Re: ??? Rob

April 5, 2007

hi Does anyone know if they moved or not?? I know they were talking

about it. Just never heard if they did or not? hope all is well with

him and his family and he checks in soon. If anyone heres post a note.

Sharon Group Owner

>

> What ever happen to Rob, I noticed that he isn't emailing anymore. So

was wondering if any one knew what had happened.

> Hugs, Babs

>

July 17, 2007

thank you Babs!

i'm alive, and ive moved so many times in the past couple of months, and

still don't know where i'm going to end up. i need a place to live. a

place to start over. i have to try and find work i can do. and now im

taking care of the boys on my own. i dont know anything anymore. cant even

get social services figured out yet. there is no up just down, but i

will let you all know how far down the elevator goes when i get there!

still trying to catch up with people. i've missed a lot; but have not

forgotten my fellow group members. hope things are going well for you and

the others. take care

rob

No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or

understands.

>From: " darkstarzz1019 " <darkstarzz1019@...>

>Reply-neck pain

>neck pain

>Subject: Re: ??? Rob

>Date: Fri, 06 Apr 2007 04:13:41 -0000

>

>hi Does anyone know if they moved or not?? I know they were talking

>about it. Just never heard if they did or not? hope all is well with

>him and his family and he checks in soon. If anyone heres post a note.

>Sharon Group Owner

>

> >

> > What ever happen to Rob, I noticed that he isn't emailing anymore. So

>was wondering if any one knew what had happened.

> > Hugs, Babs

> >

July 17, 2007

> > >

> > > What ever happen to Rob, I noticed that he isn't emailing

anymore. So

> >was wondering if any one knew what had happened.

> > > Hugs, Babs

> > >

July 18, 2007

i live in centreville, it's set up thru manassas, and my kids are the

custudy of faquier county, so nobody is responding to me

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understands.

>From: " evelyn airey " <EV9255@...>

>Reply-neck pain

>neck pain

>Subject: Re: ??? Rob

>Date: Tue, 17 Jul 2007 17:09:33 -0000

>

> > > >

> > > > What ever happen to Rob, I noticed that he isn't emailing

>anymore. So

> > >was wondering if any one knew what had happened.

> > > > Hugs, Babs

> > > >

July 18, 2007

Rob,

What cause the medical problems with you. Is there a profile I could read? How

old are your children and do you have any family and where is your wife? What

do you mean that the county has your boys? It sounds like you are having a

horrible time. If you donâ€™t' want to answer, I will understand. I was just

trying to think of a way to help you. What about your church? The wheels in my

mind are spinning. The quote at the end of your messages, I have a feeling that

it means so much more to you than I can imagine. What's your deal with that

message. It sounds like you have been abandoned. I would like to help, but need

to know more in order to do so. Please let me know and if you aren't afraid,

what state are you in? Different states have different laws.

Please let me!!!

Puddin

July 18, 2007

Rob glad your back. Sorry to here of all of your troubles. You

never want to here it or believe it, but as someone who has been

there, you do eventually come out the other side, and there is some

cosmic reason for it all. I don't travel much anymore, but when we

do, we love to go to VA, so maybe we will meet up someday. We

generally stay somewhere in the Shenandoah Valley, from Staunton to

Strassburg, just of Route 81. Last time we went I lost 36 hours in

bed, recovering from the drive down. But I do love VA. I've been

going through my normal insomnia, so I haven't been as

participative. When I get my head straight, I'll catch up on your

post, and say more, but I'm glad your back, and you are in my thoughts. Dave

July 19, 2007

thanks dave. good to hear from you; and if i remember aren't ou helping out

moderating now? anyways i appreciate the email and hoope to stay around a

little longer this time then just poke my head in.

rob

No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or

understands.

>From: Cruikshank <d.cruikshank@...>

>Reply-neck pain

>neck pain

>Subject: RE: Re: ??? Rob

>Date: Thu, 19 Jul 2007 01:13:31 -0400

>

>Rob glad your back. Sorry to here of all of your troubles. You

>never want to here it or believe it, but as someone who has been

>there, you do eventually come out the other side, and there is some

>cosmic reason for it all. I don't travel much anymore, but when we

>do, we love to go to VA, so maybe we will meet up someday. We

>generally stay somewhere in the Shenandoah Valley, from Staunton to

>Strassburg, just of Route 81. Last time we went I lost 36 hours in

>bed, recovering from the drive down. But I do love VA. I've been

>going through my normal insomnia, so I haven't been as

>participative. When I get my head straight, I'll catch up on your

>post, and say more, but I'm glad your back, and you are in my thoughts.

>Dave

>

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July 19, 2007

i live in virginia, and have had 4 back surgeries. my entire lumbar area is

now fused. i had an arguement with my wife. she dumped me out in the

middle of town, and i walked to my brothers. the next day i get a call. my

youngest had got out (3) and the oldest went after him (7) my wife called

the police. they reported it to social services, and they called the

police. if my brother hadnt gone out they would be in some foster home

right now. but my brother who is supposed to be helping me with them.

wont. he will buy me stuff or the kids. but im supposed to watch them in a

new house that isnt child proof for a 3 yr old. they have their own kids

and wont help me with mine even though they are supposed to be. i sound

ungrateful i know, but im not physically fit enough - but if i complain the

state will take them away, i cant finish; im so emotionally/physically

messed up its not funny

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>From: <suzyqq@...>

>Reply-neck pain

>neck pain

>CC: Gehle <robgehle@...>

>Subject: RE: Re: ??? Rob

>Date: Wed, 18 Jul 2007 13:01:27 -0700

>

>Rob,

>What cause the medical problems with you. Is there a profile I could read?

