Woman special needs teacher jailed for six months for sexual relations with boy

September 16, 2005

Woman banned from texting pupils

Miles bombarded the teenager with a slew of sexual text messages

A teaching assistant has been jailed for six months and banned from

sending texts to boys after admitting having sex with a special

needs pupil aged 16.

Beverley Miles, 48, from Bournemouth, Dorset, preyed on the boy at

school, at his home and at remote beauty spots.

The victim's sister raised the alarm after he confided in her,

showing her sexual text messages from Miles.

The boy had tried to break off the relationship with Miles, a

married mother of two teenagers, jurors heard.

No amount of punishment will ever compensate for the ordeal that

my son has had to endure

Mother

She and the teenager, who needed one to one teaching and was

described as " rather slow " , had a relationship between 1 May and 17

June, Bournemouth Crown Court was told.

After their relationship became public, Miles disappeared from home

for three weeks, sparking an extensive search by police.

Her husband, a painter and decorator, toured the New Forest and Isle

of Wight, putting up posters asking for help finding her.

Miles, who had been sleeping rough in the New Forest, rang home

after recognising herself on a poster.

'Breathtaking arrogance'

The special needs expert initially denied six charges, but later

changed her plea on two counts to guilty.

Judge Beashel ordered the other four counts to lie on file.

He also disqualified her from working with children and made a

sexual offences prevention order banning her from sending text

messages to any boy under 18 who is not a relation, or living with

any boy under 18 to whom she is not related.

Mr Beashel said: " In many ways these offences demonstrate

breathtaking irresponsibility and indeed arrogance on your part in

driving to his home on at least one occasion whilst the rest of his

family were out and having sexual intercourse with him there. "

The victim's mother, who cannot be named in case her son is

identified, said outside court: " No amount of punishment will ever

compensate for the ordeal that my son has had to endure and is still

enduring.

" This teacher deceived me into believing that she was giving my son

extra tuition prior to his GCSE exams.

" To then discover that his trust, and mine, was significantly abused

by this teacher was devastating. "

September 17, 2005

I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year old

is over reacting.

john

--- bryce_j_j <jeremy.bryce@...> wrote:

> Woman banned from texting pupils

>

> Miles bombarded the teenager with a slew of sexual

> text messages

>

> A teaching assistant has been jailed for six months

> and banned from

> sending texts to boys after admitting having sex

> with a special

> needs pupil aged 16.

> Beverley Miles, 48, from Bournemouth, Dorset, preyed

> on the boy at

> school, at his home and at remote beauty spots.

>

> The victim's sister raised the alarm after he

> confided in her,

> showing her sexual text messages from Miles.

>

> The boy had tried to break off the relationship with

> Miles, a

> married mother of two teenagers, jurors heard.

>

> No amount of punishment will ever compensate for

> the ordeal that

> my son has had to endure

>

> Mother

> She and the teenager, who needed one to one teaching

> and was

> described as " rather slow " , had a relationship

> between 1 May and 17

> June, Bournemouth Crown Court was told.

>

> After their relationship became public, Miles

> disappeared from home

> for three weeks, sparking an extensive search by

> police.

>

> Her husband, a painter and decorator, toured the New

> Forest and Isle

> of Wight, putting up posters asking for help finding

> her.

>

> Miles, who had been sleeping rough in the New

> Forest, rang home

> after recognising herself on a poster.

>

> 'Breathtaking arrogance'

>

> The special needs expert initially denied six

> charges, but later

> changed her plea on two counts to guilty.

>

> Judge Beashel ordered the other four counts to

> lie on file.

>

> He also disqualified her from working with children

> and made a

> sexual offences prevention order banning her from

> sending text

> messages to any boy under 18 who is not a relation,

> or living with

> any boy under 18 to whom she is not related.

>

> Mr Beashel said: " In many ways these offences

> demonstrate

> breathtaking irresponsibility and indeed arrogance

> on your part in

> driving to his home on at least one occasion whilst

> the rest of his

> family were out and having sexual intercourse with

> him there. "

>

> The victim's mother, who cannot be named in case her

> son is

> identified, said outside court: " No amount of

> punishment will ever

> compensate for the ordeal that my son has had to

> endure and is still

> enduring.

>

> " This teacher deceived me into believing that she

> was giving my son

> extra tuition prior to his GCSE exams.

>

> " To then discover that his trust, and mine, was

> significantly abused

> by this teacher was devastating. "

>

September 19, 2005

I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

Jim

I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year old

is over reacting.

john

September 19, 2005

I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

Jim

I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year old

is over reacting.

john

September 19, 2005

Good question, I saw another incident in NJ a few weeks ago and I

thought the same thing. The loss of inhibitions is a much larger

problem than we can comprehend.

