[energyflows] Energy Flows - Jocie III: Peace - We Didn't React to Them Pushing Our Buttons! :-)

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From: dayu d'sa [mailto:sequoia40@...]

Sent: Tuesday, January 18, 2005 12:35 PM

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Subject: [energyflows] Energy Flows - Jocie III: Peace - We Didn't React to

Them Pushing Our Buttons! :-)

Energy Flows - Jocie III:

Peace - We Didn't React to Them Pushing Our Buttons!

<<The result of doing this cord cutting exercise for both of us was that the

next time we were with the person(s) we found that we didn¹t react to them

pushing our buttons, they didn¹t react to us pushing their buttons, and even

better, we weren¹t pushing each other¹s buttons very much at all!>>

In response to a question about the Empowerment Protocol from a fellow

list-member, Jocie Dobson replied about her experience in session – in

Dayu’s work with her, and her subsequent work with her daughter, using the

Empowerment Protocol in both cases. Notice how she says it stops the whole

“pushing buttons cycle” that we all are prone to at work and at home, and

especially during holidays like Christmas when we get together with family

and loved ones. How peaceful that makes the environment! :-) Next time you

are getting together with someone, if they tend to push your buttons, please

use the empowerment Protocol before, during and after the encounter. You

will notice how much more empowered and peaceful you feel.

On 14/1/05 8:50 AM, _________ wrote:

> I am wondering if cutting the cords with someone who is close to you but

> draining your energy will be traumatic for that person. If yes,what should

we

> do to decrease or eliminate this persons trauma. Is it important that,

that

> person should feel ready for the separation before applying `cutting the

> cords` process. Or could it be that a mistake in procedure causing this

> trauma?(I have tried this process in the past and I have observed that it

> might leave other person traumatized, I am wondering what have I done

wrong.)

From: Jocie_Dobson [mailto:jocie_dobson@...]

Sent: Friday, January 14, 2005 3:49 AM

EmotionalFreedomTechniques

Subject: Re: [Tap 'n B Free] cutting the cords

Hi __________,

Dayu has done the exercise of cutting cords with me, and I have done it with

my daughter, ie I got her to cut cords with her husband.

When Dayu did it with me, we did it in several ways. Firstly, I cut cords

with the 4 significant people in my life that were causing me stress of one

kind or another.

Then she got me to surrogately cut their cords back to me. Before we started

this exercise, I had to get permission from the higher self of the person to

do the exercise, and in one case, I wasn¹t able to proceed until I explored

a few issues that person had with my (or perhaps I had with them ­ it¹s hard

to tell sometimes!). Then I would go through the breathing process for that

person, then get them to cut the cords back to me. We went through the whole

process for each person, which took probably an hour.

When I talked my daughter through the process, she was having a really hard

time with someone very close to her, and she was initially concerned about

the result of doing this exercise. I explained that what I was doing was

cutting all the cords that were based on crap stuff, and replacing them with

just pure cords of love. She was very impressed with the results.

I also got her to use ZeroPoint to clear her relationship with that person,

and to surrogately use ZP on that person back to her. She was very concerned

that clearing the relationship would break it, but I explained again that I

was clearing out all the clutter in the relationship so what was left was

clean and pure. (She was so stressed that she really needed this work!)

The result of doing this cord cutting exercise for both of us was that the

next time we were with the person(s) we found that we didn¹t react to them

pushing our buttons, they didn¹t react to us pushing their buttons, and even

better, we weren¹t pushing each other¹s buttons very much at all! In my

case, I was able to enjoy a lovely time with this person over the Christmas

break instead of being really upset and defensive with them because of how

they¹ve alienated and broken up my family. In my daughter¹s case, the other

person has totally changed their behaviour towards her and has suddenly

started wanting to be in her company instead of keeping as far away as

possible.

I guess it depends on the person as to whether they would become defensive.

If they need you to push their buttons and you to react to them pushing your

buttons, then they might get upset with you and put distance between you.

That wasn¹t the case with either me or my daughter, and her situation was

very traumatic indeed (she almost passed out from the stress of the

situation she was in, 24 hours before I spoke to her).

So, go ahead, do the exercise for yourself first, cutting cords to them,

then ask permission from their higher self to do the exercise on their

behalf back to you, then do it for them.

Let us know how you go... ;-)

In love

Jocie

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