SARA = Re: Blame it on the Parents - Bipolar III

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SARA - You said:

Sara <Sara_at_home911@...> wrote:

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>>>>> " And I refuse to accept that my parenting skills

are so inferior to my peers that I have caused my son's

problems. I do think that my parenting skills and concern

in this day and age propelled me to take my child to get

" profession help " for something I should have just ignored

as normal teen angst. " <<<<<

***** So often it IS people's parenting skills and concern

that propels them to seek professional help ... with the

challenging issues kids are facing today ... BECAUSE those

issues are often WAY BEYOND " US " and " our parenting skills " .

That validates that your parenting skills are NOT INFERIOR!!!

and the " professional help " you sought is what actually

failed you and your son........

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>>>>> " We have been taught to see pathology where it doesn't

really exist. " <<<<<

***** EXACTLY !!!!!

In agreement..... Jan

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