Guest guest Posted April 24, 2006 Report Share Posted April 24, 2006 Hi everyone, I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2006 Report Share Posted April 24, 2006 Social is tough. First, try to instruct your child NOT to ask to play with other kids, as this is just an open invitation for other kids to say "no" whether or not they want to play with him. Model or better, role-play how to join into a group. For example, if he sees some kids building a castle, teach him to go hang around for a little bit and then say "Hey that's a great castle." And then, ease into the playing. Some kids have a very hard time with the social, it is hard. ----- Original Message ----- From: Biehl Sent: Monday, April 24, 2006 9:21 AM Subject: [ ] Hi all Hi everyone, I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2006 Report Share Posted April 25, 2006 My son is the same way. He does not talk at school unless someone talks to him. I just enrolled him in a Social Skills class. Hoping it will help. Cochran <Ladyshrink111@...> wrote: Social is tough. First, try to instruct your child NOT to ask to play with other kids, as this is just an open invitation for other kids to say "no" whether or not they want to play with him. Model or better, role-play how to join into a group. For example, if he sees some kids building a castle, teach him to go hang around for a little bit and then say "Hey that's a great castle." And then, ease into the playing. Some kids have a very hard time with the social, it is hard. ----- Original Message ----- From: Biehl Sent: Monday, April 24, 2006 9:21 AM Subject: [ ] Hi all Hi everyone, I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2006 Report Share Posted April 26, 2006 , I'm behind on my emails so I'm curious if you got any responses on your email? Anyway - maybe you could get together with a few of us and we can work together with our kids and set up playdates or something. I'm still feeling new to Ohio (been here a year) and would be happy to make new friends. Not sure where you are located but you can send me an email off the group if you like: rwulfe@... I have two kids - my son is 6 (hyperlexia/autism) and daughter is 4 (speech). Becky ----- Original Message ----- From: Biehl Sent: 4/24/2006 9:21:42 AM Subject: [ ] Hi all Hi everyone, I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2006 Report Share Posted April 26, 2006 I know that Barrie Galvin's has social groups for kids, their number is 216-514-1600. --- Wulfeck <rwulfe@...> wrote: > , > I'm behind on my emails so I'm curious if you got > any responses on your email? > Anyway - maybe you could get together with a few of > us and we can work together with our kids and set up > playdates or something. I'm still feeling new to > Ohio (been here a year) and would be happy to make > new friends. Not sure where you are located but you > can send me an email off the group if you like: > rwulfe@... > I have two kids - my son is 6 (hyperlexia/autism) > and daughter is 4 (speech). > Becky > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Biehl > > Sent: 4/24/2006 9:21:42 AM > Subject: [ ] Hi all > > > Hi everyone, > I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my > husband the other night, " Why don't have I any > friends? No one will play with me. " Our Hearts were > nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask > the kids to play with him and he said he does, but > they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband > said that he will just have to keep trying to talk > to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I > don't know how to help him with this one. The school > is telling me that he is playing with the other kids > but when I went there he played along side them but > did not interact other than to tell them about the > rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 I'm thinking that we could have the /Becky mom's social group! I count.....four 's/Becky's here so far. It's a trend! As for a social group. there are a few local to me (Trumbull County). Let me know where you are located? ----- Original Message ----- From: Wulfeck Sent: 4/26/2006 8:19:27 AM Subject: RE: [ ] Hi all , I'm behind on my emails so I'm curious if you got any responses on your email? Anyway - maybe you could get together with a few of us and we can work together with our kids and set up playdates or something. I'm still feeling new to Ohio (been here a year) and would be happy to make new friends. Not sure where you are located but you can send me an email off the group if you like: rwulfe@... I have two kids - my son is 6 (hyperlexia/autism) and daughter is 4 (speech). Becky ----- Original Message ----- From: Biehl Sent: 4/24/2006 9:21:42 AM Subject: [ ] Hi all Hi everyone, I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 I'm not a becky, but would like to be an honorary one! I live in Portage County. ----- Original Message ----- From: rmaher1969@... Sent: Wednesday, April 26, 2006 7:53 PMSubject: RE: [ ] Hi allI'm thinking that we could have the /Becky mom's social group! I count.....four 's/Becky's here so far. It's a trend! As for a social group. there are a few local to me (Trumbull County). Let me know where you are located? ----- Original Message ----- From: Wulfeck Sent: 4/26/2006 8:19:27 AM Subject: RE: [ ] Hi all,I'm behind on my emails so I'm curious if you got any responses on your email? Anyway - maybe you could get together with a few of us and we can work together with our kids and set up playdates or something. I'm still feeling new to Ohio (been here a year) and would be happy to make new friends. Not sure where you are located but you can send me an email off the group if you like: rwulfe@...I have two kids - my son is 6 (hyperlexia/autism) and daughter is 4 (speech).Becky ----- Original Message ----- From: Biehl Sent: 4/24/2006 9:21:42 AM Subject: [ ] Hi allHi everyone,I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you.