Charlie

> I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

>

> Jim

>

> I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year old

> is over reacting.

>

> john

September 19, 2005

Good question, I saw another incident in NJ a few weeks ago and I

thought the same thing. The loss of inhibitions is a much larger

problem than we can comprehend.

Charlie

> I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

>

> Jim

>

> I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year old

> is over reacting.

>

> john

September 20, 2005

I don't believe a loss of inhibitions are the real

issue. I believe that women have come out of the

closet so to say, when it comes to sex, in the past 20

to 30 years. Women are saying they have just as much a

right to sex as men have always had and are not going

to hide the desire or fact anymore.

As far as the teacher and 16 year old boy goes,I

believe his mother did him more harm than the teacher

did (if any at all). I do not condone what she did,

but the boy was just a slow learner, and she was

slapped on the wrist for it as compared to a man. I do

have dual standards in these types of cases.

Are you men worring about a loss of inhibitions in men

or women?

john

--- cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:

> Good question, I saw another incident in NJ a few

> weeks ago and I

> thought the same thing. The loss of inhibitions is a

> much larger

> problem than we can comprehend.

>

> Charlie

>

> > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> old

> > is over reacting.

> >

> > john

>

September 20, 2005

I don't believe a loss of inhibitions are the real

issue. I believe that women have come out of the

closet so to say, when it comes to sex, in the past 20

to 30 years. Women are saying they have just as much a

right to sex as men have always had and are not going

to hide the desire or fact anymore.

As far as the teacher and 16 year old boy goes,I

believe his mother did him more harm than the teacher

did (if any at all). I do not condone what she did,

but the boy was just a slow learner, and she was

slapped on the wrist for it as compared to a man. I do

have dual standards in these types of cases.

Are you men worring about a loss of inhibitions in men

or women?

john

--- cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:

> Good question, I saw another incident in NJ a few

> weeks ago and I

> thought the same thing. The loss of inhibitions is a

> much larger

> problem than we can comprehend.

>

> Charlie

>

> > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> old

> > is over reacting.

> >

> > john

>

September 20, 2005

I don't believe a loss of inhibitions are the real

issue. I believe that women have come out of the

closet so to say, when it comes to sex, in the past 20

to 30 years. Women are saying they have just as much a

right to sex as men have always had and are not going

to hide the desire or fact anymore.

As far as the teacher and 16 year old boy goes,I

believe his mother did him more harm than the teacher

did (if any at all). I do not condone what she did,

but the boy was just a slow learner, and she was

slapped on the wrist for it as compared to a man. I do

have dual standards in these types of cases.

Are you men worring about a loss of inhibitions in men

or women?

john

--- cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:

> Good question, I saw another incident in NJ a few

> weeks ago and I

> thought the same thing. The loss of inhibitions is a

> much larger

> problem than we can comprehend.

>

> Charlie

>

> > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> old

> > is over reacting.

> >

> > john

>

September 20, 2005

I don't believe a loss of inhibitions are the real

issue. I believe that women have come out of the

closet so to say, when it comes to sex, in the past 20

to 30 years. Women are saying they have just as much a

right to sex as men have always had and are not going

to hide the desire or fact anymore.

As far as the teacher and 16 year old boy goes,I

believe his mother did him more harm than the teacher

did (if any at all). I do not condone what she did,

but the boy was just a slow learner, and she was

slapped on the wrist for it as compared to a man. I do

have dual standards in these types of cases.

Are you men worring about a loss of inhibitions in men

or women?

john

--- cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:

> Good question, I saw another incident in NJ a few

> weeks ago and I

> thought the same thing. The loss of inhibitions is a

> much larger

> problem than we can comprehend.

>

> Charlie

>

> > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> old

> > is over reacting.

> >

> > john

>

September 20, 2005

Actually both and I do see it as a very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Actually both and I do see it as a very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Actually both and I do see it as a very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Actually both and I do see it as a very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a

very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a

very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a

very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a

very serious problem.

Charlie

> > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> > >

> > > Jim

> > >

> > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> > old

> > > is over reacting.

> > >

> > > john

> >

September 20, 2005

Charlie,

What I see as a very serious problem are pedifiles. If

the lose of inhibitions can cause this, then it is

also a serious problem.

Just a loss of sexual inhibitions could cause some

very serious complications in ones life, plus guilt in

some cases. In other words, an increase in sex drive

to the point that a person does something they would

not want to do, without the influence of drugs. This

applies to both men and women. The SSRI drugs can

cause this.

john

--- Balsamo <bls3562@...> wrote:

> Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

>

> cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...>

> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a very

> serious problem.

>

> Charlie

>

> > > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is

> on.

> > > >

> > > > Jim

> > > >

> > > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16

> year

> > > old

> > > > is over reacting.

