Guest guest Posted February 11, 2006 Report Share Posted February 11, 2006 Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. I was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as a dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!! I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 business. I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging my pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery where they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter what. Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, they look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I have ever INVESTED in my life. I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. I slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so wonderful. I find my life is about following up and following through. I am focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and food. I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me... Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose him to do my surgery. Good health to you. Deb SM DOB 8-8-05 FF 10-6-05 230-198-163-129?, or whatever... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2006 Report Share Posted February 13, 2006 I just read your post, hope you don't mind... I head down to Dr. Aceves this Thursday from Northern California to have him do my surgery this Friday. I must say this past week has been somewhat like a tetter-totter. Some days I think I should go through with it and other days I think I could put this money toward something else. My husband says he doesn't think I need to have it done that he loves me for who I am on the inside as well as whats on the outside. But that he understands why I would want to do this for myself and my health. But when you pay this kind of money you ALWAYS want to make sure your weight loss is gone FOREVER.. I have a friend who has had her lapband for about 3 yrs. and she looks WONDERFUL.. She started @ about 235 and is now @ 136. She's had bumbs along the way but still has the lap band and is still in the best health and shape of her life.. I also read you had pneumonia-(Sorry to hear that-hope you're feeling better), don't mean to sound gross or anything, but did you throw up? If so how did that affect your band? I think you're doing a wonderful job, keep up the good work and hope to see you on the skinny side of life.. Best to you and all the other bandsters, Donna > > Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. I > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as a > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!! > > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > business. > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging my > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery where > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > what. > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, they > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I have > ever INVESTED in my life. > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. I > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so wonderful. > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and food. > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me... > Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > him to do my surgery. > > Good health to you. > Deb SM > DOB 8-8-05 > FF 10-6-05 > 230-198-163-129?, or whatever... > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2006 Report Share Posted February 13, 2006 Donna, I finally see another person from California..........I know that Liz is in the bay area and I am on the central coast. Glad you are here. I am gathering the money as we speak!!! Keep in touch Virginiadonnaband06 <donnaband06@...> wrote: I just read your post, hope you don't mind... I head down to Dr. Aceves this Thursday from Northern California to have him do my surgery this Friday. I must say this past week has been somewhat like a tetter-totter. Some days I think I should go through with it and other days I think I could put this money toward something else. My husband says he doesn't think I need to have it done that he loves me for who I am on the inside as well as whats on the outside. But that he understands why I would want to do this for myself and my health. But when you pay this kind of money you ALWAYS want to make sure your weight loss is gone FOREVER.. I have a friend who has had her lapband for about 3 yrs. and she looks WONDERFUL.. She started @ about 235 and is now @ 136. She's had bumbs along the way but still has the lap band and is still in the best health and shape of her life..I also read you had pneumonia-(Sorry to hear that-hope you're feeling better), don't mean to sound gross or anything, but did you throw up? If so how did that affect your band? I think you're doing a wonderful job, keep up the good work and hope to see you on the skinny side of life..Best to you and all the other bandsters,Donna>> Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. I > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as a > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!> > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > business. > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging my > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery where > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > what. > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, they > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I have > ever INVESTED in my life. > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. I > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so wonderful. > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and food. > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me...> Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > him to do my surgery. > > Good health to you.> Deb SM> DOB 8-8-05> FF 10-6-05> 230-198-163-129?, or whatever...> Virginia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2006 Report Share Posted February 13, 2006 Hey Virginia and Donna, I am from California as well. I live in the Central Valley, Merced County area. Perhaps one time we can all get together somewhere and meet. Kelli > > > > Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. > I > > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as > a > > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN > ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!! > > > > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > > business. > > > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging > my > > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery > where > > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > > what. > > > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, > they > > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I > have > > ever INVESTED in my life. > > > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. > I > > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so > wonderful. > > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and > food. > > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me... > > Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > > him to do my surgery. > > > > Good health to you. > > Deb SM > > DOB 8-8-05 > > FF 10-6-05 > > 230-198-163-129?, or whatever... > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 HI Virginia, I also live in california - in south orange county. and am also in the process of saving my money for band - i am scheduled for april 10th! Virginia Herrell <herrell@...