[One_EFT Healing Highrise] Re: workshop

[Guest guest]

Dear Christa,

When it comes to food addictions, there

can be multiple aspects. I was in a class with Carol Look once, and I was

the demo, and we were working on salt. The craving did not go away with one

session, despite the fact that I was the demo….and she the leading expert

on this subject. She herself said that you need to work on all aspects….that

it can take several sessions.

I’m not sure how long your class

was, who taught it, which country it was in, or what it purported to do.

Generally workshops are for learning a method,

perhaps in this case, EFT. They do not necessarily guarantee that your

cravings etc. will disappear within the course of the workshop…unless the

instructor specifies that that is what it is for, and guarantees that just by

being in his/her workshop, it will do that. Even Carol Look tells her

clients they need to work on all the aspects, and when they ask her how long it

will take, she says, I don’t know, it depends on what all you need to

clear – it could take 5, 6, 7 sessions or maybe one or two.

Workshops teach you a method….one

that needs to be applied further.

Perhaps you can change your viewpoint, and

see what you got out of the class. Perhaps it was not for you.

Perhaps you already knew what was being taught. Perhaps you misjudged what it

could do for you. Sometimes we have to make a call decision on whether to

take a class or not…sometimes it is fruitful, sometimes not…but it

is still our decision, and still our responsibility for our decision. One

can use one’s intuition, one can use one’s own judgment, one’s

logic…all the info one has and still make a mistake. Sometimes one

makes a mistake, and one can still take the responsibility for that….and

use it as an experience to say, next time, if I’m not sure, I might NOT

take it.

So you need to differentiate between a

class in which a method is taught, and one which purports to heal your cravings.

One in which you know most of the subject matter already, and one in which you

don’t. You need to see also, if your tendency is, in situations where a

decision has to be made (especially where the decision is iffy) whether you

take responsibility for your decision, or do you want someone else to be

responsible for your decision. Children are dependent and need to conform to

parents’ decisions. But adults are responsible for their own decisions….made

on the best information they have at the time. Adults also live with the

consequences of their decisions, and can say, “Oh, well, that was a bad

decision,” and learn from it and chalk it up to experience. Many

people buy things, and a day later, regret that they did. That’s

part of life. That does that mean that the product/service did not do

what it was meant to do.

I’m muscle-testing, Christa, that

this chocolate craving is coming from age 3 (for you).

Children, in my S.T.E.P. parenting

classes, which I had the pleasure of learning, and then teaching (when my

daughter was a toddler onwards) – children do what they do – (any misbehavior)

for 4 reasons:

The

first is attention.

The

second is power (when they can’t get their need for attention met)

The

third is Revenge (when they can’t get their need for power met)

The

fourth is Apathy (when they can’t get their need for Revenge met).

It may support you to check: Which need

were you meeting, or unable to meet, at age 3? Do you still have that

need? What was happening for you at that time. If your pattern stems from

childhood, was there a time when you wanted someone else to be

responsible? Was there a time when someone let you down? Was there a

time when your expectations were not met? How did you deal with that?

What decision did you make at that time…that is still running your life

today?

If I remember correctly, you have often

mentioned that this is a forum of almost 3000 people, and wondered why you were

not getting answers to your questions??? Then you have had a lot of

attention from many people on the forum, in response. Finally you get

your needs met….or do you? I do not know. My questions is: Do

you get your needs met, by calling attention to what is wrong in a situation….and

making it the other person’s responsibility (In the above case, this

forum’s responsibility) for not having met your need?

Gall bladder has the function of being in

balance when you feel you make good decisions….and being out of balance

when you feel you cannot make good decisions. That is the side-of-the-eye

acupoint.

Triple warmer (pituitary, adrenals,

and thyroid) has the function of being in balance when “Everything

works out right for me.” And out of balance when “Nothing works out

right for me.” That is the 9-gamut acupoint on the back of the hand,

just above the nook of where the baby finger and little finger meet. When

that is out of balance, then fight-or-flight response goes into gear. Which

of these responses are your habitual responses to life situations?

