RE: Is there any hope

[Guest guest]

Yes that's me. I know I have bursitis and, sciatica and 2 bulging disks. I

just get tired of taking pain pills to get through the day. Thank you for

your prayers. I hope things work out for you too. I sometimes just feel like

I shouldn't be using my cane but, then my co-worker makes me feel like I

shouldn't even though my P.T. says I should not stop using it. And, to ignore

my co-worker.

Connie

wer60@... writes:

Hi Connie,

If I remember right did you have a hip replacement and fell out of bed last

Feb.? I had a hip replacement done five years ago and a knee replacement done

three years ago I had these replacements done on my right side.

Well I went to a new Arthritis dr and he told me I was ok from looking at

the x-rays from the old dr and he took new x-rays and layed me down on the

table and moved me all around well he told me I had Bursitis in the hip I had

replace and bad scar tissues and thats way I have pain in my new hip . I had a

Spine test done and found out I have bad arthritis in my spine thats way I

walk slow and I can't go up and down stairs and I still walk with a cane I

need

my left knee replace but it doesn't bother me that much I think the medicine

I take . Well I hope things work out for you and I'll say a pray for you

..Well you have a nice weekend.

Susie

[Guest guest]

I'm tired of this. Really tired. I just want my life back. I know people are worse off than I am. I wish for no one to be living in pain but, now it is almost 5 months and, I just am having a very hard time having faith for healing. >>> I know how your feeling Connie. I've been nearly 3 yrs. now with my "new life" and it's hard finding just what part of it to consider a blessing. Each day has it's on level of disconfort or challenge to over come. I stopped looking for "my old life back" and excepted what I've been left with.... yes, that decision created a heartache in ways but way less then hoping day in & day out for something other then what I had & getting nowhere. If I get better good... if not then it's merely the way things are suppose to be. Disappointment is what is so overwhelming to you... what you have to realize is life changes for us all in different ways. Some get the good end while we're left with the bad end.... but is either any less of a miracle ? I still say at 5 months.... healing MAY yet be your issue... it takes time and some bodies don't heal as fast as others. But if what you've got is what your left with.... is your everyday gonna be complaining about it ? Wasting away wishing you had something different ? Watching others pass you by while you sit awaiting that magical moment that fixes it all ? It's not to be harsh... or cold hearted about your being in pain... it's being REAL with you! Sometimes life isn't about "what we want" it's about what "we get"..... but in that challenge our destiny is determined by the way we confront those issues or weep daily wishing we had something else.... til there is no more! I don't do things like I once did... I know I have limitations I once didn't.... and my pain is what it is for that day. But I refuse to miss out on making the most of my moments hoping for something that might not ever be~ if it is.... then WOOOHOOO but if it's not.... then YeeeHAW boils down to creating yourself a different way of looking at things~ and NO ONE can do it for you! You have to create your hope, you have to want more in your day... so it's not walking like you want to or riding in a wheelchair your day will be what it is BECAUSE YOU MAKE IT HAPPEN! Rich people are poor in the light of... they can never seem to find happiness in just a cheap BPJ picnic throwed together on a blanket amoung the bugs on the ground~ they seek the 5 star resturant with wine, skyline view & music. There are poor people richer then what money can buy.... not because they have a huge wallet~ but because they want more in their life~ they seek simple pleasure. Should it honestly matter where your at or what your doing as long as you INSIST on having a terrific time.... then you will ONLY IF you refuse to settle for less! Stop trying to make yourself pain free... and except your day for what it is..... put on a smile & do whatever it is that you can to create yourself a terrific day.

if my co-worker gives me any trouble tomorrow about using my cane >>> Why is it any of her concern to begin with ? She's not the one using it~

My co-worker can get very mean and, make my time with her a living hell. >>> Goes to the old saying... best way to fix a bitter soul is to kill'm with kindness. I would avoid time in or around her when possible and during the times that you can't.... merely smile & counter her remarks with kind words & compliments. I teach my kids "we do not control the things another says nor does to us in this life~ what WE DO CONTROL is the way we CHOOSE to react". It's only a living hell for you because you permit her to get under your skin.... don't give her the pleasure. Beings as she's a Christian woman.... you might want to research yourself a few good bible verses which might assist you such as Ephesians 4:32 but there are many more available.

