Guest guest Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 > I have now gone on 3 dates with SED Men from Date a Little.com, and they > have > all been weird and angry and very low intellegence. > > Is that common with all SED Men? Speaking as an SED man, I certainly hope not, and I'm sorry you had the sort of experience that would prompt you to ask this question. ... happy and (mostly) well-adjusted ... :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 Hmmmm, so you'll send me their contact information LOL, so you've found other 'types' that were well adjusted, happy and highly intelligent? Hmmmmm (again), your prince will come along someday. He must be walking with mine from another continents, it's the only (acceptable to me, otherwise it's " my " problem) explanation for it to take them so long. ......... > List folks.... > > Can anyone on this list tell me if you have had any scary or dangerous > experiences with SED Men. > > I have now gone on 3 dates with SED Men from Date a Little.com, and they have > all been weird and angry and very low intellegence. > > Is that common with all SED Men? > > Please help me. > > Thanks, > Judy > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 It is interesting that this topic came up because not too long ago, I intercepted a few emails from a man who is MUCH older than my daughter who happens to be SED. Not that the type of dwarfism means anything. It is actually insignificant. The point I am trying to make is that people of all sizes, type, colors, can be scary or dangerous. In this case, I emailed this man and told him to refrain from any further contact with my minor daughter. He is married, with an SED daughter himself, so this type of behavior was out of line completely. SED Men > List folks.... > > Can anyone on this list tell me if you have had any scary or dangerous > experiences with SED Men. > > I have now gone on 3 dates with SED Men from Date a Little.com, and they have > all been weird and angry and very low intellegence. > > Is that common with all SED Men? > > Please help me. > > Thanks, > Judy > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2004 Report Share Posted September 5, 2004 Exactly, its like grouping all ppl with OI together, I know MANY MANY OI's and trust me they vary very differently from each other. You have your good bad and the neutral lol Bon > It is interesting that this topic came up because not too long ago, I intercepted a few emails from a man who is MUCH older than my daughter who happens to be SED. Not that the type of dwarfism means anything. It is actually insignificant. The point I am trying to make is that people of all sizes, type, colors, can be scary or dangerous. In this case, I emailed this man and told him to refrain from any further contact with my minor daughter. He is married, with an SED daughter himself, so this type of behavior was out of line completely. > > > > > SED Men > > > List folks.... > > > > Can anyone on this list tell me if you have had any scary or dangerous > > experiences with SED Men. > > > > I have now gone on 3 dates with SED Men from Date a Little.com, and they have > > all been weird and angry and very low intellegence. > > > > Is that common with all SED Men? > > > > Please help me. > > > > Thanks, > > Judy > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2004 Report Share Posted September 8, 2004 My name is a, I'm 23 years old with SEDc. I've done a lot of research about my form of dwarfism to keep myself educated and to learn more about how to better care for myself. This website is most helpful to me personally. http://www.ksginfo.org/ Everytime someone in my family is diagnosed with something or if I meet someone who will be an active person in my life and happen to have a disability or medical condition, I will research and learn as much as I can about a person's Medical Condition or Disability. This is something that my mom has always done. We own the Merek Manual and other books to research symptoms and medical condition. One of the reasons I do research is to better inform myself and not get caught in stereotypical comments that I may hear, or assume that everyone is like that with this type of disability or medical condition. People who have SED are normally not affected Intellectually. Of course it all depends, with ANYONE, how a person was raised, what their back ground is and who they associate themselves with and their lifestyles. This all determines how a person is or was. My Theories: For instance, if a person has always been spoiled and gotten their way, most of the time, they will assume life in general is that way. And may be disappointed and act out if they are faced with a real life situation and are not able to get their way. A man may grow up in a household where the father is the one with all the say and abuses women, he in turn may also do this himself. Then with this in mind, he may not know how to respect women and understand that you dont need to abuse people or control people to have a wonderful relationship. You may be dealing with men that have issues, in general. This has nothing to do with a person's medical condition or disability. Now, with this in mind, a person who has dated a few different people with dwarfism may find they all have some of the same issues. You would not want someone to say that " All people with dwarfism are like this. " Those individuals just HAPPEN to have all of the same issues. I hope I've helped and not gotten under anyone's skin. Remember, my theories are just that alone. a > List folks.... > > Can anyone on this list tell me if you have had any scary or dangerous > experiences with SED Men. > > I have now gone on 3 dates with SED Men from Date a Little.com, and they have > all been weird and angry and very low intellegence. > > Is that common with all SED Men? > > Please help me. > > Thanks, > Judy > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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