Re: [Tap 'n B Free] motherless child symdrome

[Guest guest]

Kath,

I have never heard of this term before, but having my mother pass away when I

was 2, being motherless has affected me all my life.

Best,

Connie

[Guest guest]

There is a very good book out called the " motherless daughters. "

Annie

[Guest guest]

Hi,

I think that this is not a truly recognized " syndrome " per se, but rather a

common experience that someone has labelled. As someone who has been

motherless I find it both validating and somewhat depressing at the same

time, that this label has been given. :-)

I think that EFT and other energy work approaches will go a long way in

healing this though it would be important to do a lot of installing of

positives (including imaginal nurturing states) along with the clearing of

unwanted " stuff " .

Take care,

Carol Ann

Experience healing at warp speed with the new ZPoint Process.

www.energywork.ca

_____

[Guest guest]

At 01:52 PM 4/10/2005, Kath wrote:

>Has anyone ever heard of this symdrome? And, if you have do you know

>the symptoms and if EFT would help a child overcome this?

Kath and All,

Having grown up in an orphanage since I was 3 years old with over 175 other

kids, I never heard of this syndrome. It could very well be another label

that someone came up with to justify ______ (fill in with your choice).

When I read the post I thought it was a joke.

If there were such a syndrome it would defiantly not be chemical so it

would be emotional and what does the " E " in EFT stand for?

The thought of a motherless child syndrome would require two things I can

think of off the top of my head.

1. NO female influence whatsoever.

2. Understanding of the meaning of the word " mother " and the definition of

what a mother does.

Without theses two things available to a child there would be way the

syndrome could come about. It is not genetic as most syndromes are.

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[Guest guest]

Hi Connie...

Thanks for replying...I saw it on one of the EFT sites or tapping sites....darn

if I can find the symptoms listed....Well, hopefully, someone else has seen

them, and will respond.

I understand where you are coming from. While my Mom was home, I raised my

brother and sister, and ran the house, as she needed to return to work.

Kath

unlimitedrates@... wrote:

Kath,

I have never heard of this term before, but having my mother pass away when I

was 2, being motherless has affected me all my life.

Best,

Connie

[Guest guest]

I remember seeing this also, but it was called " Missing Mother

Syndrome " . Talk about timing... I came across a missingmother website

just the other day while searching for something related to Aspects -

and now the topic appears on this board. My mother died when I was 18

months old, so I read this site with interest. All of the symptoms

fit me to a T, except one (I don't hate my body )

I believe every one of them are " tap-able " .

Lara

These are the " symptoms " listed on the missingmother website:

****

You could suffer from " Missing Mother Syndrome " if you experience

most of the following conditions on a regular basis:

You feel lost, out of place, and unsafe in this world

There is an underlying sadness in your life, even if nothing is wrong

You tend to feel lonely and depressed, especially at other

people's " Happy Family " gatherings

You hate your body or are unsure about " being a woman "

You have abandonment or anger issues that hurt your relationships

You experience social stress - you either try to stay invisible, or

you have a compulsion to be in the limelight

Any major crisis in your life, like a divorce, job loss, or

bereavement, throws you right back into the painful past

There is a lot of fear, anxiety, or even guilt and shame in

your life

You feel homesick without knowing where " home " is

You are trying too hard to be happy and " perfect "

You take rejection very personally

You believe that everybody else gets their act together - except for

you

[Guest guest]

Hi Kath

A Google search on [motherless child syndrome] results in more than 7000

results of the use of these words Œnear¹ each other.

Here¹s some significant ones.

Are You Trying too Hard to Be Happy?

.... has been suffering all her life from ³Missing Mother Syndrome².

When Hope

Edelman published her book " Motherless Daughters ­ The Legacy of Loss² ...

www.ideamarketers.com/ library/article.cfm?articleid=41720 - 29k - Cached -

Similar pages

Alumbo Article - Are You Trying too Hard to Be Happy?

.... a condition she probably has never heard of: Missing Mother Syndrome.

....

When Hope Edelman published her book " Motherless Daughters ­ The Legacy of

....

www.alumbo.com/article/ 12022-Are-You-Trying-too-Hard-to-Be-Happy.html - 40k

- Cached - Similar pages

Documentary: Rock A Bye Baby - Online Version plus Summary

.... understanding the mother-infant separation syndrome was provided by Drs.

.... mother figures without jealousy and adopting motherless children, ...

www.violence.de/tv/rockabye.html - 17k - Cached - Similar pages

The song " Sometimes I feel Like a Motherless Child " may have been the origin

of the phrase you refer to.