One Sunday with her and, I want to tear my hair out. So, please pray for a peaceful day tomorrow if that is possible and, for healing >>> Let Sunday be for a greater reason to you. Certainly will add you to my prayers Connie.... just please know that when I pray... I seldom ask for what I want~ rather for his will to be done. I can only hope that healing for you is part of his plan. If not~ then learn your lesson well and redirect your efforts. Your voice could be the one to encourage another who has lost hope~

[Guest guest]

Hi Connie,

If I remember right did you have a hip replacement and fell out of bed last Feb.? I had a hip replacement done five years ago and a knee replacement done three years ago I had these replacements done on my right side.

Well I went to a new Arthritis dr and he told me I was ok from looking at the x-rays from the old dr and he took new x-rays and layed me down on the table and moved me all around well he told me I had Bursitis in the hip I had replace and bad scar tissues and thats way I have pain in my new hip . I had a Spine test done and found out I have bad arthritis in my spine thats way I walk slow and I can't go up and down stairs and I still walk with a cane I need my left knee replace but it doesn't bother me that much I think the medicine I take . Well I hope things work out for you and I'll say a pray for you .Well you have a nice weekend.

Susie

-------------- Original message --------------

I thought I was improving but, then yesterday I was sitting on the steps and, pain just shot down my leg when I tried to get up. It was so bad. So, now today has been a rough day and, I am feeling a bit discouraged. I have been doing my exercises but, now I feel like I am never going to be able to get rid of my cane and, at least walk without pain. I see people walking down the street and, wish it was me. And, I see people in wheelchairs and, be glad it isn't me. And, feel bad for them. Then I wonder if that is my fate. I am trying so hard to make this pain go away but, it just won't go away. I got a shot in my knee and, it isn't doing anything for me. I'm tired of this. Really tired. I just want my life back. I know people are worse off than I am. I wish for no one to be living in pain but, now it is almost 5 months and, I just am having a very hard time having faith for healing. And, if my co-worker gives me any trouble tomorrow about using my cane, I won't be able to hold back my emotions. My co-worker can get very mean and, make my time with her a living hell. She is a Christian but, that doesn't stop her from being mean and, critical. One Sunday with her and, I want to tear my hair out. So, please pray for a peaceful day tomorrow if that is possible and, for healing.

Connie

[Guest guest]

Thank You, My co-worker is greek orthodox. I don't know what She believes all I know is that I was going a few steps without it and, all of sudden, I was told I needed to stop depending on it. In which I told her that I have to use to get across the skyway at work because it is not a short walk. She did not listen nor care. My P.T. however is on my side and, so is the rest of my department because, they know I am not thrilled about having to use it every day. She is just a very difficult person to deal with. She treats everyone horribly. But, the bosses don't do anything. I have to prepare myself just for 7 hours with her. As a person she is fine but, as a co-worker, She is the co-worker from Hell. Most of the time my pain isn't so bad.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing" , please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

[Guest guest]

It is just her and I today. I am going to try to just ignore her and, do my thing.

Connie

b-gcoffey@... writes:

shadow,

i'm sorry that your hurting and discouraged. there are many levels of healing and unfortunately some of them are a plateau, where things don't get better for what seems like forever. take a break, everyone needs a day of rest. most people that are mean and overbearing are actually very scared and weak. they get a power rush from from your negative reactions. don't cry or cower damnit make a stand. bang your cane on a desk and proclaim your sick of it and not going to take it any more. point out how brave it is to pick on someone who is hurt and down. pick a time that there is a small audience. chances are they are tired of it too

[Guest guest]

Those are fine but, they want Me to stop taking Vicodin. Nothing else helps as much.

Connie

b-gcoffey@... writes:

what's wrong with taking pain pills? they are no less important than heart medication is to someone with heart problems. if there are too many side effects you need to change pain meds. chronic pain is a disease and you treat it just like you would any other medical problem

[Guest guest]

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing" ,

please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

juneflower60@... wrote:

Hi Connie,

If I remember right did you have a hip replacement and fell out of bed last Feb.? I had a hip replacement done five years ago and a knee replacement done three years ago I had these replacements done on my right side.

