Children blamed for hyperactivity 'are victims of poor parenting'

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Children blamed for hyperactivity 'are victims of poor parenting'

By Maxine Frith, Social Affairs Correspondent

21 July 2003

Hundreds of thousands of children prescribed the drug Ritalin for

hyperactivity might simply be the victims of lax parenting, new evidence

suggests.

A British scientist has cast doubt on the existence of conditions such as

attention deficit disorder (ADD), which will fuel the controversy over the

increasing use of Ritalin.

Warwick Dyer, a behavioural expert, claims parents need to accept more blame

for their children's " disorders " and move away from the chemical cosh of

prescription drugs.

He has developed a programme that focuses on the way parents behave towards

their children - and claims a 100 per cent success rate over the past five

years. Remarkably, he never sees the child involved, and has just one

face-to-face consultation with the parents. The rest of his work is limited

to a daily telephone briefing with the parents on how to treat their child.

Mr Dyer's theory is based on simple ideas such as a rigid system of rewards

and sanctions for good and bad behaviour, with an insistence on politeness

towards parents - and a demand that mothers and fathers control their

tempers as well.

Mr Dyer said: " I am open-minded about whether ADD exists or not, but what is

certainly clear is that a lot of symptoms ascribed to such disorders are in

fact easily confused with basic behavioural problems that don't need to be

treated with a drug.

" Parenting is not a democracy. You need to give your child what they want -

love and attention - but on your terms, not theirs. "

Mr Dyer's work is now the subject of a Channel 4 Cutting Edge documentary,

to be broadcast tomorrow.

One in 10 children is now diagnosed with ADD or the related attention

deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

Ritalin is an amphetamine with a similar potency to cocaine, and prescribing

in Britain has soared one hundredfold in the past 10 years. In 1990, just

3,000 children were on the drug; today, there are 345,000 taking it, costing

the NHS more than £3m a year. The drug is being given to children as young

as 18 months old.

Now a growing lobby of parents, doctors and other experts is questioning

whether ADD or ADHD exist.

Mr Dyer was a primary school teacher in the East End of London until he

retired and set up the Behaviour Change Consultancy. He now sees about 30

families a year, and claims his techniques work with everyone, from the

youngest children to teenagers.

He said: " The problem is that a lot of parents simply aren't being parents.

In the last 20 years, parents have started talking to their children a lot

more, but they have stopped being in control of them.

" They have tended to examine how they were brought up and reject what they

thought was bad, but they haven't taken on what was good. Children are

instinctively artful and will try to put themselves in control of their

parents. I put parents back in control. "

His " back to basics " approach worked to stunning effect with Fred and Diane

from Essex, and their seven-year-old daughter, Georgina, who are featured in

the Cutting Edge documentary. Georgina had been prescribed Ritalin and been

diagnosed with special needs because of her appalling temper tantrums and

violent behaviour. She was expelled from her first playgroup at the age of

two and a half, and her parents were so desperate that last year they had

decided to put her into care.

But within weeks of adopting Mr Dyer's techniques, Georgina's behaviour had

improved.

Fred, who runs a wedding video business, and Diane, a civil servant, had to

spend seven months in daily phone calls to Mr Dyer, where they had to

describe her behaviour in detail, and accept castigations from the expert

when they deviated from the sanction system.

At one point he told the couple: " It's not her fault that you can't control

her. She has wrapped you around her little finger. You aren't accepting that

there isn't anything wrong with your daughter. "

By the end of the seven months, Georgina was having less than two tantrums a

month and while her special needs diagnosis was being reviewed.

Diane said: " The change has been incredible. This has all been done without

Ritalin. Before, I hated her. Now, she is a normal child. I feel guilty when

I look back to how I treated her before. "

Janice Hill, of the Overload Network, a parent support organisation, said:

" Warwick Dyer has shown that the idea of ADHD is a myth. Children are being

given a drug that has the same pharmacology as cocaine when in fact all they

and their parents need are help with their behaviour.

" Doctors should stop dishing out Ritalin and start using safe alternatives,

which have been proven to work. "

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Children blamed for hyperactivity 'are victims of poor parenting'

By Maxine Frith, Social Affairs Correspondent

21 July 2003

Hundreds of thousands of children prescribed the drug Ritalin for

hyperactivity might simply be the victims of lax parenting, new evidence

suggests.

A British scientist has cast doubt on the existence of conditions such as

attention deficit disorder (ADD), which will fuel the controversy over the

increasing use of Ritalin.

Warwick Dyer, a behavioural expert, claims parents need to accept more blame

for their children's " disorders " and move away from the chemical cosh of

prescription drugs.

He has developed a programme that focuses on the way parents behave towards

their children - and claims a 100 per cent success rate over the past five

years. Remarkably, he never sees the child involved, and has just one

face-to-face consultation with the parents. The rest of his work is limited

to a daily telephone briefing with the parents on how to treat their child.

Mr Dyer's theory is based on simple ideas such as a rigid system of rewards

and sanctions for good and bad behaviour, with an insistence on politeness

towards parents - and a demand that mothers and fathers control their

tempers as well.

Mr Dyer said: " I am open-minded about whether ADD exists or not, but what is

certainly clear is that a lot of symptoms ascribed to such disorders are in

fact easily confused with basic behavioural problems that don't need to be

treated with a drug.

" Parenting is not a democracy. You need to give your child what they want -

love and attention - but on your terms, not theirs. "

Mr Dyer's work is now the subject of a Channel 4 Cutting Edge documentary,

to be broadcast tomorrow.

One in 10 children is now diagnosed with ADD or the related attention

deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

Ritalin is an amphetamine with a similar potency to cocaine, and prescribing

in Britain has soared one hundredfold in the past 10 years. In 1990, just

3,000 children were on the drug; today, there are 345,000 taking it, costing

the NHS more than £3m a year. The drug is being given to children as young

as 18 months old.

Now a growing lobby of parents, doctors and other experts is questioning

whether ADD or ADHD exist.

Mr Dyer was a primary school teacher in the East End of London until he

retired and set up the Behaviour Change Consultancy. He now sees about 30

families a year, and claims his techniques work with everyone, from the

youngest children to teenagers.

He said: " The problem is that a lot of parents simply aren't being parents.

In the last 20 years, parents have started talking to their children a lot

more, but they have stopped being in control of them.

" They have tended to examine how they were brought up and reject what they

thought was bad, but they haven't taken on what was good. Children are

instinctively artful and will try to put themselves in control of their

parents. I put parents back in control. "

His " back to basics " approach worked to stunning effect with Fred and Diane

from Essex, and their seven-year-old daughter, Georgina, who are featured in

the Cutting Edge documentary. Georgina had been prescribed Ritalin and been

diagnosed with special needs because of her appalling temper tantrums and

violent behaviour. She was expelled from her first playgroup at the age of

two and a half, and her parents were so desperate that last year they had

decided to put her into care.

But within weeks of adopting Mr Dyer's techniques, Georgina's behaviour had

improved.

Fred, who runs a wedding video business, and Diane, a civil servant, had to

spend seven months in daily phone calls to Mr Dyer, where they had to

describe her behaviour in detail, and accept castigations from the expert

when they deviated from the sanction system.

At one point he told the couple: " It's not her fault that you can't control

her. She has wrapped you around her little finger. You aren't accepting that

there isn't anything wrong with your daughter. "

By the end of the seven months, Georgina was having less than two tantrums a

month and while her special needs diagnosis was being reviewed.

Diane said: " The change has been incredible. This has all been done without

Ritalin. Before, I hated her. Now, she is a normal child. I feel guilty when

I look back to how I treated her before. "

Janice Hill, of the Overload Network, a parent support organisation, said:

" Warwick Dyer has shown that the idea of ADHD is a myth. Children are being

given a drug that has the same pharmacology as cocaine when in fact all they

and their parents need are help with their behaviour.

" Doctors should stop dishing out Ritalin and start using safe alternatives,

which have been proven to work. "

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