Avoid Arguments With Silence

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> Avoid Arguments With Silence

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> Be careful not to become involved in quarrels with your friends.

> Arguments will only create distance between you and others.

> The most effective approach to avoid needless arguments is to master

> the ability to remain silent. You don't have to say everything you

> think of saying. At times there is an actual need to clarify a

> specific point and it's appropriate to speak up. But a large

> percentage of arguments come from making comments that don't need to

> be made.

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> (see Rabbi Eliyahu Eliezer Dessler - Michtav MaiEliyahu, vol.4, pp.

> 244-5; Rabbi Pliskin's " Consulting the Wise " )

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