Well I went to a new Arthritis dr and he told me I was ok from looking at the x-rays from the old dr and he took new x-rays and layed me down on the table and moved me all around well he told me I had Bursitis in the hip I had replace and bad scar tissues and thats way I have pain in my new hip . I had a Spine test done and found out I have bad arthritis in my spine thats way I walk slow and I can't go up and down stairs and I still walk with a cane I need my left knee replace but it doesn't bother me that much I think the medicine I take . Well I hope things work out for you and I'll say a pray for you .Well you have a nice weekend.

Susie

-------------- Original message --------------

I thought I was improving but, then yesterday I was sitting on the steps and, pain just shot down my leg when I tried to get up. It was so bad. So, now today has been a rough day and, I am feeling a bit discouraged. I have been doing my exercises but, now I feel like I am never going to be able to get rid of my cane and, at least walk without pain. I see people walking down the street and, wish it was me. And, I see people in wheelchairs and, be glad it isn't me. And, feel bad for them. Then I wonder if that is my fate. I am trying so hard to make this pain go away but, it just won't go away. I got a shot in my knee and, it isn't doing anything for me. I'm tired of this. Really tired. I just want my life back. I know people are worse off than I am. I wish for no one to be living in pain but, now it is almost 5 months and, I just am having a very hard time having faith for healing. And, if

my co-worker gives me any trouble tomorrow about using my cane, I won't be able to hold back my emotions. My co-worker can get very mean and, make my time with her a living hell. She is a Christian but, that doesn't stop her from being mean and, critical. One Sunday with her and, I want to tear my hair out. So, please pray for a peaceful day tomorrow if that is possible and, for healing.

Connie

God bless you!__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

shadow,

i'm sorry that your hurting and discouraged. there are many levels of healing and unfortunately some of them are a plateau, where things don't get better for what seems like forever. take a break, everyone needs a day of rest. most people that are mean and overbearing are actually very scared and weak. they get a power rush from from your negative reactions. don't cry or cower damnit make a stand. bang your cane on a desk and proclaim your sick of it and not going to take it any more. point out how brave it is to pick on someone who is hurt and down. pick a time that there is a small audience. chances are they are tired of it too

[Guest guest]

First I want to wish everyone that has up coming surgery dates all the very best. Being 12 weeks post op with TKR my heart and prayers goes out to all of you. I also want to agree with regarding healing. God promises he will not gives more than he and I can't handle. He is faithful. I must say Connie if you are being harassed by a co worker that you should talk to your supervisor. Harassment is not allowed in today's work force. And remember your safety and comfort comes first. If this co worker is bothering you than she has some underlying problem shes not dealing with and shes taking her own insecurities out on you. Be strong and take one day at a time. Connie will you be using a CPM machine after surgery? It was a God send for me.

God Bless all.

a

-- Re: Is there any hope

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing! " , please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

juneflower60@... wrote:

Hi Connie,

If I remember right did you have a hip replacement and fell out of bed last Feb.? I had a hip replacement done five years ago and a knee replacement done three years ago I had these replacements done on my right side.

Well I went to a new Arthritis dr and he told me I was ok from looking at the x-rays from the old dr and he took new x-rays and layed me down on the table and moved me all around well he told me I had Bursitis in the hip I had replace and bad scar tissues and thats way I have pain in my new hip . I had a Spine test done and found out I have bad arthritis in my spine thats way I walk slow and I can't go up and down stairs and I still walk with a cane I need my left knee replace but it doesn't bother me that much I think the medicine I take . Well I hope things work out for you and I'll say a pray for you .Well you have a nice weekend.

Susie

-------------- Original message --------------

I thought I was improving but, then yesterday I was sitting on the steps and, pain just shot down my leg when I tried to get up. It was so bad. So, now today has been a rough day and, I am feeling a bit discouraged. I have been doing my exercises but, now I feel like I am never going to be able to get rid of my cane and, at least walk without pain. I see people walking down the street and, wish it was me. And, I see people in wheelchairs and, be glad it isn't me. And, feel bad for them. Then I wonder if that is my fate. I am trying so hard to make this pain go away but, it just won't go away. I got a shot in my knee and, it isn't doing anything for me. I'm tired of this. Really tired. I just want my life back. I know people are worse off than I am. I wish for no one to be living in pain but, now it is almost 5 months and, I just am having a very hard time having faith for healing. ! And, if my co-worker gives me any trouble tomorrow about using my cane, I won't be able to hold back my emotions. My co-worker can get very mean and, make my time with her a living hell. She is a Christian but, that doesn't stop her from being mean and, critical. One Sunday with her and, I want to tear my hair out. So, please pray for a peaceful day tomorrow if that is possible and, for healing.

