Guest guest Posted January 26, 2008 Report Share Posted January 26, 2008 Hello, I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once. I could not find the " anxiety " in the Disease dictionary. She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good. If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much appreciated. Thank you, kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2008 Report Share Posted February 8, 2008 This letter reminds me so much of what hear about clients who have autism so wanted share another way to look at it: Kate said: "I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. I say: She is crying for a reason. She is grieving the loss of her father. Although the tears may appear to come for no reason, they are triggered by memories of this loss. Kate says: "The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. I say: she doesn't need to go to a group to expose her pain to other children, she needs the adults in her family to accept and acknowledge the pain she is in. Mom needs to learn to allow her to share her feelings without becoming defensive. Kate says: "She doesn't want to talk about it." I say: She doesn't need to talk about it, but she definitely needs the freedom to feel it so that she can let it out, and have others acknowledge that the grief she is feeling is natural and normal, not label it as a psychiatric illness. Kate: Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once. I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary. I say: We have to stop viewing the grieving process as a "disease". If you want to help work on reducing sadness in NLP, and resolving grief, not labelling. Kate says: "She is a very clever girl." I say: "Yes she is. She is releasing her emotions instead of storing them. Would that we all were so wise!. I hope that this might help a little. Gail Gillingham Wylie Autism Consulting ServiceEdmonton, Alberta, CanadaPhone 780 450 2810Fax 780 463 6433e-mail exgr@...Website: www.autismconsultingservice.com Anxeity 8 year old girl Hello,I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once.I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary.She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good.If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much appreciated.Thank you,kate No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.21/1266 - Release Date: 2/8/2008 10:06 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2008 Report Share Posted February 8, 2008 You can add "anxiety" to the disease dictionary...look closely at the screen and follow the instructions to do this. Using the "help" (clicking and leaving) about 4 times in a row seems to pinpoint immediate attention needed by the client. You click "help" at the top of the main matrix page and click to remove the menu. A number shows and you do the "go to" click to get the field to zap. From: qxci-english [mailto:qxci-english ] On Behalf Of Katia PetrovaSent: Saturday, January 26, 2008 2:50 PMqxci-english Subject: Anxeity 8 year old girl Hello,I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once.I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary.She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good.If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much appreciated.Thank you,kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 2008 Report Share Posted February 10, 2008 Grief affects us, love affects the heart, she is only 8 years old how can she understand the rejection? Use auto-zap emotions. Bye Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 If it were for my children (and years after their dad's death when I got the machine, I did do this) I would probably do much of my work in NLP, starting with the Unconscious choices and then going to the Unconscious Reactivity; in there I can click on the atom and get into the past issue regression areas. Day time, and experiences. I'd also be working in the EEG panel for Polymorphic issues, then do the Aura in both Body and Face scan and in Bodyviewer. In Boiofeedback I would be able to use the Electro Hypnosis. Be sure you worked on the Releasing Karmic bonds (under organs) first and then when done with EH be sure to use the Reprograming Karma (under additional). If you have time between the Release and Reprogram go to NLP and do the "Karma button there too". Hope you find it helps as much as it has for my clients. If you need more help than that, the new Emotional and Psychological Connection to the Physical Body course I did last year is available on DVDs. This goes much deeper in understanding the brain connections and how the body and emotions all intertwine. Yours in Health, Kathy Kathy , International Advanced Instructor www.4yourhealthshop.com kathyqx@... Katia Petrova <kate_petrov@...> wrote: Hello,I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once.I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary.She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good.If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much appreciated.Thank you,kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 22, 2008 Report Share Posted February 22, 2008 Thank you Gail for your profound understanding of the grieving function. You are so correct in your observation. IF even more adutls could be allowed to do this properly, rather than having to stuff thier emotions, we would see so much less stress. Thanks for responding. Kernan > > This letter reminds me so much of what hear about clients who have autism so wanted share another way to look at it: > > Kate said: " I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries > with no reason. > > I say: She is crying for a reason. She is grieving the loss of her father. Although the tears may appear to come for no reason, they are triggered by memories of this loss. > > Kate says: " The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. > > I say: she doesn't need to go to a group to expose her pain to other children, she needs the adults in her family to accept and acknowledge the pain she is in. Mom needs to learn to allow her to share her feelings without becoming defensive. > > Kate says: " She doesn't want to talk about it. " > > I say: She doesn't need to talk about it, but she definitely needs the freedom to feel it so that she can let it out, and have others acknowledge that the grief she is feeling is natural and normal, not label it as a psychiatric illness. > > Kate: Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once. I could not find the " anxiety " in the Disease dictionary. > > I say: We have to stop viewing the grieving process as a " disease " . If you want to help work on reducing sadness in NLP, and resolving grief, not labelling. > > Kate says: " She is a very clever girl. " > > I say: " Yes she is. She is releasing her emotions instead of storing them. Would that we all were so wise!. > > I hope that this might help a little. > > > Gail Gillingham Wylie > Autism Consulting Service > Edmonton, Alberta, Canada > Phone 780 450 2810 > Fax 780 463 6433 > e-mail exgr@... > Website: www.autismconsultingservice.com > Anxeity 8 year old girl > > > Hello, > I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries > with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other > children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting > even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. > Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once. > I could not find the " anxiety " in the Disease dictionary. > She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good. > If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much > appreciated. > Thank you, > kate > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------- > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.21/1266 - Release Date: 2/8/2008 10:06 AM > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2008 Report Share Posted February 23, 2008 YES! YES! YES!  