Guest guest Posted December 17, 2003 Report Share Posted December 17, 2003 Why does the man go asleep and the woman stay awake? This is common. Love and Peace on our Paths, Camille hysteria or reality ? Dear collaegues, I donot know how to put this intimate question down here, But give me a chance: Can anyone clarify on the following: Is it a common thing, for a woman after having intercourse before bedtime, she will probably be having insomnia because of having received "extra energy" from her (male ) partner, OR is this a main marker for such a client to be QX - examined / treated for hysteria or Phobias??? I look forward for any comment. Noel............................................. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2003 Report Share Posted December 18, 2003 hello noel and all it would be a good idea to read a bit about tantra. men lose energy from orgasm. women CAN get energized from intercourse. depends upon levels of consciousness and how sex is experienced. premrup Noel van der Mullen wrote: Dear collaegues, I donot know how to put this intimate question down here, But give me a chance: Can anyone clarify on the following: Is it a common thing, for a woman after having intercourse before bedtime, she will probably be having insomnia because of having received "extra energy" from her (male ) partner, OR is this a main marker for such a client to be QX - examined / treated for hysteria or Phobias??? I look forward for any comment. Noel. ............................................ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2003 Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 OK, so no therapy required! In the mean time I've learned from some of our collegues that a good ( cold ?) shower before bedtime for the male might help, as he transposes the energies caught up in the outside world to his wife. These energies, chaotic and stressful ( flushed away with a shower f.i.), are the culprit, apart from the fact that he indeed gives ( balanced ???) energy to his partner. So, again, enough to learn. Noel. hysteria or reality ? Dear collaegues, I donot know how to put this intimate question down here, But give me a chance: Can anyone clarify on the following: Is it a common thing, for a woman after having intercourse before bedtime, she will probably be having insomnia because of having received "extra energy" from her (male ) partner, OR is this a main marker for such a client to be QX - examined / treated for hysteria or Phobias??? I look forward for any comment. Noel............................................. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 23, 2003 Report Share Posted December 23, 2003 Noel, this is a very interesting question, and one on which a have a definite perspective. Since it is a topic that is sensitive to some, my reply will be sent directly (not broadcast) to your email, (which I have) and to any other interested party replying with their email address. Your topic is one that I do not recall being directly addressed in the studies I have read (Masters and etc) but then again I do not think a purely clinical perspective would be a complete answer. Barry at QWC " Noel van der Mullen " <N.vandermullen@...> wrote: >Dear collaegues, I donot know how to put this intimate question down here, But give me a chance: >Can anyone clarify on the following: > Is it a common thing, for a woman after having intercourse before bedtime, she will probably be having insomnia because of having received " extra energy " from her (male ) partner, OR is this a main marker for such a client to be QX - examined / treated for hysteria or Phobias??? I look forward for any comment. Noel. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2003 Report Share Posted December 24, 2003 Hi Noel, sorry I haven't contacted you earlier, we just returned from the Quantum Life Conference in the Bahamas. You've had a few good responses. I do however have a couple things I want to address that may also shed some light. The hormone issue has been addressed. But what of the emotional. It is unfortunate but common for a woman not to have come to the peak during this relationship. When the male is fulfilled and the woman is not emotionally, the man is drained/complete, while the woman is left to hang at this "high" point. For these woman this can emotionally put them into a state like insomnia. Anger, sadness, or abandonment incorporated with this or from other portions of the relationship may also do this. Again, emotions can really mess this up! Don't be surprised that this can also happen with a man who is impotent or unable to finish what he started. Yours in health, Kathy Noel van der Mullen <N.vandermullen@...> wrote: Dear collaegues, I donot know how to put this intimate question down here, But give me a chance: Can anyone clarify on the following: Is it a common thing, for a woman after having intercourse before bedtime, she will probably be having insomnia because of having received "extra energy" from her (male ) partner, OR is this a main marker for such a client to be QX - examined / treated for hysteria or Phobias??? I look forward for any comment. Noel............................................. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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