Connie

God bless you!

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

what's wrong with taking pain pills? they are no less important than heart medication is to someone with heart problems. if there are too many side effects you need to change pain meds. chronic pain is a disease and you treat it just like you would any other medical problem

[Guest guest]

I got an e-mail from her. Her hours are changed so, I only have 5 hours with her instead of 7 and, She now has other things to do so, We won't be working next to each other all afternoon. I will try not to react. I can't make any guarantees. Hopefully things will go smoothly.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

I agree with that. Don't react because that is what she wants. Take care,

[Guest guest]

Well, I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut when She gets high and mighty on me. We'll see how it goes. Hopefully She will not say anything but, We'll see. I am off to work right now.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Do what you have to do to take care of yourself. If you need the cane use it. Tell her to blow off somewhere. She has no business telling you what you need and don't. Ask her when did your medical degree that gives you the right to make that judgment. Maybe that will shut her up. I am too straight up to take that kind of stuff and sometimes for my own good.LOL. Seriously though, you don't have to put up with that. If the bosses won't do anything it is up to you. Take care,

.

[Guest guest]

I agree with that. Don't react because that is what she wants. Take care,

tashadow@... wrote:

It is just her and I today. I am going to try to just ignore her and, do my thing.

Connie

b-gcoffey@... writes:

shadow,

i'm sorry that your hurting and discouraged. there are many levels of healing and unfortunately some of them are a plateau, where things don't get better for what seems like forever. take a break, everyone needs a day of rest. most people that are mean and overbearing are actually very scared and weak. they get a power rush from from your negative reactions. don't cry or cower damnit make a stand. bang your cane on a desk and proclaim your sick of it and not going to take it any more. point out how brave it is to pick on someone who is hurt and down. pick a time that there is a small audience. chances are they are tired of it too

God bless you!__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Do what you have to do to take care of yourself. If you need the cane use it. Tell her to blow off somewhere. She has no business telling you what you need and don't. Ask her when did your medical degree that gives you the right to make that judgment. Maybe that will shut her up. I am too straight up to take that kind of stuff and sometimes for my own good.LOL. Seriously though, you don't have to put up with that. If the bosses won't do anything it is up to you. Take care,

.tashadow@... wrote:

Thank You, My co-worker is greek orthodox. I don't know what She believes all I know is that I was going a few steps without it and, all of sudden, I was told I needed to stop depending on it. In which I told her that I have to use to get across the skyway at work because it is not a short walk. She did not listen nor care. My P.T. however is on my side and, so is the rest of my department because, they know I am not thrilled about having to use it every day. She is just a very difficult person to deal with. She treats everyone horribly. But, the bosses don't do anything. I have to prepare myself just for 7 hours with her. As a person she is fine but, as a co-worker, She is the co-worker from Hell. Most of the time my pain isn't so bad.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing" ,

please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

God bless you!__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

The Lord has so many ways to help us and to handle problems. That is a prayer answered. Take care,

tashadow@... wrote:

I got an e-mail from her. Her hours are changed so, I only have 5 hours with her instead of 7 and, She now has other things to do so, We won't be working next to each other all afternoon. I will try not to react. I can't make any guarantees. Hopefully things will go smoothly.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

I agree with that. Don't react because that is what she wants. Take care,

God bless you!__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Thanks a. I am ready for this. I've been ready for a long time.

God is so very good. I have had all kinds of stuff happen in my life but God is always there to take care of things. Take care,

a <pbear53@...> wrote:

First I want to wish everyone that has up coming surgery dates all the very best. Being 12 weeks post op with TKR my heart and prayers goes out to all of you. I also want to agree with regarding healing. God promises he will not gives more than he and I can't handle. He is faithful. I must say Connie if you are being harassed by a co worker that you should talk to your supervisor. Harassment is not allowed in today's work force. And remember your safety and comfort comes first. If this co worker is bothering you than she has some underlying problem shes not dealing with and shes taking her own insecurities out on you. Be strong and take one day at a time. Connie will you be using a CPM machine after surgery? It was a God send for me.

