Guest guest Posted November 25, 2010 Report Share Posted November 25, 2010 Can we just leave this? Topic over. Everyone has said what they need to say. Let's move on. Alobar On Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 3:51 AM, soydecaflatte <spthompson49@...> wrote: > Alobar, maybe just acknowledge it? That would be very cool of you. > > If someone would please acknowledge that a wrongdoing occurred, the subject would be dropped. > > ph, I'm not a moderator here, but I have moderated other groups. Yes, your name should not have been put in the subject. You should not have been falsely diagnosed against your will. If no one will apologize to you, I apologize for them all. > > In fact, I'm changing the subject. > > I sympathize and am sorry for any pain this thread has caused you. I'm sure that your own research and intuition will lead you to a beneficial outcome. People need to find their own answers, and I'm sure you will find yours. > > all the best, > > nah > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 25, 2010 Report Share Posted November 25, 2010 Hi nah: Do you realize how arrogant it is to apologize for someone else's behavior when they act at their own discretion? Each of us is allowed to make their own mistakes just as we receive credit for our good deeds. That is, you have absolutely no more right to apologize for my errors than to accept credit for my good deeds. I am not interested in doing either and neither should you be. I have been paying close attention to Duncan's posts for about ten years and IMO he deserves to receive kudos for his contributions here and elsewhere. No one deserves credit for what he has contributed except him. At the same time, when/if he makes a mistake and harms someone, he will pay for it. This will occur whether or not you or I recognize his error. There are no accidents. Karma (cause and effect) is alive and working for every individual. Kind Regards, Jim On 11/25/2010 4:51 AM, soydecaflatte wrote: > > Alobar, maybe just acknowledge it? That would be very cool of you. > > If someone would please acknowledge that a wrongdoing occurred, the > subject would be dropped. > > ph, I'm not a moderator here, but I have moderated other groups. > Yes, your name should not have been put in the subject. You should not > have been falsely diagnosed against your will. If no one will > apologize to you, I apologize for them all. > > In fact, I'm changing the subject. > > I sympathize and am sorry for any pain this thread has caused you. I'm > sure that your own research and intuition will lead you to a > beneficial outcome. People need to find their own answers, and I'm > sure you will find yours. > > all the best, > > nah > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 25, 2010 Report Share Posted November 25, 2010 Thanks Jim; yup, everything in balance, a bit o' yin and a bit o' yang. My karma seems to have been pretty good for years; recently many of my wishes came true in a single week, I've been spared from colds and crises, and not being sick has allowed me to focus on helping others to not be sick. Keep on keepin' on I figure all good, Duncan > > Hi nah: > > Do you realize how arrogant it is to apologize for someone else's > behavior when they act at their own discretion? Each of us is allowed > to make their own mistakes just as we receive credit for our good > deeds. That is, you have absolutely no more right to apologize for my > errors than to accept credit for my good deeds. I am not interested in > doing either and neither should you be. > > I have been paying close attention to Duncan's posts for about ten years > and IMO he deserves to receive kudos for his contributions here and > elsewhere. No one deserves credit for what he has contributed except > him. At the same time, when/if he makes a mistake and harms someone, he > will pay for it. This will occur whether or not you or I recognize his > error. There are no accidents. Karma (cause and effect) is alive and > working for every individual. > > Kind Regards, > Jim > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 25, 2010 Report Share Posted November 25, 2010 how do i get off this list... i thought this group was supposed to be about coconut oil, not about people with fucked up attitudes who refuse to apogogize when they are wrong... Apology to ph Alobar, maybe just acknowledge it? That would be very cool of you. If someone would please acknowledge that a wrongdoing occurred, the subject would be dropped. ph, I'm not a moderator here, but I have moderated other groups. Yes, your name should not have been put in the subject. You should not have been falsely diagnosed against your will. If no one will apologize to you, I apologize for them all. In fact, I'm changing the subject. I sympathize and am sorry for any pain this thread has caused you. I'm sure that your own research and intuition will lead you to a beneficial outcome. People need to find their own answers, and I'm sure you will find yours. all the best, nah > > Lynda, > > > > What a few of you didn't seem to realize or see is that I didn't want my name being put into a subject line (as in " ph's Toxicity " ) in order for Duncan or anyone else to make a spectacle of me and my health condition, based on what they think it may be from thousands of miles away. I also didn't care to know what his or anyone's diagnosis is for me, with his guesstimate of my prognosis and other scary info. I told him so but it didn't matter, I got it anyway, and I kept getting it. