Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 WHAT DID I SAY? I think I implied that I once upon a time might have had a romantic liason with my spouse, but at no time said " feel " " hard " or " love monkey " in Ark RATED PG for Pendulums Going Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 Some people, like say they even feel better in > the sack. - OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " parental,guidance??? Lori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 Um, Lori, Sorry if I have offended you, but I thought sexuality was a relevant topic to post MGB life. > > Some people, like say they even feel better > in > > the sack. - > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > parental,guidance??? > Lori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 I certainly hope it is since I am just beginning to date again (oh my goodness) and hope to eventually have a committed relationship that includes sex. it is been years since, and I wouldn't admit that to most people, but I am sure lots of folks on this list can identify. I am concerned about feeling good about my body again and I know I will have to work on it. Isn't the meeting Saturday touching on this also? some of us folks are getting back in to living and that includes intimacy, hopefully. Re: Self esteem Um, Lori, Sorry if I have offended you, but I thought sexuality was a relevant topic to post MGB life. > > Some people, like say they even feel better > in > > the sack. - > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > parental,guidance??? > Lori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 > > > > Some people, like say they even feel better > > in > > > the sack. - > > > > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > > parental,guidance??? > > Lori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 I won't be able to make the meeting this Saturday... dern! , the sad thing is that I am 24, and practically a newlywed. I've been married 3 years. We've probably had sex once, maybe twice a month since our 3 month anniversary. Therapist felt that it was the birth control I was on. Once I got off of it, I didn't have that " don't touch me feeling " . But hubby got so used to it, he quit asking. Of course I also have to wonder about his attractiveness to me. I was always tired, so I really didn't push the issue. I didn't even have enough energy for it, and I always hated my tummy and his tummy getting in the way, so I ended up feeling like a beached whale afterwards. I'm the first to admit that it is a HUGE problem in my marriage, as I would suspect it would be in any marriage. > > > > Some people, like say they even feel better > > in > > > the sack. - > > > > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > > parental,guidance??? > > Lori > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 amanda, thanks for sharing, the good news is that there IS HOPE for us gals, but we have to work at it. I even had my nails done for the first time ever. I am trying to look good and feel good. I am still 198 at 5'6 " and feel 300 lbs. but, we can only work on it so that when we get to a good weight, we can come up with ways. All kidding aside, some very beautiful bustiers and garders will hold in our boobs and stomach and they guys won't be any wiser and think we are in them to look good, which in the end we are. both will have " access " to important " parts " of the body, while holding back the rolls. I am DEAD SERIOUS about this gals and I think it is a viable option. We also need to learn how to ask the men what they are thinking, they may be so damned happy to get some that they aren't even thinking about our rolls and that would be a good think to find out. We have missed out on sooooo much in life due to our weight, both self imposed and from the outside, that with this surgery, we need to make the good things in life happen for us. Also, since the fat is coming off and our hormones are getting back to normal, we should be feeling more sexual. I even painted my toes girls!!!!!!! I hadn't even seen them in years!!!!!! Re: Self esteem I won't be able to make the meeting this Saturday... dern! , the sad thing is that I am 24, and practically a newlywed. I've been married 3 years. We've probably had sex once, maybe twice a month since our 3 month anniversary. Therapist felt that it was the birth control I was on. Once I got off of it, I didn't have that " don't touch me feeling " . But hubby got so used to it, he quit asking. Of course I also have to wonder about his attractiveness to me. I was always tired, so I really didn't push the issue. I didn't even have enough energy for it, and I always hated my tummy and his tummy getting in the way, so I ended up feeling like a beached whale afterwards. I'm the first to admit that it is a HUGE problem in my marriage, as I would suspect it would be in any marriage. > > > > Some people, like say they even feel better > > in > > > the sack. - > > > > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > > parental,guidance??? > > Lori > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 --- LINDA.VELLUCCI@M...> wrote: ? some of us folks are > getting back in to living and that includes intimacy, hopefully. Some of us more than others. :-x Lori > > Re: Self esteem > > > Um, Lori, Sorry if I have offended you, but I thought sexuality was a > relevant topic to post MGB life. > > > > > > > Some people, like say they even feel better > > in > > > the sack. - > > > > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > > parental,guidance??? > > Lori > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 ME OFFENDED? UH UH...I m not shy, ask V... Lori - In @y..., " Manda " <eskieluvr@p...> wrote: > Um, Lori, Sorry if I have offended you, but I thought sexuality was a > relevant topic to post MGB life. > > > > > > > Some people, like say they even feel better > > in > > > the sack. - > > > > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > > parental,guidance??? > > Lori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2001 Report Share Posted May 11, 2001 <blush> You ladies are embarrassing me. Pax, Steve Re: Self esteem > > > Um, Lori, Sorry if I have offended you, but I thought sexuality was a > relevant topic to post MGB life. > > > > > > > Some people, like say they even feel better > > in > > > the sack. - > > > > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > > parental,guidance??? > > Lori > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2001 Report Share Posted May 11, 2001 Parson, we aren't embarrassing you, we are exilerating you, I am sure! Re: Self esteem > > > Um, Lori, Sorry if I have offended you, but I thought sexuality was a > relevant topic to post MGB life. > > > > > > > Some people, like say they even feel better > > in > > > the sack. - > > > > > > OK, I THINK>>>I M CLUELESS!!!!Unless we 've gone " R " > > parental,guidance??? > > Lori > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2001 Report Share Posted May 11, 2001 Say Steve, Aren't there any equivalent male " side effects " ? :-) in Atlanta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2006 Report Share Posted March 10, 2006 Carolyn Myss's four-CD series called SELF ESTEEM is so excellent. She says that people with low self esteem heal very slowly and that self esteem is an ongoing project and that's the reason we're all here--to develop it in various areas of our lives. Today I put needles in a woman with mucho low self-esteem and I played the first CD for her as a gentle reminder that it is SHE who has to do the work by being aware of every choice she makes in her life. I highly recommend this series. Daffodilly, is Rotella, M.Ac., CNC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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