God Bless all.

a

-------Original Message-------

-------------- Original message --------------

I thought I was improving but, then yesterday I was sitting on the steps and, pain just shot down my leg when I tried to get up. It was so bad. So, now today has been a rough day and, I am feeling a bit discouraged. I have been doing my exercises but, now I feel like I am never going to be able to get rid of my cane and, at least walk without pain. I see people walking down the street and, wish it was me. And, I see people in wheelchairs and, be glad it isn't me. And, feel bad for them. Then I wonder if that is my fate. I am trying so hard to make this pain go away but, it just won't go away. I got a shot in my knee and, it isn't doing anything for me. I'm tired of this. Really tired. I just want my life back. I know people are worse off than I am. I wish for no one to be living in pain but, now it is almost 5 months and, I just am having a very hard time having faith for healing. ! And, if

my co-worker gives me any trouble tomorrow about using my cane, I won't be able to hold back my emotions. My co-worker can get very mean and, make my time with her a living hell. She is a Christian but, that doesn't stop her from being mean and, critical. One Sunday with her and, I want to tear my hair out. So, please pray for a peaceful day tomorrow if that is possible and, for healing.

Connie

God bless you! __________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Connie...

She sounds like my boss at my past job. She replaced me without my knowledge while claiming to everyone that I quit. She is still threatening me with my health insurance (which she can't do anything about as long as I make my premium payments on time--they are ahead of on time as of now). I had the unemployment decision reversed so I could collect and now she's trying to reopen the case to get it reversed again in her favor.

Whichever one of ya'all said it was real brave of her to go after someone who is in pain and has had (or in my case going to have) major surgery--well, you hit it right on the head. She was a real bully and she was soooo mad when unemployment reversed their decision. She doesn't like to lose so she's going to try anything to hold over my head.

I just want to get over my surgery and back on my feet so SOMEONE will hire me and I can go back to work......

lee

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming 'WOW What a Ride!'"

From: Joint Replacement [mailto:Joint Replacement ] On Behalf Of tashadow@...Sent: Sunday, July 17, 2005 11:27 AMJoint Replacement Subject: Re: Is there any hope

Thank You, My co-worker is greek orthodox. I don't know what She believes all I know is that I was going a few steps without it and, all of sudden, I was told I needed to stop depending on it. In which I told her that I have to use to get across the skyway at work because it is not a short walk. She did not listen nor care. My P.T. however is on my side and, so is the rest of my department because, they know I am not thrilled about having to use it every day. She is just a very difficult person to deal with. She treats everyone horribly. But, the bosses don't do anything. I have to prepare myself just for 7 hours with her. As a person she is fine but, as a co-worker, She is the co-worker from Hell. Most of the time my pain isn't so bad.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing" , please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

[Guest guest]

Connie...

She gets off on your reaction. Do what ever you have to do to ignore her.

lee

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From: Joint Replacement [mailto:Joint Replacement ] On Behalf Of tashadow@...Sent: Sunday, July 17, 2005 2:27 PMJoint Replacement Subject: Re: Is there any hope

I got an e-mail from her. Her hours are changed so, I only have 5 hours with her instead of 7 and, She now has other things to do so, We won't be working next to each other all afternoon. I will try not to react. I can't make any guarantees. Hopefully things will go smoothly.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

I agree with that. Don't react because that is what she wants. Take care,

[Guest guest]

I don't blame you. I had problems with a boss one time right before I applied for disability. This was 12 years ago, and I felt like slapping the crap out of the woman, but I have occasional flareups with carpal tunnel, not enough to warrant surgery, but it happens. I worked in the dietary department of a nursing home. There was repetitive motion with handling patient trays, plates and such. Then after dinner we had to wash every thing and put it away. I had been having some off and on problems with my right hand. One morning I got up and my hand was dead numb and swollen big time. I went to the dr who put me in a splint and gave me a note for light duty at work. She laughed and said what is light duty. I told her that I would have to take some time off then and let my hand get better. The dr had written that on there too just in case. She didn't want to let me come back when I called her. I told her to kiss my butt, but I didn't use that word. I wasn't a Christian

then so I didn't care what I said. I applied for the disability and had to fight for it but I got it. My back is a mess on top of the knee that I'm getting ready to have replaced. Take care,

lee <gone2thedogs14@...> wrote:

Connie...

