Re: Re: clothes and sex!!!TRISH

[Guest guest]

Nope no meds no nothing.... I think some of it is self esteem issues, but can't

pin point how to deal with it. I haven't had an orgasm since I was in my mid

20s. Sorry, for the bluntness folks, but faking them is very common among us

girls and that needs to stop. Communication is important and I try to tell

hubby what I like and don't like but the usual stuff isn't working any more so

I'm in unexplored territory here.

aW

MGB 5/28/00

214/117 lbs

Re: clothes and sex!!!TRISH

--- DOCTOR RRrrruth,

So thats my problem aye? Being touched in general aye????More ways

then some???

a are you on meds? antidepressants???That'll make for a low

libido........

In @y..., metrishal@a... wrote:

> In a message dated 6/11/2001 3:04:45 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

> shoutjoy@c... writes:

>

>

> >

> > Wish sex was better for me. Got hormones tested and I'm normal

that way,

> > but feel just dead inside. ((

> >

> >

>

> Try touching the outside. Yes, I really just said that. Maybe you

need some

> stimulation? Try cuddling and caressing. This is not a side

effect from

> surgery a. Actually sex should be better now.

> Try something new or different maybe that will give you a jump

start. Go to

> 's Secrets and buy yourself something special.

> It works for me.

>

> Trish

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

teehee.. MAKE myself, naaaaaaaah...

aW

MGB 5/28/00

214/117 lbs

Re: clothes and sex!!!TRISH

> >

> >

> > --- DOCTOR RRrrruth,

> >

> >

> > So thats my problem aye? Being touched in general aye????More

> ways

> > then some???

> >

> > a are you on meds? antidepressants???That'll make for a low

> > libido........

> >

> > In @y..., metrishal@a... wrote:

> > > In a message dated 6/11/2001 3:04:45 PM Eastern Daylight

Time,

> > > shoutjoy@c... writes:

> > >

> > >

> > > >

> > > > Wish sex was better for me. Got hormones tested and I'm

> normal

> > that way,

> > > > but feel just dead inside. ((

> > > >

> > > >

> > >

> > > Try touching the outside. Yes, I really just said that.

Maybe

> you

> > need some

> > > stimulation? Try cuddling and caressing. This is not a side

> > effect from

> > > surgery a. Actually sex should be better now.

> > > Try something new or different maybe that will give you a

jump

> > start. Go to

> > > 's Secrets and buy yourself something special.

> > > It works for me.

> > >

> > > Trish

> > >

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

Ladies I wish i was having that problem. LOL...I'm the opposite..I'm loving

it know and I'm even trying new positions,,,LOL..If you know what I

mean...well anyway I need to thank Pat for that because otherwise I could

never afford it..LOL...(Inside joke)...Well take care to all....

a in Wisconsin

[Guest guest]

I have never been nice enough to fake an orgasm....

Ignorance IS teachable....practice practice practice I would tell new

lovers...hahhaha

Hugs,

in Ark

[Guest guest]

I think we try so hard to have an orgasm, that we forget to just relax! So

it does not happen, one can enjoy the intimacy without having an orgasm and

enjoying the intimacy can be just a pleasurable, but in a different manner.

Debra in Tulsa

[Guest guest]

I agree it is a subject not discussed that should be! Debra in Tulsa

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 6/12/2001 2:42:21 AM Eastern Daylight Time,

donnabreckenridge@... writes:

> an

> orgasm since I was in my mid 20s. Sorry, for the bluntness folks,

> but faking them is very common among us girls and that needs to

> stop. Communication is important and I try to tell hubby what I like

>

a,

I think faking them went out a long time ago. I am not sure why you would

fake one? To make the man feel good? In my opinion if your partner is not

observing your lack of pleasure why would you want them to think they were

turning you on? Maybe you need to explore your partner more and tell him

what you want????

Maybe you need excitement like and elevator.

Just my 2 cents

Bill

[Guest guest]

Hmm. " Nice " is not the word I'd choose. It was never a choice I made, to

fake it, although flat out saying to someone that the job was less than

stellar wasn't my style either. I really think that discussion should follow

sex. Maybe not right then, but with the morning coffee, somehow the message

needs to be communicated. Otherwise, guess who isn't happy? Not the man! PJ

[Guest guest]

OK, can we delete my name off the subject line... lol

TRISH

[Guest guest]

Hi Trish,

Was signing my name to the fake orgasm post an error? Or did you

automatically think of me when the subject of fake orgasms came up?? "

" the real " Bill

Re: Re: clothes and sex!!!TRISH

> In a message dated 6/12/2001 2:42:21 AM Eastern Daylight Time,

> donnabreckenridge@... writes:

>

>

> > an

> > orgasm since I was in my mid 20s. Sorry, for the bluntness folks,

> > but faking them is very common among us girls and that needs to

> > stop. Communication is important and I try to tell hubby what I like

> >

>

> a,

> I think faking them went out a long time ago. I am not sure why you would

> fake one? To make the man feel good? In my opinion if your partner is

not

> observing your lack of pleasure why would you want them to think they were

> turning you on? Maybe you need to explore your partner more and tell him

> what you want????

> Maybe you need excitement like and elevator.

> Just my 2 cents

> Bill

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Excitment like an elevator. hmmmm..... hmmmmm... ookaaaayyyyy....

*grin*

aW

----- Original Message -----

a,

I think faking them went out a long time ago. I am not sure why you would

fake one? To make the man feel good? In my opinion if your partner is not

observing your lack of pleasure why would you want them to think they were

turning you on? Maybe you need to explore your partner more and tell him

what you want????

Maybe you need excitement like and elevator.

Just my 2 cents

Bill

[Guest guest]

Could it be that Trish and Dr. Bill are really the same person? Come to

think of it, I've never seen them together...sort of like Bruce Wayne and

Batman.

Pax,

Steve

Re: Re: clothes and sex!!!TRISH

Hi Trish,

Was signing my name to the fake orgasm post an error? Or did you

automatically think of me when the subject of fake orgasms came up?? "

" the real " Bill

Re: Re: clothes and sex!!!TRISH

> In a message dated 6/12/2001 2:42:21 AM Eastern Daylight Time,

> donnabreckenridge@... writes:

>

>

> > an

> > orgasm since I was in my mid 20s. Sorry, for the bluntness folks,

> > but faking them is very common among us girls and that needs to

> > stop. Communication is important and I try to tell hubby what I like

> >

>

> a,

> I think faking them went out a long time ago. I am not sure why you would

> fake one? To make the man feel good? In my opinion if your partner is

not

> observing your lack of pleasure why would you want them to think they were

> turning you on? Maybe you need to explore your partner more and tell him

> what you want????

> Maybe you need excitement like and elevator.

> Just my 2 cents

> Bill

>

>

>