Re: [One_EFT Healing Highrise] New member

Posted May 30, 2006 · May 30, 2006

Aloha! Welcome to the board.

How may we be of assistance?

-Jef

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> hi am suraj

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Posted May 30, 2006 · May 30, 2006

there are times when i just need someone to talk to as i am married with a

disabled husband and i do not get out much there are days when i get very

depressed and see no end in sight .Can anyone understand my position? thankyou

Jef Shockley <jef.shockley@...> wrote: Aloha! Welcome to the board.

How may we be of assistance?

-Jef

Posted May 30, 2006 · May 30, 2006

>

> there are times when i just need someone to talk to as i am married

> with a disabled husband and i do not get out much there are days

> when i get very depressed and see no end in sight. Can anyone

> understand my position?

> thankyou

Hi Alice,

I'm sorry to hear about your dilema. Lemme ask, are you familiar with

EFT, have you been using it? If not, we can certainly help you learn

to use it and gain some relief from your suffering. If you are using

it, here's some suggestions to get you started:

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" Even though I feel lonely and isolated from the rest of the world, I

deeply and completely love and accept myself. "

" This lonely and isolated feeling. "

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" Even though I feel overwhelmed with the responsibility of caring for

[insert spouse's name here], I deeply and completely love and accept

myself. "

" This overwhelming responsibility. "

----------

" Even though I have this fear of what will become of me when [insert

spouse's name here] passes on, I deeply and completely love and accept

myself. "

" This fear of what will become of me. "

----------

" Even though I see no end in sight, I deeply and completely love and

accept myself. "

" No end in sight. "

----------

These are just a few things that popped into my head when I read your

post and feel free to change them up to better suit your situation. I

don't know exactly what it's like to go through what it is that you're

going through, but I can imagine quite a lot when I think of my wife

being in the same situation as your husband. My heart goes out to you.

Anyway, hope that helps...

-Jef

Posted May 30, 2006 · May 30, 2006

thankyou very much for your kindness it means alot

Jef Shockley <jef.shockley@...> wrote:

>

> there are times when i just need someone to talk to as i am married

> with a disabled husband and i do not get out much there are days

> when i get very depressed and see no end in sight. Can anyone

> understand my position?

> thankyou

Hi Alice,

I'm sorry to hear about your dilema. Lemme ask, are you familiar with

EFT, have you been using it? If not, we can certainly help you learn

to use it and gain some relief from your suffering. If you are using

it, here's some suggestions to get you started:

----------

" Even though I feel lonely and isolated from the rest of the world, I

deeply and completely love and accept myself. "

" This lonely and isolated feeling. "

----------

" Even though I feel overwhelmed with the responsibility of caring for

[insert spouse's name here], I deeply and completely love and accept

myself. "

" This overwhelming responsibility. "

----------

" Even though I have this fear of what will become of me when [insert

spouse's name here] passes on, I deeply and completely love and accept

myself. "

" This fear of what will become of me. "

----------

" Even though I see no end in sight, I deeply and completely love and

accept myself. "

" No end in sight. "

----------

These are just a few things that popped into my head when I read your

post and feel free to change them up to better suit your situation. I

don't know exactly what it's like to go through what it is that you're

going through, but I can imagine quite a lot when I think of my wife

being in the same situation as your husband. My heart goes out to you.

Anyway, hope that helps...

-Jef

Posted May 30, 2006 · May 30, 2006

>

> thankyou very much for your kindness it means alot

>

Always a pleasure )

Posted May 30, 2006 · May 30, 2006

Aloha! Welcome to the board.

>

> How may we be of assistance?

>

> -Jef

>

I understand how u feel Alice, I'm in a similar situation. I'm having

boyfriend problems, and feel very isolated, cause of the way he is.

Posted July 6, 2006 · July 6, 2006

I had/have a couple of challenging situations going on, and I was feeling

overwhelmed. At about this time i came across EFT for a 3rd time, and when

something keeps comming up, I have to wonder if that's a sign. <G> I checked

it out. What really impressed me was the free download. It's one thing to

say " try my product but pay $$$ first " It's another to say, " here's a

freebie, buy the product if you like it. " So I tried it on myself, and I

think it helped squelch some anxiety. Then I went to a counselor, and did

EFT with her. One of the issues has me feeling emotionless, which is what I

wanted. The other issue remains to be seen, but I should tap on it in the

meantime. I just really don't know what to say when I'm doing it.

Anyways, I'm impressed with it so far, and I'll keep working with it.

Drea

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Posted July 6, 2006 · July 6, 2006

Hi Drea-

Yes, I like Craig's approach, he's very generous.

If you order the DVD's from emofree.com, they have a wealth of demonstrations.

If you read some of the site's newsletters in the archives, they also give

examples of what phrases work and don't work for people.

Mainly, try to be as specific as possible, while tuning into the problem as

fully as possible.

If you read stories by some of the EFT therapists on the emofree site and you

like the way one of them works, call that one up and do a session over the

phone. They might give you more specifics on how to help yourself with EFT.

-Beck

(DVD's have, I think, a 60 day money back return).

Drea Garza <dgarza@...> wrote: