Warning regarding people trying to get your meds

February 24, 2010

Long story as short as possible. I searched for my birth family for 32 years

and found them a year ago last thanksgiving, however my birth mother had passed

in 2003. The first picture I saw of her was on her new 1960 Harley and she was

in a riding club in Oregon. I contacted all the older clubs in Oregon and

Washington and heard back from a guy named from a club in Seattle. We

continued to email once or twice a month, biker jokes mostly and biker news. He

contacted me in November and said he would like to meet me in person as we had

been on line friends for a year and since I cannot travel, he came down to where

I live. My friends were pretty worried as this is totally out of character for

me and they called when he was here to make sure I felt comfortable, which I

was. He came to visit again on new years eve and I began to get that warning

feeling that all was not right. We talked on the phone almost daily and he was

always going to a ER or dentist to get meds for pain, said his dr would not give

him any and he had back problems, he also stopped at ER's on his way home from

my place each time. The third time he came to visit was a month ago and things

did not go well, I keep my meds hidden away and only had enough out for the time

he was going to be here. We were just friends, no sex involved. He planned to

come back at Valentines, which was also when I got my 3 month supply of meds. I

sent him a email, said not to call me, I had blocked his email addy, and he was

no longer welcome at my home, and that I had other plans that weekend (my son

was putting down a new kitchen floor but I did not explain that). Since then

(over a month now) he calls and emails (made up a new one as I had blocked him)

they were either lovey dovey or mean and threatening. He said he was going to

call the police as he had left a heater here, I had asked him not to as I had

already replaced mine that had broken and do not like to borrow things, and now

think it was a reason for him to come here again. Also said he was going to

call my doctors, admitted he got names off my rx bottles that were kept in my

purse, while I was in the bathroom, and call my friends with lies to break up

our friendships. He was never interested in me, just my meds. I have learned a

valuable lesson to never tell anyone what my doctor prescribes to me and just

want to warn others that are too trusting as I was. I called the police and

they came and listened to the messages and opened a case, domestic violence is

helping me get a no contact order and I am applying for a concealed weapons

permit. My meds are now kept in a safety deposit box. Such a sad world there

are so many creeps out there. Take care and be safe, wyld

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