Perhaps it may help to tap on this….and the root cause of this.

So take a good look, and see what else is

behind this. There may be multiple aspects for you to work on - that one single

workshop may not have had the time or space to heal for you. You can

continue working on various aspects on your own.

It might also help to work on cravings

that may not be your worst craving first….things that you crave less than

chocolate. Smaller victories will help you have more confidence in the method.

There is a balancing meridians emotionally exercise that may support you –

it covers the positive and negative of each meridian. It is in the PIVOT

MANUAL.

(If anyone would like a copy, write to

me. I’ll send it to you. It is too big to be downloaded from

the files section. 3MB. )

Often, in addition to the emotional cause

of the craving, often clients have parasites or candida (yeast) which can cause

cravings. As I am a Kalos Health Facilitator and kinesiologist, and a

licensed naturopath in Canada, I find that these are very often eliminated or diminished

when I get them to do a jolly good cleanse.

Thirdly, we are often drawn to each those

very goods that we are sensitive to or allergic to. Using allergy

antidotes, it can be muscle-tested if you are allergic or sensitive to this,

and healing that sensitivity might help you heal your craving.

I do all of this work with clients on the

phone. If I can support you further on the phone, let me know.

So, Christa, I hope this has given you

some insights. Let me know if you found it helpful.

Warmly,

Dayu

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“__________, I thank, love and respect you.”

Tap your EFT acupoints

along with it and see what happens!

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you're right.”

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[Guest guest]

Dayu, Thanks for the Pivot Manual and intro PPS doc... I scanned through it and it looks like good information to supplement my EFT knowledge. Thanks so much. This should re-energize my efforts. Also, your reply to Christa was an excellent read, helping me stay focused in a positive direction. I appreciate the time you've invested in this (and other) groups. Good Job! Best in Life, RiceDayu D'Sa <sequoia40@...> wrote: Dear Christa, When it comes to food addictions, there can be multiple aspects. ....Generally workshops are for learning a method, perhaps in this case, EFT. They do not necessarily guarantee that your ... how long it will take, ... it could take 5, 6, 7 sessions or maybe one or

two... Workshops teach you a method….one that needs to be applied further... Perhaps you can change your viewpoint, and see what you got out of the class. Perhaps it was not for you… but it is still our decision, and still our responsibility for our decision. One can use one’s intuition, one can use one’s own judgment, one’s logic…all the info one has and still make a mistake. Sometimes one makes a mistake, and one can still take the responsibility for that….and use it as an experience to say, next time, if I’m not sure, I might NOT take it... That’s part of life. That does that mean that

the product/service did not do what it was meant to do. ...Children, in my S.T.E.P. parenting classes, which I had the pleasure of learning, and then teaching (when my daughter was a toddler onwards) – children do what they do – (any misbehavior) for 4 reasons: The first is attention. The second is power (when they can’t get their need for attention met) The third is Revenge (when they can’t get their need for power met) The fourth is Apathy (when they can’t get their need for Revenge met). ...Gall bladder has the function of being in balance when you feel you make good decisions….and being out of balance when you feel you cannot make good decisions. That is the side-of-the-eye acupoint. Triple warmer (pituitary, adrenals, and thyroid) has the function of being in balance when “Everything works out right for me.” And out of balance when “Nothing works out right for me.” That is the 9-gamut acupoint on the back of the hand, just above the nook of where the baby finger and little finger meet. When that is out of balance, then fight-or-flight response goes into gear. Which of

these responses are your habitual responses to life situations? Perhaps it may help to tap on this….and the root cause of this. ...There is a balancing meridians emotionally exercise that may support you – it covers the positive and negative of each meridian. It is in the PIVOT MANUAL. (If anyone would like a copy, write to me. I’ll send it

to you. It is too big to be downloaded from the files section. 3MB. ) Often, in addition to the emotional cause of the craving, often clients have parasites or candida (yeast) which can cause cravings. As I am a Kalos Health Facilitator and kinesiologist, and a licensed naturopath in Canada, I find that these are very often eliminated or diminished when I get them to do a jolly good cleanse. ...I do all of this work with clients on the phone. If I can support you further on the phone, let me know. Warmly, Dayu