She sounds like my boss at my past job. She replaced me without my knowledge while claiming to everyone that I quit. She is still threatening me with my health insurance (which she can't do anything about as long as I make my premium payments on time--they are ahead of on time as of now). I had the unemployment decision reversed so I could collect and now she's trying to reopen the case to get it reversed again in her favor.

Whichever one of ya'all said it was real brave of her to go after someone who is in pain and has had (or in my case going to have) major surgery--well, you hit it right on the head. She was a real bully and she was soooo mad when unemployment reversed their decision. She doesn't like to lose so she's going to try anything to hold over my head.

I just want to get over my surgery and back on my feet so SOMEONE will hire me and I can go back to work......

lee

********

"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming 'WOW What a Ride!'"

From: Joint Replacement [mailto:Joint Replacement ] On Behalf Of tashadow@...Sent: Sunday, July 17, 2005 11:27 AMJoint Replacement Subject: Re: Is there any hope

Thank You, My co-worker is greek orthodox. I don't know what She believes all I know is that I was going a few steps without it and, all of sudden, I was told I needed to stop depending on it. In which I told her that I have to use to get across the skyway at work because it is not a short walk. She did not listen nor care. My P.T. however is on my side and, so is the rest of my department because, they know I am not thrilled about having to use it every day. She is just a very difficult person to deal with. She treats everyone horribly. But, the bosses don't do anything. I have to prepare myself just for 7 hours with her. As a person she is fine but, as a co-worker, She is the co-worker from Hell. Most of the time my pain isn't so bad.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing" ,

please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

God bless you!

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Good luck and take care,

tashadow@... wrote:

Well, I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut when She gets high and mighty on me. We'll see how it goes. Hopefully She will not say anything but, We'll see. I am off to work right now.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Do what you have to do to take care of yourself. If you need the cane use it. Tell her to blow off somewhere. She has no business telling you what you need and don't. Ask her when did your medical degree that gives you the right to make that judgment. Maybe that will shut her up. I am too straight up to take that kind of stuff and sometimes for my own good.LOL. Seriously though, you don't have to put up with that. If the bosses won't do anything it is up to you. Take care,

.

God bless you!

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I am so Blessed with my Job, They have been so supportive. They even have been paying my insurances(health, short and long term disability) while I have been off. Due too limitations I may have to switch positions and HR has told me not to worry they will find something for me.. I am so sorry there is such rude uncaring people out there. Life is a struggle and we don't need others making it worse.

Hugs to you all

a

-- RE: Is there any hope

I don't blame you. I had problems with a boss one time right before I applied for disability. This was 12 years ago, and I felt like slapping the crap out of the woman, but I have occasional flareups with carpal tunnel, not enough to warrant surgery, but it happens. I worked in the dietary department of a nursing home. There was repetitive motion with handling patient trays, plates and such. Then after dinner we had to wash every thing and put it away. I had been having some off and on problems with my right hand. One morning I got up and my hand was dead numb and swollen big time. I went to the dr who put me in a splint and gave me a note for light duty at work. She laughed and said what is light duty. I told her that I would have to take some time off then and let my hand get better. The dr had written that on there too just in case. She didn't want to let me come back when I called her. I told her to kiss my butt, but I didn't use that word. I wasn't a Chr! istian then so I didn't care what I said. I applied for the disability and had to fight for it but I got it. My back is a mess on top of the knee that I'm getting ready to have replaced. Take care,

lee <gone2thedogs14@...> wrote:

Connie...

She sounds like my boss at my past job. She replaced me without my knowledge while claiming to everyone that I quit. She is still threatening me with my health insurance (which she can't do anything about as long as I make my premium payments on time--they are ahead of on time as of now). I had the unemployment decision reversed so I could collect and now she's trying to reopen the case to get it reversed again in her favor.