> wrote: Donna, I finally see another person from California..........I know that Liz is in the bay area and I am on the central coast. Glad you are here. I am gathering the money as we speak!!! Keep in touch Virginiadonnaband06 <donnaband06@...> wrote: I just read your post, hope you don't mind... I head down to Dr. Aceves this Thursday from Northern California to have him do my surgery this Friday. I must say this past week has been somewhat like a tetter-totter. Some days I think I should go through with it and other days I think I could put this money toward something else. My husband says he doesn't think I need to have it done that he loves me for who I am on the inside as well as whats on the outside. But that he understands why I would want to do this for myself and my health. But when you pay this kind of money you ALWAYS want to make sure your weight loss is gone FOREVER.. I have a friend who has had her lapband for about 3 yrs. and she looks WONDERFUL.. She started @ about 235 and is now @ 136. She's had bumbs along the way but still has the lap band and is still in the best health and shape of her life..I also read you had pneumonia-(Sorry to hear that-hope you're feeling better), don't mean to sound gross or anything, but did you throw up? If so how did that affect your band? I think you're doing a wonderful job, keep up the good work and hope to see you on the skinny side of life..Best to you and all the other bandsters,Donna>> Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. I > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as a > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!> > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > business. > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging my > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery where > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > what. > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, they > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I have > ever INVESTED in my life. > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. I > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so wonderful. > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and food. > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me...> Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > him to do my surgery. > > Good health to you.> Deb SM> DOB 8-8-05> FF 10-6-05> 230-198-163-129?, or whatever...> Virginia Use Photomail to share photos without annoying attachments. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 Caprise, That's great!!! I'm waiting to see how I come out on my taxes and after I pay my property taxes! Keep in touch. I'll be cheering for you. Virginiacaprise holmes <capriseholmes@...> wrote: HI Virginia, I also live in california - in south orange county. and am also in the process of saving my money for band - i am scheduled for april 10th! Virginia Herrell <herrell@...> wrote: Donna, I finally see another person from California..........I know that Liz is in the bay area and I am on the central coast. Glad you are here. I am gathering the money as we speak!!! Keep in touch Virginiadonnaband06 <donnaband06@...> wrote: I just read your post, hope you don't mind... I head down to Dr. Aceves this Thursday from Northern California to have him do my surgery this Friday. I must say this past week has been somewhat like a tetter-totter. Some days I think I should go through with it and other days I think I could put this money toward something else. My husband says he doesn't think I need to have it done that he loves me for who I am on the inside as well as whats on the outside. But that he understands why I would want to do this for myself and my health. But when you pay this kind of money you ALWAYS want to make sure your weight loss is gone FOREVER.. I have a friend who has had her lapband for about 3 yrs. and she looks WONDERFUL.. She started @ about 235 and is now @ 136. She's had bumbs along the way but still has the lap band and is still in the best health and shape of her life..I also read you had pneumonia-(Sorry to hear that-hope you're feeling better), don't mean to sound gross or anything, but did you throw up? If so how did that affect your band? I think you're doing a wonderful job, keep up the good work and hope to see you on the skinny side of life..Best to you and all the other bandsters,Donna>> Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. I > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as a > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!> > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > business. > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging my > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery where > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > what. > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, they > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I have > ever INVESTED in my life. > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. I > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so wonderful. > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and food. > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me...> Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > him to do my surgery. > > Good health to you.> Deb SM> DOB 8-8-05> FF 10-6-05> 230-198-163-129?, or whatever...> Virginia Use Photomail to share photos without annoying attachments. Virginia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 Sounds great!!!!Kelli <psichikel@...> wrote: Hey Virginia and Donna,I am from California as well. I live in the Central Valley, Merced County area. Perhaps one time we can all get together somewhere and meet. Kelli> >> > Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. > I > > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as > a > > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN > ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!> > > > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > > business. > > > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging > my > > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery > where > > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > > what. > > > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, > they > > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I > have > > ever INVESTED in my life. > > > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. > I > > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so > wonderful. > > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and > food. > > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me...> > Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > > him to do my surgery. > > > > Good health to you.> > Deb SM> > DOB 8-8-05> > FF 10-6-05> > 230-198-163-129?, or whatever...> >> > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 Thanks and same here - i hope uncle sam does right by you so you can get this done also! Virginia Herrell <herrell@...