Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 a, have you looked into any of the new famale orgasm enhancer gels? Some can be used on both male and female. Go to luvgel.com, for one site, and read about it. There are a few. PJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 Well........ Mine is the opposite of yours. My husband likes me better now and is more active, I'm still pretty much dead. I was hoping the hormones would help. Now they HAVE helped my moods. I am hoping my sexual life will improve, in time. I am estatic that he is more " active " . I will never discourage him! I just have to get ME ..... unbroke so to speak. aW Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 a, what about that book I recommended to you?????????? " the good girls guide to bad girl sex " It was really a " how to " understand your body and what is pleasing to you so that you can tell your husband. Discuss this with your doctor also, do you have a woman GYN, they are MUCH better, I think, than the men GYN's. You might have a medical issue. Before my hysterectomy, when I had tumors and other problems, my orgasims were minimal, after my surgery WATCH OUT!!!!!!!! See about this a, no need to not enjoy one of life's little pleasures! and there are no calories also! Re: Libido Well........ Mine is the opposite of yours. My husband likes me better now and is more active, I'm still pretty much dead. I was hoping the hormones would help. Now they HAVE helped my moods. I am hoping my sexual life will improve, in time. I am estatic that he is more " active " . I will never discourage him! I just have to get ME ..... unbroke so to speak. aW Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 Manda, I saw a program on this. The man saw his wife give birth and then couldn't see her as sexual after that. Their therapy was, believe it or not, to interact with each other, BUT NO SEX ALLOWED. For months, when they were together, they were to massage each other, take soothing baths, sleep close, etc., because it really is a way to get the intimacy back. After a few months, they interviewed the husband and he was " full steam ahead " and this guy was NO PANSY, he was a pretty macho man. He even said " I feel like a man again " . Try the touching, massaging, relaxing with the NO SEX REQUIRED so that there is no stress when you are together. Remember when we were young and would have make out sessions with guys, that's what you have to do, Also, this is a VERY BIG situation. Constantly compliment your husband for the man he is, how important he is to you, how handsome he is, how much you love him and would never want to live without him, that he is the most important person in your world. These are true, I am sure, and all of these emotions expressed will bring you closer because he will feel better about himself and he will feel loved. Try this, just look at a man when you compliment him, he grins from ear to ear. Let me know if this is any help. Don't loose your marriage, I have been single for a long, long time and I can tell you that it is very very hard to find a man who will commit to a relationship, the grass is only greener on the other side because it has been watered!!!!!! Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 ok ok teehee.. I'll see if I can find it. aW Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 you go girl, but a tiger in your tank!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also, see your doctor FIRST and discuss with her your situation, don't try to cure yourself without this very important issue attended to by your doctor, Re: Libido ok ok teehee.. I'll see if I can find it. aW Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 manda, I did but many other factors came into play with me.......i for one cant stand to go thru the motions of sex just to be going thru the motions if u know what i mean.......i wouldnt if there wasnt any feeling or emotional satisfaction......and bc of the other problems for me there was always no emotional satisfaction ........was one of the less important reasons why i decided to move out........the other reasons were more important but i guess the sex life just added to it. Kathy 2/14/01 -147 from heaviest weight..... At 09:26 PM 9/20/2001 +0000, you wrote: >Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been >married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. >When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls >that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal >treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat >to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just >wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy >and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no >sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same >self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember >the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it >is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal >part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good >friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what >will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else >experienced this with their significant other? > >manda > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2001 Report Share Posted September 20, 2001 Manda You may want to consider getting some counseling, I don't think the issue here is sex, but self esteem. I used to feel like before I lost the weight that I had be sure my husband was always satisfied so he wouldn't have any compliants. I guess I always thoguht if I didn't perform he would leave me. It was stupid thinking on my part as our marriage is great, but I do admit to having more confidence in myself now and I am more vocal if I don't feel like having sex. He and I have discussed this and laugh about how weight effects your self esteem. Good luck I'm sure you will work this all out. I will pray for you and you may want to consider praying with your husband about this. take care Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2001 Report Share Posted September 21, 2001 , see your doctor, keep your hubby happy Re: Libido My husband, maybe? I have lost that " lovin' feeling " myself and hubby is not too happy about it. Now that I am getting to be a normal size and my self-esteem is growing daily, I really am not interested in " it " at all. Tom Crews and Mel Gibson no longer race my engines!!! LOL I will have to get me something for this.. On Thu, 20 Sep 2001 21:26:48 -0000 " Manda " <eskieluvr@...