Whichever one of ya'all said it was real brave of her to go after someone who is in pain and has had (or in my case going to have) major surgery--well, you hit it right on the head. She was a real bully and she was soooo mad when unemployment reversed their decision. She doesn't like to lose so she's going to try anything to hold over my head.

I just want to get over my surgery and back on my feet so SOMEONE will hire me and I can go back to work......

lee

********

"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming 'WOW What a Ride!'"

From: Joint Replacement [mailto:Joint Replacement ] On Behalf Of tashadow@...Sent: Sunday, July 17, 2005 11:27 AMJoint Replacement Subject: Re: Is there any hope

Thank You, My co-worker is greek orthodox. I don't know what She believes all I know is that I was going a few steps without it and, all of sudden, I was told I needed to stop depending on it. In which I told her that I have to use to get across the skyway at work because it is not a short walk. She did not listen nor care. My P.T. however is on my side and, so is the rest of my department because, they know I am not thrilled about having to use it every day. She is just a very difficult person to deal with. She treats everyone horribly. But, the bosses don't do anything. I have to prepare myself just for 7 hours with her. As a person she is fine but, as a co-worker, She is the co-worker from Hell. Most of the time my pain isn't so bad.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing! " , please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

God bless you!

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[Guest guest]

Amen

a <pbear53@...> wrote:

I am so Blessed with my Job, They have been so supportive. They even have been paying my insurances(health, short and long term disability) while I have been off. Due too limitations I may have to switch positions and HR has told me not to worry they will find something for me.. I am so sorry there is such rude uncaring people out there. Life is a struggle and we don't need others making it worse.

Hugs to you all

a

-- RE: Is there any hope

I don't blame you. I had problems with a boss one time right before I applied for disability. This was 12 years ago, and I felt like slapping the crap out of the woman, but I have occasional flareups with carpal tunnel, not enough to warrant surgery, but it happens. I worked in the dietary department of a nursing home. There was repetitive motion with handling patient trays, plates and such. Then after dinner we had to wash every thing and put it away. I had been having some off and on problems with my right hand. One morning I got up and my hand was dead numb and swollen big time. I went to the dr who put me in a splint and gave me a note for light duty at work. She laughed and said what is light duty. I told her that I would have to take some time off then and let my hand get better. The dr had written that on there too just in case. She didn't want to let me come back when I called her. I told her to kiss my butt, but I didn't use that word. I wasn't a Chr! istian

then so I didn't care what I said. I applied for the disability and had to fight for it but I got it. My back is a mess on top of the knee that I'm getting ready to have replaced. Take care,

lee <gone2thedogs14@...> wrote:

Connie...

She sounds like my boss at my past job. She replaced me without my knowledge while claiming to everyone that I quit. She is still threatening me with my health insurance (which she can't do anything about as long as I make my premium payments on time--they are ahead of on time as of now). I had the unemployment decision reversed so I could collect and now she's trying to reopen the case to get it reversed again in her favor.

Whichever one of ya'all said it was real brave of her to go after someone who is in pain and has had (or in my case going to have) major surgery--well, you hit it right on the head. She was a real bully and she was soooo mad when unemployment reversed their decision. She doesn't like to lose so she's going to try anything to hold over my head.

I just want to get over my surgery and back on my feet so SOMEONE will hire me and I can go back to work......

lee

********

"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming 'WOW What a Ride!'"

From: Joint Replacement [mailto:Joint Replacement ] On Behalf Of tashadow@...Sent: Sunday, July 17, 2005 11:27 AMJoint Replacement Subject: Re: Is there any hope

Thank You, My co-worker is greek orthodox. I don't know what She believes all I know is that I was going a few steps without it and, all of sudden, I was told I needed to stop depending on it. In which I told her that I have to use to get across the skyway at work because it is not a short walk. She did not listen nor care. My P.T. however is on my side and, so is the rest of my department because, they know I am not thrilled about having to use it every day. She is just a very difficult person to deal with. She treats everyone horribly. But, the bosses don't do anything. I have to prepare myself just for 7 hours with her. As a person she is fine but, as a co-worker, She is the co-worker from Hell. Most of the time my pain isn't so bad.

