[EnergyFlows] Tawny Part II: A Deep Peacefulness + 5 Relationship Issues

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II: A Deep Peacefulness + 5 Relationship Issues

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- Tawny Part II: A Deep Peacefulness

+

Clearing 5 Specific Issues in Relationship

Tawny wrote me this letter the day after her first session

with me, and has given me permission to share it in my write-up.

From: Tawny

Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2004

9:35 AM

dayu

Subject: Day after follow-up to

first session

Dear Dayu,

I felt great after my session. A deep peacefulness I haven't

experienced in a few years was mine - and I was reconnected to it and know how

to reconnect to it now. Thank you so much.

I did sage when I got home and took some Rescue Remedy. I

love the BSFF cue words. Simply saying them provides an instantaneous boost.

called twice yesterday wanting to see how my session

went. You know, I had no desire to speak with him...so I didn't. I only have a

couple days of " I time " and I found his phone calls (he just left

yesterday morning) a little intrusive/controlling energetically, instead of

" just checking in to see how things went/being thoughtful " . It

reminded me of when we were dating and first connecting. He would call me ALL

THE TIME, and not leave messages! If I was at home and not choosing to answer

the phone it would ring all the time and it would be invasive. I

remember being a little freaked out about all the calls at the time. Hmm.

I've been using sage and Rescue Remedy also. Saging is

really important here at the house, perhaps because in the past I have

viewed as the threat (from LOC 75) since it was through him and our

relationship that I experienced my shock/trauma. So being strong in my energy

and connected to Source and Earth/Sami is so vitally important.

I'm good today. I just did the balancing of meridians

affirmations I like so much. My voice sounds so different to me today - in a

good way. It seems clearer and deeper. Of course, that could be because it's

the morning - but I believe it is more significant than that, given my thyroid

condition (as well as adrenal/pituitary). It seems there has

been healing in that area. Great!

I just spoke with (because of course he called again).

It went ok; I still felt a little guarded and did not want to speak with him.

It's clear to me that cord cutting, at least for the time being, is a good

thing to do whenever the idea arises. It recenters me.

I feel a great sense of ease, knowing that I don't have to

have all the answers about my future, because in the past there was

worry/security issues around that. Now I feel that this work/play is

paramount; all the rest falls into place. " Everything works out right for

me. "

Tawny

Session 2

Tawny’s letter, written after her first session with

me, although showing the depth of peace that she felt within, also highlighted

areas that needed work – and indicated to me that she needed more support

to essentially move out of the specific patterns that were hindering her in

relationship.

We did Session 2 two days after her first session. It

took a total of two hours. Her LOC was at 100 to begin with. This

calibration related to the Level of Fear, as mentioned in Power vs. Force by

Hawkins. I had her list the things that she felt blocked about, and

we worked on them, using Joan Hitlin’s Expanded BSFF, plus specific

clearings and installations for Tawny’s 5 listed problems. At this

stage, her LOC was only upto 400.

The 5 issues she mentioned were:

Trust – feeling safe and

secure.

Security – the feeling

that I can do it on my own - going back out into the world – as she

had discontinued working since she and had started their

relationship.

Control – phone calls

– ominous feeling.

Like to see him in a

compassionate way, without getting into a dance.

Neat freak – was

obsessive compulsive. Every week, he cleaned the floors. She said,

“If I have a pile of mail, it bothers him. He throws things

out. It makes him feel better – when he has anxiety to throw

things out. When he’s coming back from somewhere, I have to

clean up.

We used BSFF to treat:

I, Tawny, am treating anything that makes me feel unsafe and

insecure with .” ~Cue

I, Tawny, am treating anything that keeps me in a state of

lack of trust, when there is no cause for that. ~Cue

I, Tawny, am treating anything that keeps me from believing

I can do it on my own again. ~Cue

I, Tawny, am treating this ominous feeling I get when

calls or comes home. ~Cue

I, Tawny, am treating all the ways, patterns and emotions

attached to my reaction to his obsessive-compulsive neatness and controlling. ~Cue

I, Tawny, am treating anything which prevents me from

experiencing/seeing in a loving compassionate way. ~Cue

Then we consciously brought her Energyflows and WellBeing

Quotient up to 100%.

I then made sure she was clear on every step of the

failsafe, so she would not attract back these patterns.

Recently, in some work I had done for myself, I had cleared

“the need to be right” and installed “happiness”.

However, I had done the installation in a

different way. I had asked my ego to step aside and let Spirit install

it. I suggested to Tawny that it might be something she could

look at and decide if she wanted for herself as well. She very much did

and she then asked her ego to step aside and let Spirit install

“happiness” for her. I have had many clients do this since

then, and I find each one reporting a feeling

of tremendous lightness and relaxation. I then encouraged them

all to use this protocol to ask Spirit to install anything else they’d

like in their life.

She similarly asked Spirit to install “Radiant

Sparkling Prosperity.”

When we ended the session, her LOC had risen to 600. This

is the Level of Peace. When we were done, she said she felt very

peaceful.

The results that she reported after this session are given

in Part III.

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Dayawanti D'Sa, BBA [Fin & Bkg], CKHFT [Dip - A.K.]

Energy Flows Coach

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