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[Guest guest]

Hi Christa, Not to completely dispel what the teacher had to say about the energy in the room being very positive, but you yourself just mentioned that you are very sensitive to other's energy, therefore there could have very well been something that was negative within an individual or an energy vampire or 2 among the group and if you truly are sensitive to this it may have affected you? The other being your own energy and/or toxic elements ... this having been said it's really just to give the teacher/class the benefit of the doubt since I wasn't there to experience it for myself. The truth of the matter is you didn't get want you wanted, needed or expected and for that I'm truly sorry. Since we can't change that, lets focus on something else. What in particular were you going there to resolve or learn? An issue or challenge or to experience the group setting or to learn more about the technique and application? Also, you

mention that you've been applying EFT for several months now, are you chopping down the emotional forest or working on a particular something ??? Kathleen www.ahealingmind.com

[Guest guest]

Dayu,

Thank you for the excellent all encompassing letter to Christa, especially about childhood and falling back into problems and "shadows", it was timely for me, for different reasons, but........still timely.

Blessings!

Sylvia Ross EFT-ADV

RE: [One_EFT Healing Highrise] Re: workshop

It may support you to check: Which need were you meeting, or unable to meet, at age 3? Do you still have that need? What was happening for you at that time. If your pattern stems from childhood, was there a time when you wanted someone else to be responsible? Was there a time when someone let you down? Was there a time when your expectations were not met? How did you deal with that? What decision did you make at that time…that is still running your life today?

[Guest guest]

Christa,

A few possibilities...

When you determine an issue you want to work on (i.e. depression, anger,

frustration, etc.) and you have a " specific " incident. (i.e.

When _____ did ______ and I felt _____ last Wednesday evening).

Find where you feel the third blank (I felt ____) in your body and stay

focused on that feeling as you tap or touch and breath. (see what number

you can it down to, I felt ____ last Wednesday evening is now down to a 3

or 2)

Go inside and feel if there is any opposition to you getting rid of this

_____ feeling. If there is find where you feel the opposition and repeat

the process on it. (You don't need to know what the opposition is or why

it is there you only need to be able to feel it in your body.) After it

is removed or very, very low

Go into your past to the first time you ever felt this _____ feeling or

something close. (Pretend this whole thing if it helps you. Make it up if

you want. Just find the first time you can remember, create or imagine

having this _____ feeling. Feel the location in your body, measure it and

do the process focused on the body feeling of ______

Come back to the present and go inside your body and feel if you feel

this will be an issue in the future. If you do, find the feeling in your

body and apply the process.

Next feel if forgiveness is needed. Find where you feel that in your body

and repeat the process.

Next pretend you are the other person and not you and do the process from

their POV.

Next pretend you are the _____ feeling and do the process from _____

feeling POV.

Next be your self again and notice what's up.

If this doesn't get you moving then I would suggest you study all of the

Deep PEAT articles at

http://www.achieve-your-potential.com/peat-articles.html

and/or come to the Spiritual Technology training at the end of May.

http://www.secretsuccess.com/the-amazing-training.htm

To Your Best,

Doc Houston

At 11:52 PM 2/16/2006, you wrote:

Hi Kathleen,

thank you for your response. I went to the class to get some

different idea to proceed since I don't see the results most people

comment on. So I was wondering if I'm doing something wrong or

missing something. I didn't expect to be healed of anything right

there.

And I had explained this to the instructor before I

went.

I have studied all the CD's and I'm doing the tapping

since 10

month on an almost daily basis.

So one of my hopes was that the group setting might make a

difference since everyone seemed to be always having so much success

at the workshops. I guess this thought was wrong and the instructor

wasn't much help.

I'm getting more ideas from this group. So I will keep working and

maybe some day I hit the checkpot.

thanks again

christa

[Guest guest]

Hi Doc,

I started doing this today. Thanks for the suggestions

christa

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