Guest guest Posted May 11, 2007 Report Share Posted May 11, 2007 Speaking of sex…..I am in a new relationship with someone who isn’t done losing his weight yet (and yes, he is banded). In fact to be honest he is in the 500lb range. Yes, that is what I said. And I have to say we HAVE THE BEST SEX!! Ok sorry, I just had to say that lol!!! We also like to sit and hold hands and kiss. I love sex more that I have lost my weight and I know my new hot love will also because….well there will be more positions open to us. J PS I think putting OT in the subject line is a great idea. I also don’t think the original poster really had a problem with the sex topic but was giving some suggestions in case some people did have a problem with it. M DOB 3/1/05 280/160/160 5ft 6in, Size 8 http://www.tracyslapband.com http://www.myspace.com/techgurl88 From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Deb Sent: Wednesday, May 09, 2007 11:02 AM Subject: Re: Hey All Hey Regina, Why do our Dear Hubby's think that when the weight comes off, we are gonna throw them out. My Hubby is the greatest, but since I dropped the weight he is insecure. He stuck with me big and he's stuck with me small{small did i say that}. I love him more now, cuz I am not depressed about the excess weight. Granted I can out run him now, when he's chasing me around the house, but no worry, I'll let him catch me most of the time. Also, to you guys on the board what's up with wanting sex~sex~sex~ We have a lifetime, sometimes you just want to sit and chat without hands, mouth and everything else just going crazy.Without feeling hurt when I say no thank you. Sorry if this offends anyone, just want to put my Dear Hubby at ease and make him happy too!!!Any advice ? Thanks, Deb > > Hey , >I am like a whole new person.Floyd LOVES the new me,for some reason he keeps telling me that i'm gonna leave him for someone else.He has nothing to worry about we have been together for 20 yrs.married 15 of those..I love him dearly > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2007 Report Share Posted May 11, 2007 -------------- Original message -------------- >WHOO HOOO.....That boy better look out..;-) Won't be long....he's not gonna know what hit him! lol Ya know, weight does play a hugh role in how we interact sexually & emotionally. So of course when we feel & look better..everything else is better too! Dana Speaking of sex….. we HAVE THE BEST SEX!! more positions open to us. J Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2007 Report Share Posted May 12, 2007 Hey , Congrats to you girl!!!! You're my inspiration you know that!!! I have yet to dive into the relationship thing yet, I think I am just so emotionally tossed about that I am confused!!! Problem with me, the one I want I can't have...he is married...what a pain! Unhappily married but yet, still married so that's a totally NO NO there! I have been flirting with a guy at the gym by just looking at him and smiling but have yet to get the nerve to talk to him or even say " hi, " he's even made several attempts to walk in my direction looking at me, but i get shy and look the other way... WAIT, DID I JUST SAY " SHY " ....yes, folks though I can be so outgoing on the boards, this gurl has issues with striking up conversations with men. Oy Vey! However, in my own odd way I am going to be working with another trainer at the gym...May I just add he is my ADONIUS!!!! OMG, this guy has the greatest calf muscles ever...and the prettiest eyes I've seen in a long time...but he is a youngin and well I do like the other guy, whom is a tad older than me...but still really cute, I think it's the goatee and glasses that do it for me... ha ha. Anywho, I will be taking about 8 sessions with this trainer who happens to be really good friends with this guy...and I am hoping to do some researching on this guy via the trainer, let's just hope its not to OBVIOUS!!! I am sure it will be though... ha ha. So, that's my take on where I am at in the relationship game...I am teetering on the thought of PAYING for Match.com, and see where that lands me...hopefully not with any weirdos!! So, good luck to you all that are enjoying your new founded freedom in the land of sex...I'll be on the sidelines..winking at Holden... HA HA!!! Take Care!!! Kelli > > Speaking of sex...I am in a new relationship with someone who isn't done > losing his weight yet (and yes, he is banded). And I have to say we HAVE THE BEST SEX!! Ok sorry, I just had to say that lol!!! We also like to sit and hold hands and kiss. I love sex more that I have lost my weight and I know my new hot love will also because..well there will be more positions open to us. :-) > PS I think putting OT in the subject line is a great idea. I also don't > think the original poster really