionally overwrought, we forget to do the little practical things that

make life smoother, like trimming off the original message a bit.

Second, here's me speaking as just another member and human being: Even

though I'm the moderator of this forum, I'm also coming out of a recent

depression, and I'm not working with clients at the moment, so I can

understand what loneliness feels like. Usually they are phone clients, as I

am still in the process of getting my green card in this foreign country

(USA), and I don't know when that will come through, although it's been 4

years since we moved here, and without the paperwork, I cannot expand my

local practice. So when I work, it's usually on the phone, which I'm not

doing right now, except for with friends.at times.

Sometimes, my only company is myself and my plants. So, I'm really glad to

know you, and would love to hear what a cattle station is like.

Kerrie, as you tap, see what comes up for you..it may be events in your life

that had similar emotions of you feeling the aloneness - perhaps as a child?

See what comes up.something surely will.

AS I hear your story, I too am working on the same issue of feeling left

out. What's coming up for me right now is this. As a child, I moved from

country to country. Born in Delhi India, then moved to Jerusalem, Israel at

the age of 3, then a series of moves my whole lifelong - a move to Damascus,

Syria at age 7, then back to another city in India for a year at age 8,

then back to Damascus at age 9, then on to Addis Ababa, Ethiopia at age

10-12. In 5th grade, when I was 10, I remember really feeling left out. Most

of the kids were American. I did not even know the culture then - I ended up

going to a slumber party where there was a barbeque and everyone was in

shorts and t-shirts, in a party frock. I felt embarrassed. I was a

vegetarian, and there was no veg food. I felt hungry, ignored and uncared

for. Hours after everyone had eaten, someone opened up a can of mushrooms

for me. The other girls (day scholars and boarders) would talk about make-up

and stuff in one of the rooms of the other boarders, and I was rarely

invited. I enjoyed skip-rope, I remember, but when it came to sports, I was

the last one to be picked for baseball. I used to love to read and had read

all the books by my favorite authors in the library (an alone activity), so

I guess, writing comes naturally to me now.

I sent in a post to the group yesterday about being depressed, but no-one

has responded on this list. It makes me feel sad and left out. I'm using

Q.I./BSFF on it, so I'm going to go and work on it now.

We seem to be vibrating with the same issues, and your post caught my eye.

I hope we both heal well together, with this forum as our link.

Warmly,

Dayu

P.S. - To illustrate what I mean, how about trimming a message like this

down to this size. Or you can delete the original message altogether.

Thanks, hun, for your cooperation.

Hi Kat,

Thanks for the reply.They all sounds like good affimations ill give

it a try. I appreciate the input

take care

kerrie

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> Hi Kerrie,

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> How about tapping on:

[Guest guest]

Dear Kerrie,

I don't know if this resonates for you or not, but I'm finding this prayer,

three-quarters of the way down this article, helpful. It makes me feel

peaceful..and if anyone comes to mind, I say this prayer. I want to be at

peace with everyone. If I connect with anyone, I say this prayer. Yesterday,

I said it for the animals I saw - birds, a lizard, mosquitoes, ants, for

flowers, all the people on all my lists - I'm saying it one list at a time,

for my family, for anyone who comes to mind as I'm healing my past...it

feels good.

The funny thing is, I went out to buy something and fill gas in my car last

night, and while getting back into the car, a mosquito just sat on my arm

and didn't bite me! That was something new and has never happened before.

You think the prayer had anything to do with it?! lol!

Love,

Dayu

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[Guest guest]

Dayu D'Sa <dayudsa@...> wrote: Dear Kerrie,

I don't know if this resonates for you or not, but I'm finding this prayer,

three-quarters of the way down this article, helpful. It makes me feel

peaceful..and if anyone comes to mind, I say this prayer. I want to be at

peace with everyone. If I connect with anyone, I say this prayer. Yesterday,

I said it for the animals I saw - birds, a lizard, mosquitoes, ants, for

flowers, all the people on all my lists - I'm saying it one list at a time,

for my family, for anyone who comes to mind as I'm healing my past...it

feels good.

The funny thing is, I went out to buy something and fill gas in my car last

night, and while getting back into the car, a mosquito just sat on my arm

and didn't bite me! That was something new and has never happened before.

You think the prayer had anything to do with it?! lol!

Love,

Dayu

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[Guest guest]

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>Hmm thanks for your input and the two messages in one. I hope I have

done this right..lol Not being very forum literate. I see there a few

issues there that I can relate to. It gave me some food for thought.

Plus a forum excersise Ill think on the feeling left out idea. I

too was always picked last in sports events and was always alone at

school. I hope you were able to get though your issues of recent

times. let me know how you go.

take care

kerrie