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2010 Report Share Posted November 26, 2010 thanks for the info. yall have a good time fighting over who is righter and wronger, and alobar ultimately exerting his authority over the kingdom of the coconut. this has been one time too many of people explosively fighting over nothing else but there own pride. all that for what? to prove that some research was done over someone elses research which proves that some molecule is more powerful then another? the personal attacks are nauseating. so thanks so much for all the wonderful information, and miss me with the bullying. Re: Apology to ph > > It was self service to get on the list...and the same thing is > required to get off the list - go to the group's home page and >'leave the group' Additionally, at the bottom of every Group post received via email is a mailto: link to unsubscribe. > dramatic announcements = not necessary Agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2010 Report Share Posted November 26, 2010 It was self service to get on the list...and the same thing is required to get off the list - go to the group's home page and 'leave the group' dramatic announcements = not necessary d From: julia lowers. <cocheesie420@...> Subject: RE: Apology to ph Coconut Oil Date: Friday, November 26, 2010, 8:55 AM Â how do i get off this list... i thought this group was supposed to be about coconut oil, not about people with fucked up attitudes who refuse to apogogize when they are wrong... Apology to ph Alobar, maybe just acknowledge it? That would be very cool of you. If someone would please acknowledge that a wrongdoing occurred, the subject would be dropped. ph, I'm not a moderator here, but I have moderated other groups. Yes, your name should not have been put in the subject. You should not have been falsely diagnosed against your will. If no one will apologize to you, I apologize for them all. In fact, I'm changing the subject. I sympathize and am sorry for any pain this thread has caused you. I'm sure that your own research and intuition will lead you to a beneficial outcome. People need to find their own answers, and I'm sure you will find yours. all the best, nah > > Lynda, > > > > What a few of you didn't seem to realize or see is that I didn't want my name being put into a subject line (as in " ph's Toxicity " ) in order for Duncan or anyone else to make a spectacle of me and my health condition, based on what they think it may be from thousands of miles away. I also didn't care to know what his or anyone's diagnosis is for me, with his guesstimate of my prognosis and other scary info. I told him so but it didn't matter, I got it anyway, and I kept getting it. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2010 Report Share Posted November 26, 2010 thats my cause and effect... thanks dad From: julia lowers. <cocheesie420@...> Subject: RE: Apology to ph Coconut Oil Date: Friday, November 26, 2010, 8:55 AM  how do i get off this list... i thought this group was supposed to be about coconut oil, not about people with fucked up attitudes who refuse to apogogize when they are wrong... Apology to ph Alobar, maybe just acknowledge it? That would be very cool of you. If someone would please acknowledge that a wrongdoing occurred, the subject would be dropped. ph, I'm not a moderator here, but I have moderated other groups. Yes, your name should not have been put in the subject. You should not have been falsely diagnosed against your will. If no one will apologize to you, I apologize for them all. In fact, I'm changing the subject. I sympathize and am sorry for any pain this thread has caused you. I'm sure that your own research and intuition will lead you to a beneficial outcome. People need to find their own answers, and I'm sure you will find yours. all the best, nah > > Lynda, > > > > What a few of you didn't seem to realize or see is that I didn't want my name being put into a subject line (as in " ph's Toxicity " ) in order for Duncan or anyone else to make a spectacle of me and my health condition, based on what they think it may be from thousands of miles away. I also didn't care to know what his or anyone's diagnosis is for me, with his guesstimate of my prognosis and other scary info. I told him so but it didn't matter, I got it anyway, and I kept getting it. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2010 Report Share Posted November 26, 2010 > > It was self service to get on the list...and the same thing is > required to get off the list - go to the group's home page and >'leave the group' Additionally, at the bottom of every Group post received via email is a mailto: link to unsubscribe. > dramatic announcements = not necessary Agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2010 Report Share Posted November 26, 2010 Hi , I hope it's not too late to change your mind. I have been contemplating the same thing but decided that would be akin to cutting off my nose to spite my face as there are a number of members here - both old and new - with valuable info and good hearts. Besides, it only gives the " fucked up member " what I'm sure he wants - to get rid of those of us who DO care about those he has victimized. Therefore, I came to the conclusion that the best tactic is to henceforth consider the offender to be persona non grata and simply ignore his postings. If you are still here I hope you will join me. And if he continues his obnoxious behavior unmoderated, there are other options for his removal. So let's not remove ourselves or he wins and we lose. All the Best, Dee -- In Coconut Oil , " julia lowers. " <cocheesie420@...