Connie

cindyj4652@... writes:

Hi Connie,

I have a bad knee myself on which I am getting ready to have TKR (Aug 1). I was reading your post about the pain you are having and praying for healing. I have been doing that too, but I have found that sometimes God has other ideas. Read in the Bible about the Apostle . He prayed for the removal of the thorn in his flesh, whatever it was, and God said no. God gives us strength to do what we must each day and to carry on. Sometimes us showing the strength God gives to handle the adversity is a greater witness of His power than a healing would be. It shows God's mighty power. We need to remember to give Him praise no matter our problems. I know sometimes that is easier said than done, but I am a walking, talking witness when it comes to God's power and how much He loves us. As to the co-worker, if you are able to do your job within reason, why is it any of her business that you use that cane. If she is one of those who believes in the Benny Hinn type of "healing! " ,

please no offense meant, but don't get me started on that nonsense, she needs to read her Bible a little more carefully because God doesn't always do what we want. The verses that talk about "...by His stripes we are healed." have been taken to mean that God will heal on demand. I believe they mean He will heal our sin sick souls not necessarily our bodies. If I offend, I am sorry, but I do not believe in faith healing and such but I do believe that God can and will heal IF IT IS HIS WILL, not so much our will. He does not base healing on our faith level, either. Take care and God bless. I'll pray for you, too.

God bless you!

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God bless you!

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[Guest guest]

Hi Connie

I don't know if you were on this list when I was very down and felt

life was not worth living. In the end I gave myself a timetable. I

will do nothing until x date.

Until that time I will take pain killers when I need them, use a stick

when I need to, and not worry too much (I know, easier said than

done). If I smile, and laugh, everyone will think I am doing ok and

won't worry about me.

The date I set is coming up fast and I realise I have improved. I am

not taking pain killers daily, infact I think I only took them twice

last week. I'm not where I feel I need to be, but there is much

improvement. Perhaps I'll set another deadline to give myself a

little more time.

We do put a lot of demands on ourselves. My OS told me to use a stick

when I last visited him. I have one volunteer who asks where my stick

is every time he notices I am not walking well. I hate using that stick.

Set yourself a milestone, when you can relook at your situation. Get

someone to take a videotape of yourself so you won't have to rely on

your memory. Keep a diary with all the pain meds written in. Then

compare.

Hugs from Australia

Aussie Margaret

> I thought I was improving but, then yesterday I was sitting on the

steps

> and, pain just shot down my leg when I tried to get up. It was so

bad. So, now

> today has been a rough day and, I am feeling a bit discouraged. I

have been

> doing my exercises but, now I feel like I am never going to be able

to get

> rid of my cane and, at least walk without pain. I see people

walking down the

> street and, wish it was me. And, I see people in wheelchairs and,

be glad

> it isn't me. And, feel bad for them. Then I wonder if that is my

fate. I am

> trying so hard to make this pain go away but, it just won't go

away. I got

> a shot in my knee and, it isn't doing anything for me. I'm tired

of this.

> Really tired. I just want my life back. I know people are worse

off than I

> am. I wish for no one to be living in pain but, now it is almost 5

months

> and, I just am having a very hard time having faith for healing.

And, if my

> co-worker gives me any trouble tomorrow about using my cane, I won't

be able to

> hold back my emotions. My co-worker can get very mean and, make my

time

> with her a living hell. She is a Christian but, that doesn't stop

her from

> being mean and, critical. One Sunday with her and, I want to tear

my hair out.

> So, please pray for a peaceful day tomorrow if that is possible and,

for

> healing.

>

> Connie

[Guest guest]

You will, it just takes time. Work went okay. I didn't say much then my co-worker told another one that it will be great working with her the next time (I am taking one off) because, She is a better challenge. I don't want to be a challenge. I was basically forgotten right in front of my face today. My other co-worker was talking about meeting the other 2 and, while I was sitting there, I said Hey what about me, I am not invisible. Sheesh just because I am quiet one day.

Connie

gone2thedogs14@... writes:

I just want to get over my surgery and back on my feet so SOMEONE will hire me and I can go back to work......

lee

[Guest guest]

I did, I went in to work and was quiet. They were like, that isn't like you. I felt like being quiet and, it made for a more peaceful day. She did come up with some comments during the evening but, I just made a comment and, went about my work.

Connie

gone2thedogs14@... writes:

Connie...

She gets off on your reaction. Do what ever you have to do to ignore her.

lee