TO THIS!LelaOn Feb 8, 2008, at 11:12 PM, Gail and Clay Wylie wrote:This letter reminds me so much of what hear about clients who have autism so wanted share another way to look at it: Kate said: "I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. I say: She is crying for a reason. She is grieving the loss of her father. Although the tears may appear to come for no reason, they are triggered by memories of this loss. Kate says: "The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. I say: she doesn't need to go to a group to expose her pain to other children, she needs the adults in her family to accept and acknowledge the pain she is in. Mom needs to learn to allow her to share her feelings without becoming defensive. Kate says:  "She doesn't want to talk about it." I say: She doesn't need to talk about it, but she definitely needs the freedom to feel it so that she can let it out, and have others acknowledge that the grief she is feeling is natural and normal, not label it as a psychiatric illness. Kate: Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once. I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary.I say: We have to stop viewing the grieving process as a "disease". If you want to help work on reducing sadness in NLP, and resolving grief, not labelling. Kate says: "She is a very clever girl." I say: "Yes she is. She is releasing her emotions instead of storing them. Would that we all were so wise!. I hope that this might help a little.  Gail Gillingham Wylie Autism Consulting ServiceEdmonton, Alberta, CanadaPhone 780 450 2810Fax 780 463 6433e-mail  exgr@...Website: www.autismconsultingservice.com----- Original Message -----From: Katia PetrovaTo: qxci-english Sent: Saturday, January 26, 2008 12:49 PMSubject: Anxeity 8 year old girlHello,I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once.I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary.She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good.If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much appreciated.Thank you,kateNo virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.21/1266 - Release Date: 2/8/2008 10:06 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2008 Report Share Posted February 25, 2008 Thank you, Gail This is exactly what I told the grandmother. In NLP SAF this is what came; the girl needs to speak to grandmother about the life values and do something together with her for fun, to feel the attention from her relatives. Thanks, Lela <JannaLeLa@...> wrote: YES! YES! YES! TO THIS! Lela On Feb 8, 2008, at 11:12 PM, Gail and Clay Wylie wrote: This letter reminds me so much of what hear about clients who have autism so wanted share another way to look at it: Kate said: "I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. I say: She is crying for a reason. She is grieving the loss of her father. Although the tears may appear to come for no reason, they are triggered by memories of this loss. Kate says: "The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. I say: she doesn't need to go to a group to expose her pain to other children, she needs the adults in her family to accept and acknowledge the pain she is in. Mom needs to learn to allow her to share her feelings without becoming defensive. Kate says: "She doesn't want to talk about it." I say: She doesn't need to talk about it, but she definitely needs the freedom to feel it so that she can let it out, and have others acknowledge that the grief she is feeling is natural and normal, not label it as a psychiatric illness. Kate: Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once. I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary. I say: We have to stop viewing the grieving process as a "disease". If you want to help work on reducing sadness in NLP, and resolving grief, not labelling. Kate says: "She is a very clever girl." I say: "Yes she is. She is releasing her emotions instead of storing them. Would that we all were so wise!. I hope that this might help a little. Gail Gillingham Wylie Autism Consulting ServiceEdmonton, Alberta, CanadaPhone 780 450 2810Fax 780 463 6433e-mail exgr@...Website: www.autismconsultingservice.com Anxeity 8 year old girl Hello,I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once.I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary.She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good.If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much appreciated.Thank you,kate No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.21/1266 - Release Date: 2/8/2008 10:06 AM Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Homeopathic Ignatia is the remedy for grief due to loss. I would give her a single dose of 30 first wait and see the reaction which could be instantaneous before moving tp a higher potency such as 200. try it and post back please Ravi qxci-english From: exgr@...Date: Fri, 8 Feb 2008 08:12:19 -0700Subject: Re: Anxeity 8 year old girl This letter reminds me so much of what hear about clients who have autism so wanted share another way to look at it: Kate said: "I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. I say: She is crying for a reason. She is grieving the loss of her father. Although the tears may appear to come for no reason, they are triggered by memories of this loss. Kate says: "The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. I say: she doesn't need to go to a group to expose her pain to other children, she needs the adults in her family to accept and acknowledge the pain she is in. Mom needs to learn to allow her to share her feelings without becoming defensive. Kate says: "She doesn't want to talk about it." I say: She doesn't need to talk about it, but she definitely needs the freedom to feel it so that she can let it out, and have others acknowledge that the grief she is feeling is natural and normal, not label it as a psychiatric illness. Kate: Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once. I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary. I say: We have to stop viewing the grieving process as a "disease". If you want to help work on reducing sadness in NLP, and resolving grief, not labelling. Kate says: "She is a very clever girl." I say: "Yes she is. She is releasing her emotions instead of storing them. Would that we all were so wise!. I hope that this might help a little. Gail Gillingham Wylie Autism Consulting ServiceEdmonton, Alberta, CanadaPhone 780 450 2810Fax 780 463 6433e-mail exgr@...Website: www.autismconsultingservice.com Anxeity 8 year old girl Hello,I work on an 8 year old girl whose father left the family. She cries with no reason. The mother wants her to join a group with other children when she can talk about her feelings, but the girl is getting even more stressed because of this. She doesn't want to talk about it. Actually her heart and throat charkas are the blocked once.I could not find the "anxiety " in the Disease dictionary.She is a very clever girl. The brain is tuned. Nutrition is good.If anyone has some suggestions from experience, it will be very much appreciated.Thank you,kate No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.21/1266 - Release Date: 2/8/2008 10:06 AM Sounds like? How many syllables? Guess and win prizes with Search Charades! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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