Guest guest Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 My Ex Girlfriend/fiancee of the past 10 years was put on Zoloft about a year ago for panic attacks she started to have by her Family Doctor (Big Mistake if you ask me, Family doctors SHOULD NOT be able to perscribe these drugs) and ever since then she has had some weird behavior like different interest in things, lost interested in things and complete interest in things for a short time. Anyway about 2 months ago she broke up with me out of nowhere and we NEVER fought we always got along and talked about the future and everything we shared together, it's like we were married but we weren't. We both had the same interests in everything everyone thought we were the perfect couple (So did I) Everyone in her family and mine plus all our friends were shocked to hear that she broke up with me. At first she said we needed a break for a month then it was 3 months then she said 6 months then she said she needed a year. Then she said she needed to be more independent and she didn't want to be with anybody. Then she said she wants to see who she is without me and she needed to be selfish for herself. Then she said it was nothing I had done then she started saying all this weird stuff that I did like asking her to stop at the store and going somewhere when she was tired with me, Just the littlest things like anything she could say to help her come up with a reason. But she has no emotional feelings about this at all it's like she doesn't care about me at all anymore out of nowhere. I have seen her in public and she looked at like she didn't know who I was with this weird confused look on her face. She seems to have lost all her sad emotions (she used to be very emotional before she took the Zoloft) now she is like a Zombie with no feelings. The only person she hange out with is her 36 year old Married friend with a child and another on the way (My ex is in her mid 20's) she sleeps over night there a lot (she tells her parents that her friend begs her to stay and that she helps her because shes pregnant, I thought that should be the husbands job) But that is all she seems to care about and I just think think she's being used as a baby sitter (not the first time I have seen that happen to her) So if anyone has had any similar experience with somebody loseing all their love and emotions please let me know so I can convince her to get off of the Zoloft before it ruins both of our futures because it has already caused me a lot of pain from what she has done to me. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 My Ex Girlfriend/fiancee of the past 10 years was put on Zoloft about a year ago for panic attacks she started to have by her Family Doctor (Big Mistake if you ask me, Family doctors SHOULD NOT be able to perscribe these drugs) and ever since then she has had some weird behavior like different interest in things, lost interested in things and complete interest in things for a short time. Anyway about 2 months ago she broke up with me out of nowhere and we NEVER fought we always got along and talked about the future and everything we shared together, it's like we were married but we weren't. We both had the same interests in everything everyone thought we were the perfect couple (So did I) Everyone in her family and mine plus all our friends were shocked to hear that she broke up with me. At first she said we needed a break for a month then it was 3 months then she said 6 months then she said she needed a year. Then she said she needed to be more independent and she didn't want to be with anybody. Then she said she wants to see who she is without me and she needed to be selfish for herself. Then she said it was nothing I had done then she started saying all this weird stuff that I did like asking her to stop at the store and going somewhere when she was tired with me, Just the littlest things like anything she could say to help her come up with a reason. But she has no emotional feelings about this at all it's like she doesn't care about me at all anymore out of nowhere. I have seen her in public and she looked at like she didn't know who I was with this weird confused look on her face. She seems to have lost all her sad emotions (she used to be very emotional before she took the Zoloft) now she is like a Zombie with no feelings. The only person she hange out with is her 36 year old Married friend with a child and another on the way (My ex is in her mid 20's) she sleeps over night there a lot (she tells her parents that her friend begs her to stay and that she helps her because shes pregnant, I thought that should be the husbands job) But that is all she seems to care about and I just think think she's being used as a baby sitter (not the first time I have seen that happen to her) So if anyone has had any similar experience with somebody loseing all their love and emotions please let me know so I can convince her to get off of the Zoloft before it ruins both of our futures because it has already caused me a lot of pain from what she has done to me. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 My Ex Girlfriend/fiancee of the past 10 years was put on Zoloft about a year ago for panic attacks she started to have by her Family Doctor (Big Mistake if you ask me, Family doctors SHOULD NOT be able to perscribe these drugs) and ever since then she has had some weird behavior like different interest in things, lost interested in things and complete interest in things for a short time. Anyway about 2 months ago she broke up with me out of nowhere and we NEVER fought we always got along and talked about the future and everything we shared together, it's like we were married but we weren't. We both had the same interests in everything everyone thought we were the perfect couple (So did I) Everyone in her family and mine plus all our friends were shocked to hear that she broke up with me. At first she said we needed a break for a month then it was 3 months then she said 6 months then she said she needed a year. Then she said she needed to be more independent and she didn't want to be with anybody. Then she said she wants to see who she is without me and she needed to be selfish for herself. Then she said it was nothing I had done then she started saying all this weird stuff that I did like asking her to stop at the store and going somewhere when she was tired with me, Just the littlest things like anything she could say to help her come up with a reason. But she has no emotional feelings about this at all it's like she doesn't care about me at all anymore out of nowhere. I have seen her in public and she looked at like she didn't know who I was with this weird confused look on her face. She seems to have lost all her sad emotions (she used to be very emotional before she took the Zoloft) now she is like a Zombie with no feelings. The only person she hange out with is her 36 year old Married friend with a child and another on the way (My ex is in her mid 20's) she sleeps over night there a lot (she tells her parents that her friend begs her to stay and that she helps her because shes pregnant, I thought that should be the husbands job) But that is all she seems to care about and I just think think she's being used as a baby sitter (not the first time I have seen that happen to her) So if anyone has had any similar experience with somebody loseing all their love and emotions please let me know so I can convince her to get off of the Zoloft before it ruins both of our futures because it has already caused me a lot of pain from what she has done to me. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 My Ex Girlfriend/fiancee of the past 10 years was put on Zoloft about a year ago for panic attacks she started to have by her Family Doctor (Big Mistake if you ask me, Family doctors SHOULD NOT be able to perscribe these drugs) and ever since then she has had some weird behavior like different interest in things, lost interested in things and complete interest in things for a short time. Anyway about 2 months ago she broke up with me out of nowhere and we NEVER fought we always got along and talked about the future and everything we shared together, it's like we were married but we weren't. We both had the same interests in everything everyone thought we were the perfect couple (So did I) Everyone in her family and mine plus all our friends were shocked to hear that she broke up with me. At first she said we needed a break for a month then it was 3 months then she said 6 months then she said she needed a year. Then she said she needed to be more independent and she didn't want to be with anybody. Then she said she wants to see who she is without me and she needed to be selfish for herself. Then she said it was nothing I had done then she started saying all this weird stuff that I did like asking her to stop at the store and going somewhere when she was tired with me, Just the littlest things like anything she could say to help her come up with a reason. But she has no emotional feelings about this at all it's like she doesn't care about me at all anymore out of nowhere. I have seen her in public and she looked at like she didn't know who I was with this weird confused look on her face. She seems to have lost all her sad emotions (she used to be very emotional before she took the Zoloft) now she is like a Zombie with no feelings. The only person she hange out with is her 36 year old Married friend with a child and another on the way (My ex is in her mid 20's) she sleeps over night there a lot (she tells her parents that her friend begs her to stay and that she helps her because shes pregnant, I thought that should be the husbands job) But that is all she seems to care about and I just think think she's being used as a baby sitter (not the first time I have seen that happen to her) So if anyone has had any similar experience with somebody loseing all their love and emotions please let me know so I can convince her to get off of the Zoloft before it ruins both of our futures because it has already caused me a lot of pain from what she has done to me. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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