Guest guest Posted August 8, 1999 Report Share Posted August 8, 1999 How do I get into this chatroom? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 1999 Report Share Posted August 8, 1999 In a message dated 8/8/99 1:02:45 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ktbruno@... writes: << I am wondering why looks matter to alot of people.I met alot of nice people on here and i know some would like to see who there talking too,which is okay,but I do not judge what someone looks like i would rather have there personality and charm etc. What counts is what is stored in your heart and soul. >> Kris: Some people in life are concerned with how a person looks like, others are not on the other hand. When one is communicating with a person or person " on line " here and establish a friendship of sorts is normal to want to " put a picture to one's face. " Just like if one is talking on the phone whether for business or personal one is eventually making out in their mind what the person looks like without being discriminating in any way. I agree with your statement that I put personality, charm, what is in their hearts and souls which to me comes first compared to what one looks like. " I rather have the filling inside the cake or the cake rather than the cake with the icing. " :-) Helen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 1999 Report Share Posted August 8, 1999 Looks doesn't matter to me either. However in my life I have noticed that most people don't feel the same as me. Heck, I went out with a guy who said that my personality didn't fit my body. I have a nice personality by the way. I'm not saying I'm the ugliest person in the world but I'm far from being a supermodel. So e I agree with everything you said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 1999 Report Share Posted August 8, 1999 Hi Kris- I'm on the chatroom too as ^Gret^, and I just wanted to tell you that looks don't really matter when someone wants to see your picture. A lot of times, people like to put a face to whomever they talk to online. I know I do sometimes. I have my picture online, and I'll be glad to give you mine...I know it seems sorta personal to you and I understand, but I don't think it's nescarrily us judging eachother on how we look, and then basing that on whether or not we'll talk to you. It's just a matter of putting a face to a keyboard Hope it helps! Your Friend - Gretchen At 01:03 PM 8/8/99 -0400, you wrote: >From: " Tom & Kris " <ktbruno@...> > >Hello all!! > I am wondering why looks matter to alot of people.I met alot of nice people on here and i know some would like to see who there talking too,which is okay,but I do not judge what someone looks like i would rather have there personality and charm etc.As i told alot of people that i am not a " Barbie " doll I am an average good looking woman and I like myself for who i am.I wanted to write this because to tell people looks do not matter to me.What counts is what is stored in your heart and soul. Thank you---e > >[Attachments have been removed from this message] > >--------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 In a message dated 4/8/00 1:34:14 PM Eastern Daylight Time, kjdrake@... writes: << I am writing this because I feel as if looks are important to LP men on what the LP woman looks like. I am okay looking to myself but it seems at these regionals that the men want one night stands or they say things a woman wants to hear just to get there way. Why cannot men look more in the heart of a woman and be truthfully sincere in what they want from a relationship and there type of woman. >> I think this pertains to all people whether men or women short stature or not. There are some people men and women that base their relationships or friendships on what a person looks which to me there is more than what a person looks like that gets me interested whether for friendship or relationship. I'm a fairly attractive woman. I just wouldn't want someone to just like me for what I look like. I would want them to like me for my intelligence, sense of humor, determination. When I look for friends or someone to have a relationship with I just don't base it on what a person looks like. " To me one has to know the gift inside the packaging not just the packaging... " :-) Helen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 I am writing this because I feel as if looks are important to LP men on what the LP woman looks like. I am okay looking to myself but it seems at these regionals that the men want one night stands or they say things a woman wants to hear just to get there way. Why cannot men look more in the heart of a woman and be truthfully sincere in what they want from a relationship and there type of woman. I live in NJ and around here there are no LP men i have met, the ones i have are far away. But, to me that does not mean that they cannot call you or write. Thank you for listening. Suggestions taken..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 I realize this might not be too popular to say but it is the truth. When it comes to first meetings of the opposite sex yes men and women will tend to go towards someone they are physically attracted to. Notice i said men and women...yes ladies we are just as guilty to this also. The trick in avoiding situations that turn into one night stands is not being is such a rush to find Mr. Right....I made this mistake and yes i learned from it. To me also searching for Mr. Right is a dead give away to be taken advantage of. I feel when it is right i will meet him and then fate or whatever you choose to call it will make it fall into place. As for it being only LP men who are shall we say aggressive i am here to tell you as a woman we are too.....and yes the distance factor for us ladies does make it harder to date especially if we have choosen to only date LP men. Well that is my two cents.. dodi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2000 Report Share Posted April 9, 2000 I haven't written in a while, but this one caught my eye... Yeah this happens quite a bit, I know from experience. Yet I meet LP women who do the same thing. I must admit that when I first went to a convention I was 21 and wild so I wasn't looking for a relationship. I wanted to meet people and have a good time. So much has change since then. I got married and settled down ... but still loving life! I think people should just be more open about what they want. If you say 'hey look I'm not looking for a relationship and I think you need to know that', then people know where they stand. You know some guys seem to assume that the girl wants a relationship and then ignore her after they've had their fun...and by fun I mean dancing all night, staying up late talking or yes, messing around, fun can be more then just a one night stand. Sometimes people stay up all night talking and having a laugh then the next day don't want other LP friends to know they were up spending time with that person. I can't understand that. I could careless who others think I should hangout with. We all need to chill out and just except people and be honest, that way we all have a good time. Take care, Jude saying hello from the UK In a message dated 08/04/00 18:33:56 GMT Daylight Time, kjdrake@... writes: > I am writing this because I feel as if looks are important to LP men on what > the LP woman looks like. I am okay looking to myself but it seems at these > regionals that the men want one night stands or they say things a woman wants > to hear just to get there way. > Why cannot men look more in the heart of a woman and be truthfully sincere > in what they want from a relationship and there type of woman. > I live in NJ and around here there are no LP men i have met, the ones > i have are far away. But, to me that does not mean that they cannot call you > or write. > > Thank you for listening. Suggestions taken..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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