> wrote: Caprise, That's great!!! I'm waiting to see how I come out on my taxes and after I pay my property taxes! Keep in touch. I'll be cheering for you. Virginiacaprise holmes <capriseholmes@...> wrote: HI Virginia, I also live in california - in south orange county. and am also in the process of saving my money for band - i am scheduled for april 10th! Virginia Herrell <herrell@...> wrote: Donna, I finally see another person from California..........I know that Liz is in the bay area and I am on the central coast. Glad you are here. I am gathering the money as we speak!!! Keep in touch Virginiadonnaband06 <donnaband06@...> wrote: I just read your post, hope you don't mind... I head down to Dr. Aceves this Thursday from Northern California to have him do my surgery this Friday. I must say this past week has been somewhat like a tetter-totter. Some days I think I should go through with it and other days I think I could put this money toward something else. My husband says he doesn't think I need to have it done that he loves me for who I am on the inside as well as whats on the outside. But that he understands why I would want to do this for myself and my health. But when you pay this kind of money you ALWAYS want to make sure your weight loss is gone FOREVER.. I have a friend who has had her lapband for about 3 yrs. and she looks WONDERFUL.. She started @ about 235 and is now @ 136. She's had bumbs along the way but still has the lap band and is still in the best health and shape of her life..I also read you had pneumonia-(Sorry to hear that-hope you're feeling better), don't mean to sound gross or anything, but did you throw up? If so how did that affect your band? I think you're doing a wonderful job, keep up the good work and hope to see you on the skinny side of life..Best to you and all the other bandsters,Donna>> Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. I > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as a > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!!> > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > business. > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging my > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery where > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > what. > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, they > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I have > ever INVESTED in my life. > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. I > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so wonderful. > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and food. > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me...> Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > him to do my surgery. > > Good health to you.> Deb SM> DOB 8-8-05> FF 10-6-05> 230-198-163-129?, or whatever...> Virginia Use Photomail to share photos without annoying attachments. Virginia Autos. Looking for a sweet ride? Get pricing, reviews, more on new and used cars. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 Short for time, but wanted to address your apprehension regarding your investing in your life. Your weight issues dont come from your husband loving your fat or thin. Your issues come from how much YOU value your own health. If you feel that the quality of your life is good enough at the weight you are at now, and if you feel that you have the ability to be happy fat or thin, you can answer your own question. The subconscious mind has only one job. To keep things the same. So even when we want to do things that are positive and GOOD and better, our subconscious mind trys to keep things the same. So remember, maybe the resistance is coming from a place of fear of success. Just a thought. If I had it to do over again. I would have done this 30 years ago. I wasted so much time being fat and trying to accept myself as I was. The money I spent on my band is, by far, the best investment in my well being. But I am not living your experience. You will have to live in your body. You, not your husband or anyone else. YOU. Good health to you. Deb SM. > > > > Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. > I > > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as > a > > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN > ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!! > > > > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > > business. > > > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging > my > > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery > where > > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > > what. > > > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, > they > > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I > have > > ever INVESTED in my life. > > > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. > I > > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so > wonderful. > > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and > food. > > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me... > > Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > > him to do my surgery. > > > > Good health to you. > > Deb SM > > DOB 8-8-05 > > FF 10-6-05 > > 230-198-163-129?, or whatever... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 I just remembered you asked the vomit question. NO I didnt vomit when sick. But I have vomited because of medication I had to take. I hate taking pills. Automatic gaging for me. But I am not afraid because I dont vomit or strain. I drink a ton of liquid slowly and vomiting hasnt been a problem. I have only PB'd if I eat too much. Totally different thing. You dont use your stomach muscles. The band isnt disturbed. Its pretty easy. I just sip a couple of ounces of water and bend over allowing the food to come up. I dont reccommend it as a regular habit, but if you eat too much sometimes, its necessary to get rid of that STUCK feeling. I NEVER wait. I dont stuff my escophagus. But at times I will have ONE bite too many. There is an art of learning to eat with the band. Thats why they say to only put as much as you are capable of BAND-eating, (and each bandster learns their amount) on your plate. Never more, and NEVER just try to finish anything, once you are full. BTW, My health is great. Thank you. Deb SM. > > > > Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had pneumonia. > I > > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick as > a > > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN > ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!! > > > > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > > business. > > > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my weight > > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I think > > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped below > > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face and > > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and dragging > my > > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery > where > > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the one > > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > > what. > > > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, > they > > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my saggy > > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I > have > > ever INVESTED in my life. > > > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of my > > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT perfect. > I > > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so > wonderful. > > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and > food. > > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I will > > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me... > > Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to choose > > him to do my surgery. > > > > Good health to you. > > Deb SM > > DOB 8-8-05 > > FF 10-6-05 > > 230-198-163-129?, or whatever... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2006 Report Share Posted February 15, 2006 Thanks for the kind words, they really helped me. I know my health is the MOST important thing. But as a mother I always think of what my children might need and put my needs second to thiers.. I know, I know I shouldn't do that-but that's just who I am... So tomorrow is the start of a brand new life for me.. A healthier and happier life.. Thanks for your kind words... Donna > > > > > > Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had > pneumonia. > > I > > > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. Sick > as > > a > > > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN > > ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!! > > > > > > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > > > business. > > > > > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my > weight > > > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I > think > > > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped > below > > > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face > and > > > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > > > > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants and > > > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and > dragging > > my > > > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in my > > > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery > > where > > > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the > one > > > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No matter > > > what. > > > > > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for now, > > they > > > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my > saggy > > > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around for > > > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money I > > have > > > ever INVESTED in my life. > > > > > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area of > my > > > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT > perfect. > > I > > > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so > > wonderful. > > > I find my life is about following up and following through. I am > > > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and > > food. > > > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I > will > > > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad food > > > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > > > > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me... > > > Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > > > > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to > choose > > > him to do my surgery. > > > > > > Good health to you. > > > Deb SM > > > DOB 8-8-05 > > > FF 10-6-05 > > > 230-198-163-129?, or whatever... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2006 Report Share Posted February 15, 2006 Hi Caprise! I am originally from Orange County. Well, for the most part I group up in Fullerton. Went to high school in La Habra, lived all around the county. (My mom liked to move when I was little). Nice to see you on the list! M 280/180/155 -100lbs gone for good! Lapband 3/1/05 http://www.tracyslapband.com From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of caprise holmesSent: Tuesday, February 14, 2006 9:02 AM Subject: Re: Re: Hello Bandsters.....(162-4) HI Virginia, I also live in california - in south orange county. and am also in the process of saving my money for band - i am scheduled for april 10th! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2006 Report Share Posted February 15, 2006 The best way to teach children is to be a good example. Thats how we learn. It they see you care for yourself, put yourself FIRST, that gives them permission to do that to. Putting YOUR health first, invests in your being around for them later. Being overweight just takes years off life. Good health to you. Deb SM > > > > > > > > Been a while since I have checked in. Was so sick. I had > > pneumonia. > > > I > > > > was never so sick. But the good news is that I LOST WEIGHT. > Sick > > as > > > a > > > > dog, but lost about 8-9 POUNDS. So PNEUMONIA FRICKEN > > > ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!! > > > > > > > > I may try to catch it again if I can't get beyond this 162-4 > > > > business. > > > > > > > > I am getting greedy now. Loving the loss. NO one noticed my > > weight > > > > loss till after I was sick. NOW everyone is making remarks. I > > think > > > > its because they didnt see me for a while, and then I dipped > > below > > > > that number where it really does show. LOL. Its when your face > > and > > > > other parts kick in... I hate the remarks. But thats just me. > > > > > > > > Now I am shopping for new clothes. Still like the BLACK pants > and > > > > comfy tops. I am getting tired of rolling up my pants and > > dragging > > > my > > > > pants on the ground. I dont look 'foxy' but I dont look fat in > my > > > > clothes now. Yeay!!! Hope I never get caught in a bank robbery > > > where > > > > they robber forces everyone to disrobe. You know I will be the > > one > > > > who get everyone killed. NO WAY will I remove my pants. No > matter > > > > what. > > > > > > > > Ok. Eventually my legs should look a little better. But for > now, > > > they > > > > look saggy and saggy, and a little more saggy. But I love my > > saggy > > > > legs compared to the fat miserable body I was carting around > for > > > > years. GAWD, how horrible my life was. This was the best money > I > > > have > > > > ever INVESTED in my life. > > > > > > > > I find this is the control I knew would reflect in EVERY area > of > > my > > > > life. I have discipline in areas I didnt before. I am NOT > > perfect. > > > I > > > > slack off. But I stick pretty much to my PLANS now. Its so > > > wonderful. > > > > I find my life is about following up and following through. I > am > > > > focused on goals now. Before I was focused on food and food and > > > food. > > > > I still LOVE food. But now I dont LIVE in that, terror that I > > will > > > > always be fat so accept it, space anymore. I may have a bad > food > > > > choice moment, but it doesnt last long, it cant. lol. > > > > > > > > Ok, I've said enough about me...what do you think about me... > > > > Take care, Bandsters and Perspective Bandsters. > > > > > > > > As always, I give worship to Dr. Aceves. I was fortunate to > > choose > > > > him to do my surgery. > > > > > > > > Good health to you. > > > > Deb SM > > > > DOB 8-8-05 > > > > FF 10-6-05 > > > > 230-198-163-129?, or whatever... > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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