had a problem with the sex topic but was > giving some suggestions in case some people did have a problem with it. > > > > M > DOB 3/1/05 > 280/160/160 > 5ft 6in, Size 8 > <http://www.tracyslapband.com/> http://www.tracyslapband.com > > http://www.myspace.com/techgurl88 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2007 Report Share Posted May 12, 2007 Wow , So happy you found your new Sweetheart. I know it want be long, that he will be at his goal weight~with you by his side helping him as need be. Was he banded by Dr. Aceves? So glad you are happy. We've missed you, but understand it's summer time and they're just to much to do than sit in front of your computer. Keep us posted on his progress and yours too. I see you are at your goal weight!! YEAH. Doing the Happy Dance **** Don't be MIA for soo long. We need you on the board. Your except advise is priceless. You have come a long way Baby~ Best of luck to you in your journey of love. Bet your sons are happy with your new guy too. Isn't being in love and sex wonderful? Deb > > Speaking of sex...I am in a new relationship with someone who isn't done > losing his weight yet (and yes, he is banded). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 13, 2007 Report Share Posted May 13, 2007 Hey Kelli, you go girl with the trainer. Who cares if he is a youngin, as long as he is “of age” lol! M DOB 3/1/05 280/160/160 5ft 6in, Size 8 http://www.tracyslapband.com From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Kelli Sent: Saturday, May 12, 2007 10:21 AM Subject: Re: Hey All-OT <snip> However, in my own odd way I am going to be working with another trainer at the gym...May I just add he is my ADONIUS!!!! OMG, this guy has the greatest calf muscles ever...and the prettiest eyes I've seen in a long time...but he is a youngin and well I do like the other guy, whom is a tad older than me...but still really cute, I think it's the goatee and glasses that do it for me... ha ha. <snip> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 13, 2007 Report Share Posted May 13, 2007 Hi Deb, No it is kinda weird how we met. We met on myspace and neither one of us advertise on there that we have the band. I did a search for people within 150 miles of me and as I was looking through the people I saw his page and clicked on it. The rest is history, we found out by accident just in chatting that we both had the band. I don’t think it was a coincidence, I think God had plans that neither of us were aware of. Anyway, I am planning on moving to Arlington now to be with him I am so excited!! We have spent every weekend together since we met in person on March 23rd. I have applied for a job that has income potential 3 times what I make now and has benefits so everyone pray or cross their fingers for me because I am supposed to hear back this week! Oh and the band is awesome for both of us. He has already lost over 100lbs and I am staying steady at 160. When I get up there we are planning on starting another exercise challenge so be prepared! J M From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Deb Sent: Saturday, May 12, 2007 2:18 PM Subject: Re: Hey All-OT Wow , So happy you found your new Sweetheart. I know it want be long, that he will be at his goal weight~with you by his side helping him as need be. Was he banded by Dr. Aceves? So glad you are happy. We've missed you, but understand it's summer time and they're just to much to do than sit in front of your computer. Keep us posted on his progress and yours too. I see you are at your goal weight!! YEAH. Doing the Happy Dance **** Don't be MIA for soo long. We need you on the board. Your except advise is priceless. You have come a long way Baby~ Best of luck to you in your journey of love. Bet your sons are happy with your new guy too. Isn't being in love and sex wonderful? Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 13, 2007 Report Share Posted May 13, 2007 Oh yea, he's of age...I think he is 25!!! I have another youngin sorta checking me out in my ASL class, he is deaf and his brother is taking the class just as a fluff course..so that is how we met. He's a sweetie and he is going to work with me this summer on my signing so I can try to get certified in the future...hmmm nothing like a handsome tutor to motivate me...ha ha. > > Hey Kelli, you go girl with the trainer. Who cares if he is a youngin, as > long as he is " of age " lol! > > > > > > M > DOB 3/1/05 > 280/160/160 > 5ft 6in, Size 8 > <http://www.tracyslapband.com/> http://www.tracyslapband.com > > From: > [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Kelli > Sent: Saturday, May 12, 2007 10:21 AM > > Subject: Re: Hey All-OT > > > > <snip> > > However, in my own odd way I am going to be working with another > trainer at the gym...May I just add he is my ADONIUS!!!! OMG, this > guy has the greatest calf muscles ever...and the prettiest eyes I've > seen in a long time...but he is a youngin and well I do like the > other guy, whom is a tad older than me...but still really cute, I > think it's the goatee and glasses that do it for me... ha ha. > <snip> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 14, 2007 Report Share Posted May 14, 2007 Hi. , Saying a prayer and got my fingers crossed for you to land this new job. How can they refuse~Your just what they need~Good Luck and We're pulling for you in all aspects. {new love, new job, safe move.