As an aside, reading through the search results made me very sad ­

especially when I read snippets about the numbers of children who¹s mothers

are dying of AIDs ­ tens of thousands per year in the US alone!

Jocie

On 11/4/05 4:52 AM, " kitstime2000 " <kitstime2000@...> wrote:

>

> Has anyone ever heard of this symdrome? And, if you have do you know

> the symptoms and if EFT would help a child overcome this?

>

> Kath

>

[Guest guest]

Hello All,

This is the original post. It was sent or set as a hook with a worm on it

to see what it could catch.

Post- #12262

From: " Carna Zacharias- " <carna@...>

Date: Fri Apr 8, 2005 1:55 pm

Subject: Are you a " Motherless Daughter " ?

Hello,

Was your mother absent in your early life due to illness, death, or

emotional unavailability? This is a new EFT specialty web site for

women who suffer from " Missing Mother Syndrome "

www.missingmother.com

End of original post....

The author of the post is also the marketer of the product and as all good

marketers do she has created a hook and her hook is " Missing Mother

Syndrome " . Unfortunately or fortunately (it depends on how you look at it)

the author is attempting to sell one half of the human race.

It seems from what the website says only women suffer from this " Missing

Mother Syndrome " . So myself growing up in an orphanage (without a mother)

since the age of 3 do not qualify, as I am male.

I must give Ms. Zacharias- credit. She has come up with a very good

hook " Missing Mother Syndrome " . From a marketing POV I wish I'd have come

up with it and yet I would have included the men also.

The interesting thing is all of the possible symptoms listed below could

also apply for:

Missing Father Syndrome

Mad Mother Syndrome

Mad Father Syndrome

Present Mother Syndrome

Present Father Syndrome

Missing Grandmother (Grandfather) Syndrome

Wrong Gender Syndrome

Wrong Ethic Syndrome

In other words all the symptoms listed below are all symptoms of LOW-SELF

ESTEEM.

The wonderful thing about marketing is " strike a cord to create a market. "

Ms Zacharias- has done that by giving Low-Self Esteem a new coat of

paint. Congratulations Ms. Zacharias-

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At 01:56 PM 4/11/2005, you wrote:

>I remember seeing this also, but it was called " Missing Mother

>Syndrome " . Talk about timing... I came across a missingmother website

>just the other day while searching for something related to Aspects -

>and now the topic appears on this board. My mother died when I was 18

>months old, so I read this site with interest. All of the symptoms

>fit me to a T, except one (I don't hate my body )

>I believe every one of them are " tap-able " .

>

>Lara

>

>These are the " symptoms " listed on the missingmother website:

>

>****

>You could suffer from " Missing Mother Syndrome " if you experience

>most of the following conditions on a regular basis:

[Guest guest]

Hi Doc

I kinda realized this when I approved it for the list. I

figured, what the heck - there are " so " many different so-

called " hooks " as you can call them, that what's one more .

There are people " hired " to create hooks for people. I used to

work for a guy who made up catchy names for different pharmaceutical

products.

Personally, I think one of the most catching ones is that

of " depression " . This one has led more people to drugs than just

about any other. At least " missing mother syndrome " isn't an

advocate for the use of drugs. I let it on also because it said it

was EFT related.

However, really anything that sells today in a big way has to

have some kind of a hook to it. Even EFT has a hook to it. Just

the mere fact that it handles many people's " phobias " and such is a

hook.

Hooks aren't bad if they are mainly benign. Its the ones that

seem to " con " you into some unhealthy areas or addictive areas.

However, now that she's started the " motherless syndrome " you are

now free to start the " fatherless syndrom " - lol!! You now have

your own hook! I'm not about to do the " childless syndrome " but if

someone out there wants to do that - well, there ya go! And it

will " all " be EFT based - how's that!

Lyn Keller

Co-Moderator

>

> Hello All,

>

> This is the original post. It was sent or set as a hook with a

worm on it

> to see what it could catch.

>

> Post- #12262

> From: " Carna Zacharias- " <carna@>

> Date: Fri Apr 8, 2005 1:55 pm

> Subject: Are you a " Motherless Daughter " ?

>

> Hello,

>

> Was your mother absent in your early life due to illness, death, or

> emotional unavailability? This is a new EFT specialty web site for

> women who suffer from " Missing Mother Syndrome "

>

> www.missingmother.com

>

> End of original post....

>

> The author of the post is also the marketer of the product and as

all good

> marketers do she has created a hook and her hook is " Missing

Mother

> Syndrome " . Unfortunately or fortunately (it depends on how you

look at it)

> the author is attempting to sell one half of the human race.