> writes: > Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been > married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. > When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls > > that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all > hormonal > treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat > > to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it > just > wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the > energy > and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no > > sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same > > self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember > > the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it > > is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal > part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good > > friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what > > will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else > experienced this with their significant other? > > manda > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2001 Report Share Posted September 21, 2001 Oh, yes, after the medical is reviewed, definitely get some counseling, lots of us have been abused in one way or another and that makes intimacy/sex/vulnerability difficult. We can work those issues out, especially with a loving and accepting partner. Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2001 Report Share Posted September 21, 2001 Manda, this is a problem for an experienced therapist. You and your husband should get some help with the issues, and also to make sure no physical problems are the cause. At 3 1/2 years of marriage, you have a lot at stake. You are too young to settle for a sexless union. This surgery brings out so many underlying issues that were previously attributed to being overweight!! This has caused many to have marital problems and many marriages to go south, so don't wait to get help. Many of us, and our spouses, used the weight thing to cover all sins, and when it is no longer there, what do we do? If we don't face the issues and resolve them, our relationships will suffer. My prayers are with you as you try to get help. Marriages are worth fighting for. Your family doc is a good starting place and can probably refer you further as you need. And rest assured, they have heard it all before, so don't be embarrassed to open up to him/her. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} Pat Eppler Libido Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all hormonal treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it just wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the energy and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else experienced this with their significant other? manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 21, 2001 Report Share Posted September 21, 2001 My husband, maybe? I have lost that " lovin' feeling " myself and hubby is not too happy about it. Now that I am getting to be a normal size and my self-esteem is growing daily, I really am not interested in " it " at all. Tom Crews and Mel Gibson no longer race my engines!!! LOL I will have to get me something for this.. On Thu, 20 Sep 2001 21:26:48 -0000 " Manda " <eskieluvr@...> writes: > Okay, time for me to rant again. My hubby and I have only been > married 3.5 years, and have never had an overly active sex life. > When we first got married, I tried several different birth controls > > that just killed my sex drive. After I finally went off all > hormonal > treatments, some of my sex drive returned, but I always felt too fat > > to have sex, and with my big 'ole stomach getting in the way, it > just > wasn't worth my time. Now that I've lost weight, and have the > energy > and motivation, and some sex drive returning, my husband now has no > > sex drive. My weight loss has effected him, and now he has the same > > self esteem problems that I had 6 months ago. I don't even remember > > the last time we had sex. It really is getting to the point that it > > is affecting our marriage, because I think a sex life is a normal > part of a marriage. As things are right now, we're just really good > > friends sharing a house. I think if things are like this now, what > > will they be like in 10, 15, and 20 years. Has anyone else > experienced this with their significant other? > > manda > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2007 Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 Funny you mention this-- I was thinking the same thing! :-) Kathy in VA 7/6/06 297/193 -------------- Original message -------------- From: " dimndznprlz01 " <teacher4la@...> I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone else with this issue? Thanks, in LA Dr R. 7 ft 338/250 07/06/06 25 min Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2007 Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 Same here, although I was chalking it up to depression (although I must admit that a complete lack of sex is also more than a little depressing <sigh>). I'm at my lowest weight in well over 20 years and I figured I'd be tackling my husband every time he came through the door. I can't remember the last time I even WANTED to have sex. 271/165/(115 - some day) Jan 20/06, Dr. D in Michigan (my hero!) keallison@... wrote: > > > Funny you mention this-- I was thinking the same thing! > > :-) Kathy in VA > 7/6/06 > 297/193 > > -------------- Original message -------------- > From: " dimndznprlz01 " <teacher4la@... > <mailto:teacher4la%40hotmail.com>> > I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost > 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty > sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty > randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? > Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone > else with this issue? Thanks, > > in LA > Dr R. > 7 ft > 338/250 > 07/06/06 > 25 min Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2007 Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 , I'm with you. I'm three years out and I would be plenty happy if I never had sex again. CAN SOMEONE OUT THERE HELP US? in Phoenix Libido I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone else with this issue? Thanks, in LA Dr R. 7 ft 338/250 07/06/06 25 min Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2007 Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 > > I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost > 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty > sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty > randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? > Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone > else with this issue? Thanks, > > in LA > Dr R. > 7 ft > 338/250 > 07/06/06 > 25 min > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 Sorry girls! Not the same here! How old are you all? Is it possibly peri menopausal? I am 43 and my husband is 60, and all I can say is its a good thing he has been a runner for the last 30 years because I'd catch him everytime If he wasnt in better shape then me! I can't seem to get enough of him and he thinks its great 90% of the time! The other 10% he is hiding from me! LOL! I think he thinks I'm gonna break it or something! One more question? Are you girls exerciseing regularly? Regular exercise increases your sex drive considerably. Don't know what else to say except, my husband better buy some new running shoes! LOL! in Fla Sept 1, 2005 424/384.5/209 hi/preop/now 5 ft 8 inches tall 8 ft bypass 43 years old ************************************** AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 --yes, I had the same experience. My libido just disappeared. I was 58 when I had the surgery but still sexually active, but following surgery, it just died. Am divorced now because of it. Sara 10/16/02 260/167 -------------- Original message -------------- From: keallison@... Funny you mention this-- I was thinking the same thing! :-) Kathy in VA 7/6/06 297/193 -------------- Original message -------------- From: " dimndznprlz01 " <teacher4la@...