> > > >

> > > > john

> > >

September 20, 2005

Charlie,

What I see as a very serious problem are pedifiles. If

the lose of inhibitions can cause this, then it is

also a serious problem.

Just a loss of sexual inhibitions could cause some

very serious complications in ones life, plus guilt in

some cases. In other words, an increase in sex drive

to the point that a person does something they would

not want to do, without the influence of drugs. This

applies to both men and women. The SSRI drugs can

cause this.

john

--- Balsamo <bls3562@...> wrote:

> Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

>

> cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...>

> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a very

> serious problem.

>

> Charlie

>

> > > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is

> on.

> > > >

> > > > Jim

> > > >

> > > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16

> year

> > > old

> > > > is over reacting.

> > > >

> > > > john

> > >

September 20, 2005

Charlie,

What I see as a very serious problem are pedifiles. If

the lose of inhibitions can cause this, then it is

also a serious problem.

Just a loss of sexual inhibitions could cause some

very serious complications in ones life, plus guilt in

some cases. In other words, an increase in sex drive

to the point that a person does something they would

not want to do, without the influence of drugs. This

applies to both men and women. The SSRI drugs can

cause this.

john

--- Balsamo <bls3562@...> wrote:

> Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

>

> cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...>

> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a very

> serious problem.

>

> Charlie

>

> > > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is

> on.

> > > >

> > > > Jim

> > > >

> > > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16

> year

> > > old

> > > > is over reacting.

> > > >

> > > > john

> > >

September 20, 2005

Charlie,

What I see as a very serious problem are pedifiles. If

the lose of inhibitions can cause this, then it is

also a serious problem.

Just a loss of sexual inhibitions could cause some

very serious complications in ones life, plus guilt in

some cases. In other words, an increase in sex drive

to the point that a person does something they would

not want to do, without the influence of drugs. This

applies to both men and women. The SSRI drugs can

cause this.

john

--- Balsamo <bls3562@...> wrote:

> Where were teachers like that when I was 16?

>

> cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...>

> wrote:Actually both and I do see it as a very

> serious problem.

>

> Charlie

>

> > > > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is

> on.

> > > >

> > > > Jim

> > > >

> > > > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16

> year

> > > old

> > > > is over reacting.

> > > >

> > > > john

> > >

September 20, 2005

,

We have had stories on this group of women doing things on antidepressants

that they would not normally do and later feeling very bad about it. I know

one fellow that was wealthy and doing fine with a stable marriage and a

little Paxil and he kicks his wife of 20 years out the door and changes the

locks, spends all their savings and takes up with a young floozy that was

just along for the ride. Went into debt by hundreds of thousands of dollars

which the wife was terrified she would be responsible for. The guy was a

lawyer and when they went to court he got slaughtered by the court. If he

wasn't acting without inhibitions I bet he wouldn't have dug such a deep

hole for himself. I never did investigate all these women that started

sexual relationships with young boys to see if they were on antidepressants

or some other psych drug but I remember at the time the general idea on the

list was they probably were.

Now I have noticed in the last ten years that young women at bars have

actually startled me with their aggresive sexual advances and these were

middle class kids. There is something to what you say there and while I

don't mind the idea of people being comfortable with their sexuality I have

to say that in every religion that's worth it's salt for eons have put forth

that sexual promiscuity causes all sorts of problems and is not very

pro-survival. Un-wed pregnancy, veneral disease, emotional harm and

especially when people are on drugs, murder. What a perfect way to control

the masses by giving them drugs that either kill the sex drive or make

people do things that are not in their best interest and not anything like

what they would normally do and keep the offspring in foster care owned by

the state, drugged up and out of commission.

Loss of inhibitions means loss of control for me and I don't think anyone

wants to be out of control, especially later when they have to face the

reality they find themselves in.

Jim

I don't believe a loss of inhibitions are the real

issue. I believe that women have come out of the

closet so to say, when it comes to sex, in the past 20

to 30 years. Women are saying they have just as much a

right to sex as men have always had and are not going

to hide the desire or fact anymore.

As far as the teacher and 16 year old boy goes,I

believe his mother did him more harm than the teacher

did (if any at all). I do not condone what she did,

but the boy was just a slow learner, and she was

slapped on the wrist for it as compared to a man. I do

have dual standards in these types of cases.

Are you men worring about a loss of inhibitions in men

or women?

john

--- cdvlcarpenter <cdvlcarpenter@...> wrote:

> Good question, I saw another incident in NJ a few

> weeks ago and I

> thought the same thing. The loss of inhibitions is a

> much larger

> problem than we can comprehend.

>

> Charlie

>

> > I wonder what antidepressant the teacher is on.

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > I believe that the " virgin " mother of the 16 year

> old

> > is over reacting.

> >

> > john

>

September 20, 2005