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Thanks for sharing, Laurie!! has her heart filled with so much love for her brothers... I am sure the example you have shown her helped guide her along. Laurie Kowalski <lyndhurstmom3@...> wrote: When I was reading the posts about the sibling issues,I remembered this that my now 13 yo daughter wrote fora Reflections contest at school 2 years ago. Thetheme was "A Different Kind of Hero". I am very proudof her!!! She feels blessed to have her brothers

inher life (although not always!!! lol!!)Laurie

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Laurie - I can't open the attachment. Would you mind emailing directly

to me? I'd love to read this! Thanks, Chris

--- In , Laurie Kowalski <lyndhurstmom3@...>

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> When I was reading the posts about the sibling issues,

> I remembered this that my now 13 yo daughter wrote for

> a Reflections contest at school 2 years ago. The

> theme was " A Different Kind of Hero " . I am very proud

> of her!!! She feels blessed to have her brothers in

> her life (although not always!!! lol!!)

>

> Laurie

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  • 3 years later...

I got many from our library - we were fortunate enough our library received a grant for some autism materials and programs so we had a lot to choose from, but interlibrary loan has many and I know our lcal autism society has their own lending library. you can also buy them but often they get pricey and I woudl hate to buy somethign you woudl watch only once- some of Tony Atwoods would be worth buying just to share with paraprofessionals and teachers but typically I just email them to staff and where I got it, so if they are interested they know where to see it. check with local autism society, regional medical center, or children's hospitals as well. They often have lending libraries for families.

From: Amber Gibson <aplusmommy@...>Subject: ( ) sibling issues Date: Monday, October 4, 2010, 1:23 PM

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HI ,

I know your " I can't even take a shower w/o hearing bloodcurdeling screams " was

said in frustration but it made me smile, the reason...I've said that EXACT

thing!

My son is 13 (Aspie) and daughter is 10 (NT) and my son's resented us bringing

her home from day one! It's almost as if he to this day thinks she's going

somewhere, like we'd get rid of her if he asked.

He's more worried about what she gets, does, or has. If I mention anything to

him about the way he's acting he always takes the defence, claiming we always

take her side, that he can do nothing right, and so on. I think a lot of what

you described is normal sibling behavior or maybe it just seems normal to me

because it's what I've always known.

I too see my daughter picking up on some of my sons behaviour, saying the I wish

I was dead comments and out of complete anger like he does.

Hopefully there will be some answers her that we can both pull from.

:) W

>

> Hi there,

> I am mum to jacob 13(aspie) and Lenny 5(nt). There are major relationship

issues between the boys, seems to permanently need to control Lenny,

almost as though he is his parent he get angry and annoyed at the slightest

thing and will hit Lenny, hold him down and scream at him with no understanding

of Lennys age, i am unable to even take a shower or leave them together in a

room without hearing bloodcurdling sceams in a matter of minutes, it seems

nothing i do or say too Jake makes a difference, he seems to feels persecuted at

the slighted critisim to his behaviour. I now home school Lenny so he has a

chance to be nurtured and taught the right way to behave as he starded hitting

out at school, being home has done him wonders and he is so gentle and easy

going during the day. Lenny gets so angry with now and is learning his

behaviour. Does anyone have any ideas? Generally s execels at school,

though he hasn't been without his problems in the past, he seems to thrive on

the structure at school and has come leaps and bounds since his Dx in feb, I

love him to bits he is an amazinzing person, if only we could sort out the

constant confrontation and be able to explain certain social skills with out him

taking offense, the slighted critism throws him into a meltdown, but there has

to be a line of what he can get away with dosen't there? does anyone have

similar sibling issues, i know all siblings fight but this is tenfold to that of

norm any suggestions gratefully recieved....Thanks

>

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