} Yes the Lord, has our life planned for us, we just need to have the wisdom to take the proper road at the stop sign. Arlington is a great town. Wish you the best.Keep us posted on everything. I'm so excited for you, Deb > > Hi Deb, I don't think it was a coincidence, I think God had plans that neither of us were aware of. Anyway, I am planning on moving to Arlington now to be with him I am so excited!! I have applied for a job that has income potential 3 times what I make now and has benefits so everyone pray or cross their fingers for me. > planning on starting another exercise challenge so be prepared! > > > M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 14, 2007 Report Share Posted May 14, 2007 //I have yet to dive into the relationship thing yet, I think I am just so emotionally tossed about that I am confused!!!// OMG, I know what you mean. I recently broke up with my boyfriend and am back doing the single thing. I can't even think about another relationship right now, just taking time off and filling my life with work, friends and activities. But men are starting to flirt with me again and I'm not used to it. I am the biggest GOOBER when it comes to flirting! Yesterday I literally ran, RAN to the other side of the casino and hid behind a slot machine when some well-intended guy tried to get to know me. My sister always jokes that a man needs to club me over the head and drag me to his cave before it even dawns on me that he's interested. It'll be fun to see how being single with the lap-band changes my dating life. I have HOPE that it'll all turn out great! Setje DOB 3/15/07 250/217/142 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 14, 2007 Report Share Posted May 14, 2007 Setjie you don't happen to be from Laughlin Nevada? I just seen that you mention Casino and I'm just wondering if you are close to me. Michel //Yesterday I literally ran, RAN to the other side of the casino and hid behind a slot machine when some well-intended guy tried to get to know me. // Setje DOB 3/15/07 250/217/142 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 14, 2007 Report Share Posted May 14, 2007 //Setjie you don't happen to be from Laughlin Nevada? I just seen that you mention Casino and I'm just wondering if you are close to me. > > Michel// No, I don't live in Laughlin. But yes, that was the Edgewater casino I was running across yesterday! We drove there from LA on Saturday and left Sunday. I LOVE Laughlin! Setje Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 15, 2007 Report Share Posted May 15, 2007 Hi Setje, I think we are kindred spirits right now Setje, I too have no clue when guys are flirting with me. There is this one guy at the gym that I like to look at, but when he looks at me and smiles or tries to come my way as to where I am working out....I look the other way. I know he works out in a different section than I do, so I am going to hire a trainer to help me get into that area to work out and perhaps I'll be able to strike up a conversation from there...by using, Gee I don't know how to do this machine....can you help me?? LOL. For now, I haven't dated and I am going to check out the Match.com, to see what is out there and start dating again. Kelli > > //I have yet to dive into the relationship thing yet, I think > I am just so emotionally tossed about that I am confused!!!// > > Setje > DOB 3/15/07 > 250/217/142 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 16, 2007 Report Share Posted May 16, 2007 Hi Kelli, Hey, we are twin awful flirters! =) Just have fun with being single. They say to make five second eye contact, give the guy a big beautiful smile, then let it go. That'll pique his interest, and why not, you are a great looking woman! I know, easier said than done! Setje > > Hi Setje, > I think we are kindred spirits right now Setje, I too have no clue > when guys are flirting with me. There is this one guy at the gym > that I like to look at, but when he looks at me and smiles or tries > to come my way as to where I am working out....I look the other way > Kelli > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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