Guest guest Posted January 26, 2001 Report Share Posted January 26, 2001 I've had RA for the last 21 years. ( that's when it was diagnosed, anyway) but it was hereditary on my mothers side and she had been diagnosed since her 30's. so I was about 10-15 years earlier than her. When I had been diagnosed with it, her main concern was that i not go and sit down some where that i keep moving. she had a relative that was bedridden because she had been told to go to bed with hers, and that is where she died and so she didn't want me to do that. This women is 84 yrs young and still going strong. At 65 she and grandpa went white water rafting, at 80 she took a turn sledding with her grandchildren and great-grandchild, etc. anyway , It looks as though i get to carry on the legacy of the RA, i sure hope that I get to carry on the rest of it and am never too old to play with my grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2001 Report Share Posted January 28, 2001 Hi fibrofog, Your mom was smart to keep moving. As much as it hurts, if we stop using it, we loose it. Exercise is so important, yet so painful. I do range of motion exercises to music and try to concentrate on the music instead of the pain. It helps and it is fun. I was told that I'd be in a wheelchair before I was 30, but I was determined to prove them wrong and I did. Your mom sounds like she is a very determined lady! I love to hear how active she is. a ----- Original Message ----- From: <FIBROFOG247@...> < egroups> Sent: Thursday, January 25, 2001 9:35 PM Subject: Re: [ ] RA-HEREDITARY > I've had RA for the last 21 years. ( that's when it was diagnosed, anyway) > but it was hereditary on my mothers side and she had been diagnosed since her > 30's. so I was about 10-15 years earlier than her. When I had been > diagnosed with it, her main concern was that i not go and sit down some where > that i keep moving. she had a relative that was bedridden because she had > been told to go to bed with hers, and that is where she died and so she > didn't want me to do that. This women is 84 yrs young and still going > strong. At 65 she and grandpa went white water rafting, at 80 she took a > turn sledding with her grandchildren and great-grandchild, etc. anyway , It > looks as though i get to carry on the legacy of the RA, i sure hope that I > get to carry on the rest of it and am never too old to play with my > grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2001 Report Share Posted January 29, 2001 a, Get this, it wasn't my mom. it's my 84 yr young grandmother. and i think she's the greatest. This woman has the traditional crippled hands. And the woman still bakes Christmas cookies, she has written letters, crocheted, cake decorating, and numerous other things, as well as has a garden and then puts up food at the end of the season (CANNING). At 84 she has gotten pretty limited but this year for christmas I got apple butter, hard tack candy and her famous cut-out christmas cookies. I rationalized a long time ago, that she was able to do this stuff because she has never had a job outside the home. at the time i was working 40 hour weeks. and was exhausted. plus i also was put on disability for 2 yrs. but i still never had the energy that she does.. In fact I'm working now 40 hr weeks plus OT if i can get it and I still don't think I could match her. And I'm 1/2 her age. Thank for writing. I'll look for your next post. JOYCE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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