> wrote: >> how do i get off this list... i thought this group was supposed to be about coconut oil, not about people with fucked up attitudes who refuse to apogogize when they are wrong... > If someone would please acknowledge that a wrongdoing occurred, the subject would be dropped. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2010 Report Share Posted November 26, 2010 As it says at the bottom of all posts, Alobar On Fri, Nov 26, 2010 at 7:55 AM, julia lowers. <cocheesie420@...> wrote: > how do i get off this list... i thought this group was supposed to be about coconut oil, not about people with fucked up attitudes who refuse to apogogize when they are wrong... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2010 Report Share Posted November 26, 2010 lol [] > > > Lynda, > > > > > > What a few of you didn't seem to realize or see is that I didn't want my name being put into a subject line (as in " ph's Toxicity " ) in order for Duncan or anyone else to make a spectacle of me and my health condition, based on what they think it may be from thousands of miles away. I also didn't care to know what his or anyone's diagnosis is for me, with his guesstimate of my prognosis and other scary info. I told him so but it didn't matter, I got it anyway, and I kept getting it. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2010 Report Share Posted November 27, 2010 Hi Dee, That is what I have been doing with Duncan...works like a charm. May I contact you privately? I have a question for you. Thanks for your candor, Theta From: Dolores <dgk@...> Subject: Re: Apology to ph Coconut Oil Date: Friday, November 26, 2010, 8:43 AM Hi , I hope it's not too late to change your mind. I have been contemplating the same thing but decided that would be akin to cutting off my nose to spite my face as there are a number of members here - both old and new - with valuable info and good hearts. Besides, it only gives the " fucked up member " what I'm sure he wants - to get rid of those of us who DO care about those he has victimized. Therefore, I came to the conclusion that the best tactic is to henceforth consider the offender to be persona non grata and simply ignore his postings. If you are still here I hope you will join me. And if he continues his obnoxious behavior unmoderated, there are other options for his removal. So let's not remove ourselves or he wins and we lose. All the Best, Dee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2010 Report Share Posted November 27, 2010 Sure thing Theta. Please do. Best, Dee > > Hi Dee, > > That is what I have been doing with Duncan...works like a charm. > May I contact you privately? I have a question for you. > > Thanks for your candor, > Theta > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2010 Report Share Posted November 27, 2010 Good to hear my friend... I was not particularly worried. On 11/26/2010 2:01 AM, Duncan Crow wrote: > > Thanks Jim; yup, everything in balance, a bit o' yin and a bit o' > yang. My karma seems to have been pretty good for years; recently many > of my wishes came true in a single week, I've been spared from colds > and crises, and not being sick has allowed me to focus on helping > others to not be sick. Keep on keepin' on I figure > > all good, > > Duncan > > > > > > Hi nah: > > > > Do you realize how arrogant it is to apologize for someone else's > > behavior when they act at their own discretion? Each of us is allowed > > to make their own mistakes just as we receive credit for our good > > deeds. That is, you have absolutely no more right to apologize for my > > errors than to accept credit for my good deeds. I am not interested in > > doing either and neither should you be. > > > > I have been paying close attention to Duncan's posts for about ten > years > > and IMO he deserves to receive kudos for his contributions here and > > elsewhere. No one deserves credit for what he has contributed except > > him. At the same time, when/if he makes a mistake and harms someone, he > > will pay for it. This will occur whether or not you or I recognize his > > error. There are no accidents. Karma (cause and effect) is alive and > > working for every individual. > > > > Kind Regards, > > Jim > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2010 Report Share Posted November 29, 2010 Y¹all are too much... Nerio > > > > > > Hi , > > I hope it's not too late to change your mind. I have been contemplating the > same thing but decided that would be akin to cutting off my nose to spite my > face as there are a number of members here - both old and new - with valuable > info and good hearts. Besides, it only gives the " fucked up member " what I'm > sure he wants - to get rid of those of us who DO care about those he has > victimized. Therefore, I came to the conclusion that the best tactic is to > henceforth consider the offender to be persona non grata and simply ignore his > postings. If you are still here I hope you will join me. And if he continues > his obnoxious behavior unmoderated, there are other options for his removal. > So let's not remove ourselves or he wins and we lose. > > All the Best, > Dee > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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