__________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 Wow, that's true, lots of 's. I'm in Mahoning County, south of , and east of I think :-) We can't eat tuna, don't have amalgams, didn't live with any mold, just those darn vaccinations. Btw, registered her for kindergarten, gave them the religious exemption, not one question or comment was made. ----- Original Message ----- From: rmaher1969@... Sent: Wednesday, April 26, 2006 7:53 PM Subject: RE: [ ] Hi all I'm thinking that we could have the /Becky mom's social group! I count.....four 's/Becky's here so far. It's a trend! As for a social group. there are a few local to me (Trumbull County). Let me know where you are located? ----- Original Message ----- From: Wulfeck Sent: 4/26/2006 8:19:27 AM Subject: RE: [ ] Hi all , I'm behind on my emails so I'm curious if you got any responses on your email? Anyway - maybe you could get together with a few of us and we can work together with our kids and set up playdates or something. I'm still feeling new to Ohio (been here a year) and would be happy to make new friends. Not sure where you are located but you can send me an email off the group if you like: rwulfe@... I have two kids - my son is 6 (hyperlexia/autism) and daughter is 4 (speech). Becky ----- Original Message ----- From: Biehl Sent: 4/24/2006 9:21:42 AM Subject: [ ] Hi all Hi everyone, I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 Ha! A good trend - ha! I'm in Summit County. Becky #4? ----- Original Message ----- From: rmaher1969@... Sent: 4/26/2006 7:53:47 PM Subject: RE: [ ] Hi all I'm thinking that we could have the /Becky mom's social group! I count.....four 's/Becky's here so far. It's a trend! As for a social group. there are a few local to me (Trumbull County). Let me know where you are located? ----- Original Message ----- From: Wulfeck Sent: 4/26/2006 8:19:27 AM Subject: RE: [ ] Hi all , I'm behind on my emails so I'm curious if you got any responses on your email? Anyway - maybe you could get together with a few of us and we can work together with our kids and set up playdates or something. I'm still feeling new to Ohio (been here a year) and would be happy to make new friends. Not sure where you are located but you can send me an email off the group if you like: rwulfe@... I have two kids - my son is 6 (hyperlexia/autism) and daughter is 4 (speech). Becky ----- Original Message ----- From: Biehl Sent: 4/24/2006 9:21:42 AM Subject: [ ] Hi all Hi everyone, I need some help. My almost 6 year son asked my husband the other night,"Why don't have I any friends? No one will play with me." Our Hearts were nearly ripped out. My husband asked him does he ask the kids to play with him and he said he does, but they don't want to play. He was very sad. My husband said that he will just have to keep trying to talk to the kids. I know why the kids may shy away but I don't know how to help him with this one. The school is telling me that he is playing with the other kids but when I went there he played along side them but did not interact other than to tell them about the rules. Anyone with suggestions thank you. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2006 Report Share Posted April 28, 2006 In a message dated 4/28/2006 6:14:33 PM Eastern Standard Time, rmaher1969@... writes: SPIT into the Lobster tank. Needless to say, we have never gone back, nor do I think we are welcome. I suspect that they have our pictures posted for all the employees to watch for us! Ahhh, so that's who that is.... lol. Roxanna ô¿ôDon't take life too seriously; No one gets out alive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2006 Report Share Posted April 28, 2006 Becky, We have a few places like you mentioned that know our family and our situation and I agree that there are some places that are very accomodating. As for Red Lobster...that's a whole different story for us. We don't give our kids fish or seafood, but once we went( thinking that the kids will only eat chicken strips anywhere and hubby and I wanted seafood). When asked for pancakes and was told that they didn't have pancakes at Red Lobster, he had a melt down. We gathered him up quickly to escape before the full blown melt down occurred. We were past the point of trying to explain that we would take him to Perkin's instead, he was in a blind rage and on the way out, through the lobby, where the lobster tank sits.... SPIT into the Lobster tank. Needless to say, we have never gone back, nor do I think we are welcome. I suspect that they have our pictures posted for all the employees to watch for us! Never a dull moment! BTW are you Becky #5??? ----- Original Message ----- From: becky griggs Sent: 4/28/2006 5:01:44 PM Subject: Re: [ ] Hi all Our local Wal Mart knows us and knows ...in the past....had great trouble at the check out. So they have allowed us to us the service desk to check out. When we took him to Cedar point we took a letter from his PCP and was able to get special line treatment for the VERY few rides he would go on. .We got to use the handicap entrance and got right on. I am told that larger amusement parks will give you the same treatment if you call them ahead of time and explain. Also have been seated 1st available table at Red lobster when the wait has been longer than 15 minutes. I have asked for the manager and showed him NARY card and explained how hard waiting was with him, I asked if there was any way we could get a table faster as he really does not want to eat anywhere else. We only go when they have all you can eat shrimp feast as LOVES shrimp. Many business if you take the time to explain will accomadate you. They would rather do that than have you go down the road and spend your money there. "rmaher1969@..." <rmaher1969@...