> I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone else with this issue? Thanks, in LA Dr R. 7 ft 338/250 07/06/06 25 min Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 Maybe it's the patch that is causing it. I know before I lost some weight, I had problems with excessive estrogen, and now I don't, which has helped tremendously. If you're on the patch, you're probably getting extra estrogen. Too bad they don't have a Viagra for women, lol Here's something I read online: " Excessive estrogen levels coupled with low progesterone levels then leads to a hormonal imbalance, which can result in a woman's lack of libido. " > > , > I'm with you. I'm three years out and I would be plenty happy if I never had sex again. > CAN SOMEONE OUT THERE HELP US? > in Phoenix > Libido > > > I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost > 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty > sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty > randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? > Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone > else with this issue? Thanks, > > in LA > Dr R. > 7 ft > 338/250 > 07/06/06 > 25 min > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 Are any of you lacking in the libido dept taking Zinc? I know zinc deficiency affects the male libido.It may be worth it to add Zinc to your daily supplements. You may also want to include B vitamins and DHEA. I am with Sassy (sexy) cat (aka ) on this one, though. Wayne and I are still honeymooners after 19 years and BOTH of us having had the MGB...hubba hubba... I would strongly suggest you go to your gyno and have your hormone levels checked, though. Be well! Liz >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 I think this deserves some research because I too have the same issues. I don't think the medical profession knows that much about the female libido thus no real " pill " to eliminate all the " issues " that are present. I don't have an answer. HRT with all its side affects is NOT for me. Herbals, there are creams that can be used, but don't really know how effective they are. My GYN said she couldn't help me and gave me my money back (co-pay). That's pretty bad huh? Lol a -- Re: Libido --yes, I had the same experience. My libido just disappeared. I was 58 when I had the surgery but still sexually active, but following surgery, it just died. Am divorced now because of it. Sara 10/16/02 260/167 -------------- Original message -------------- From: keallison@... Funny you mention this-- I was thinking the same thing! :-) Kathy in VA 7/6/06 297/193 -------------- Original message -------------- From: " dimndznprlz01 " <teacher4la@...> I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone else with this issue? Thanks, in LA Dr R. 7 ft 338/250 07/06/06 25 min Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 You are welcome Kathy! I think that might have something there with the zinc to because I take 660 mg of it a day! Glad I could give you a reason to smile. Life is so much more fun now! Hugs in Fla Sept 1, 2005 424/384.5/209 hi/preop/now 5 ft 8 inches tall 8 ft bypass 43 years old ************************************** AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 I think part of it must be just being out of the habit. My husband and I are finding that we're re-learning lots of things-- I've been so unhappy with myself for so long that thinking negative thoughts has become a bad habit. And for him, not reaching out with affection became too normal too. I'm trusting that it will improve. . . to begin again it definitely feels like an effort. The rewards aren't all bad though! ;-) :-) Kathy in VA 7/6/06 297/193 -------------- Original message -------------- From: Kenny <erinkkenny@...> Same here, although I was chalking it up to depression (although I must admit that a complete lack of sex is also more than a little depressing <sigh>). I'm at my lowest weight in well over 20 years and I figured I'd be tackling my husband every time he came through the door. I can't remember the last time I even WANTED to have sex. 271/165/(115 - some day) Jan 20/06, Dr. D in Michigan (my hero!) keallison@... wrote: > > > Funny you mention this-- I was thinking the same thing! > > :-) Kathy in VA > 7/6/06 > 297/193 > > -------------- Original message -------------- > From: " dimndznprlz01 " <teacher4la@... > <mailto:teacher4la%40hotmail.com>> > I'm curious, in the last few months, my libido has been nil. I've lost > 88 lbs, I exercise regularly and figure that I should be feeling pretty > sexy, but not so. When I was down to this weight before, I was pretty > randy. Now, I don't feel much of a desire. Could this be hormonal? > Yes, I still need the patch to be allowed out on the street. Anyone > else with this issue? Thanks, > > in LA > Dr R. > 7 ft > 338/250 > 07/06/06 > 25 min Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 Congratulations !! lol you've given me my smile for the day. I'm 45. Definitely not exercising enough-- I'll give it a try and report back. . . :-) Kathy in VA -------------- Original message -------------- From: sassy37cat@... Sorry girls! Not the same here! How old are you all? Is it possibly peri menopausal? I am 43 and my husband is 60, and all I can say is its a good thing he has been a runner for the last 30 years because I'd catch him everytime If he wasnt in better shape then me! I can't seem to get enough of him and he thinks its great 90% of the time! The other 10% he is hiding from me! LOL! I think he thinks I'm gonna break it or something! One more question? Are you girls exerciseing regularly? Regular exercise increases your sex drive considerably. Don't know what else to say except, my husband better buy some new running shoes! LOL! in Fla Sept 1, 2005 424/384.5/209 hi/preop/now 5 ft 8 inches tall 8 ft bypass 43 years old ************************************** AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2007 Report Share Posted March 24, 2007 I wonder if exercise and Zinc Sulphate made up that little bottle of " Love Potion Number 9 " ? Course I haven't kissed any cops lately! That would probably be dangerous! LOL ************************************** AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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