> wrote: This works best when the store is very busy and crowded, like during the holidays. I had it happen only once to be honest. But, I like to look at the glass half full. Some days -half full of scotch! ----- Original Message ----- From: The Marotta Family Sent: 4/27/2006 11:49:41 AM Subject: Re: [ ] Hi all - What store was that?? I don't think I ever got that special treatment!! Jealous here! I think I better start shopping in Trumbull Co! Chris>From: "rmaher1969@..." <rmaher1969@...>>Reply- > >Subject: Re: [ ] Hi all>Date: Thu, 27 Apr 2006 10:41:41 -0400>>Yes! Roxanna/ your membership is good here. Everyone is welcome. >This group is my lifeline. I can use all the friends I can rope in!>> If you are one who has found that you have nothing in common with the >playground mommies, you're in the right place.>>If you become anxious about your child not being invited to Birthday >Parties, then horrified when they are invited because you KNOW that he/she >will want to blow out the candles and open the presents, you're in the >right place.>> If you have found that having a child who melts down in the store >checkout aisle is to your advantage because the store manager will open a >line especially for you, to get you out as quickly as possible, this is >your club!>>>----- Original Message ----->From:> >Sent: 4/27/2006 10:15:04 AM>Subject: Re: [ ] Hi all>>>In a message dated 4/27/2006 9:41:51 AM Eastern Standard Time, >rmaher1969@... writes:>LOL, Chris! I , hereby dub thee an honorary . But you shall >be known to all as in Portage County! Welcome to dom, reap >the rewards! You will forever more have all the benefits of being a >. You will endure nicknames like Rebecky, Becker, and Becca. You >will be exposed to cute questions like "Are you from Sunny Brook Farm?">> from Trumbull County>>Ahem. My name is Roxanna but my mother wanted to name me . Does >that count?>>Almost a in Medina Co.>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2007 Report Share Posted November 23, 2007 I think that sharing any type of healing would be most wonderful!! Marty Stompingelk --- vanadeux <vanadeux@...> wrote: > I also belong to a health forum, whereby people have > had huge improvements in their health no matter what > condition, > > by drinking a homemade alkalising drink... > > I don't want to detract from this group by posting > the details.. > > but I could ask permission to share the recipe here. > > It seems having enough alkalising elements in the > body all day and every day is just so important for > organs and glands to work properly, and we are > electrical beings, if the ph is off, we sort of > short circuit you might say! > > So not sure if the ph factor has been discussed in > this group before? > > thanks > > ajd Spiritual freedom is my birthright. I am a free thinker. I am able to rise above mental prejudices and stereotypes of others. I am a free thinker. Nobody and nothing can manipulate me or deceive me. I am a free thinker. I freely choose truth and love. Today, I embrace a greater degree of spiritual freedom. ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Be a better pen pal. Text or chat with friends inside . See how. http://overview.mail./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2007 Report Share Posted November 23, 2007 Van, you do not need to ask permission. :-) Please post anything pertaining to health. I have posted a couple of articles on ph balance, but received no comments. Now, I am well aware that to have an alkaline system is very healthy. To have an alkaline system prevents lots of dis-ease. Too many viruses and bad bacteria live in acid systems. Most of our popular modern foods are acidic. I lost a delicious alkaline drink recipe when my computer went down in March and have not been able to find the video on the internet. Maybe your drink is it. Here are some of the ingredients: organic whole milk flaxseed coconut oil blueberries yogurt organic eggs spices (nutmeg, cardamom, and more but can't remember them) There are more ingredients, but I can't remember them. Sure hope you know them! When Vera and I drank this daily, Vera started feeling better and I had so much energy and was feeling so good. When Vera died, I misplaced that recipe and had already lost it on the computer. Something to learn there. So I am really praying, your recipe will be the one I lost or a good replacement! Lots of Love, Joy [ ] hi all I also belong to a health forum, whereby people have had huge improvements in their health no matter what condition, by drinking a homemade alkalising drink... I don't want to detract from this group by posting the details.. but I could ask permission to share the recipe here. It seems having enough alkalising elements in the body all day and every day is just so important for organs and glands to work properly, and we are electrical beings, if the ph is off, we sort of short circuit you might say! So not sure if the ph factor has been discussed in this group before? thanks ajd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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