>How old are your children and do you have any family and where is your

>wife? What do you mean that the county has your boys? It sounds like you

>are having a horrible time. If you donâ€™t' want to answer, I will

>understand. I was just trying to think of a way to help you. What about

>your church? The wheels in my mind are spinning. The quote at the end of

>your messages, I have a feeling that it means so much more to you than I

>can imagine. What's your deal with that message. It sounds like you have

>been abandoned. I would like to help, but need to know more in order to do

>so. Please let me know and if you aren't afraid, what state are you in?

>Different states have different laws.

>Please let me!!!

>Puddin

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July 19, 2007

Gosh Rob I'm so sorry to hear about your problems I wished I could help you out

in some way but do know that I'm here for you and pray for you that everything

starts coming together for you.

God Bless,

Ev

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July 19, 2007

Hi Rob,

I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you are having such

troubles! It really isn't fair...nor do you sound ungrateful.

You do sound really overwhelmed and I know that this is not

helping you physically at all...as well the extra physical pain

makes things worse emotionally...and so on and so on...seems like

it is never ending. I'm sure that walk was excrusiating on you, I

think that what has happened is awful. I'm really sorry that life

is so hard, it just is for whatever reason maybe someday things will

make sense. In the meantime, please feel free to talk...we're here

to listen.

{{{HUG}}}

Debbie

>

> i live in virginia, and have had 4 back surgeries. my entire

lumbar area is

> now fused. i had an arguement with my wife. she dumped me out in

the

> middle of town, and i walked to my brothers. the next day i get a

call. my

> youngest had got out (3) and the oldest went after him (7) my wife

called

> the police. they reported it to social services, and they called

the

> police. if my brother hadnt gone out they would be in some foster

home

> right now. but my brother who is supposed to be helping me with

them.

> wont. he will buy me stuff or the kids. but im supposed to watch

them in a

> new house that isnt child proof for a 3 yr old. they have their

own kids

> and wont help me with mine even though they are supposed to be. i

sound

> ungrateful i know, but im not physically fit enough - but if i

complain the

> state will take them away, i cant finish; im so

emotionally/physically

> messed up its not funny

>

> No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no

one cares or

> understands.

>

> >From: <suzyqq@...>

> >Reply-neck pain

> >neck pain

> >CC: Gehle <robgehle@...>

> >Subject: RE: Re: ??? Rob

> >Date: Wed, 18 Jul 2007 13:01:27 -0700

> >

> >Rob,

> >What cause the medical problems with you. Is there a profile I

could read?

> >How old are your children and do you have any family and where

is your

> >wife? What do you mean that the county has your boys? It sounds

like you

> >are having a horrible time. If you donâ€™t' want to answer, I

will

> >understand. I was just trying to think of a way to help you. What

about

> >your church? The wheels in my mind are spinning. The quote at the

end of

> >your messages, I have a feeling that it means so much more to you

than I

> >can imagine. What's your deal with that message. It sounds like

you have

> >been abandoned. I would like to help, but need to know more in

order to do

> >so. Please let me know and if you aren't afraid, what state are

you in?

> >Different states have different laws.

> >Please let me!!!

> >Puddin

>

> _________________________________________________________________

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>

July 19, 2007

thank you debbie

i just want to say to everyone, especially those that were not around when i

was the one being positive and strong for new members, and some old. it

seems i have joined the latter ranks of those that have been dealing with it

for so long that i just can't take it. and you know i had a great wife who

used to believe in me and support me and i used to be shocked by the emails

from those whose significant others were not so understanding of their pain;

but here i sit in their shoes. not only that but im with my brother who

thinks i should be able to chase around a 3 yr old; keep track of the 7 yr

old, and feed cloth, bathe, clean, and look for a friggin job. hes throwing

money into things like my tickets from yrs ago, and offering to buy things

he doesnt really have the money for, but its the emotional support that one

expects from your own family that is lacking. i understand that i changed

his life in a matter of hours; he had to decide upon the spot to take my

children or let them go to foster care, so i do feel for him, but he has

responsibilities to help with them. my son was so excited about his

daughters pool party, and when i said i could not watch scott and gavin in

the water both, but asked if my oldest could go; because he knew about it,

he said no it wasnt his responsiility; he threatened me when i told him it

was. he was like a father to me growing up; cuz my dad left when i was

young and my bro is 10 yrs my senior.

i just wish i was back to giving the positive feed back, but thank you all

so much; like i said especially those who dont even know my whole story. it

feels so good to be back.

rob in va

No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or

understands.

>

>Hi Rob,

>I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you are having such

>troubles! It really isn't fair...nor do you sound ungrateful.

>You do sound really overwhelmed and I know that this is not

>helping you physically at all...as well the extra physical pain

>makes things worse emotionally...and so on and so on...seems like

>it is never ending. I'm sure that walk was excrusiating on you, I

>think that what has happened is awful. I'm really sorry that life

>is so hard, it just is for whatever reason maybe someday things will

>make sense. In the meantime, please feel free to talk...we're here

>to listen.

>{{{HUG}}}

>Debbie

>

> >

> > i live in virginia, and have had 4 back surgeries. my entire

>lumbar area is

> > now fused. i had an arguement with my wife. she dumped me out in

>the

> > middle of town, and i walked to my brothers. the next day i get a

>call. my

> > youngest had got out (3) and the oldest went after him (7) my wife

>called

> > the police. they reported it to social services, and they called

>the

> > police. if my brother hadnt gone out they would be in some foster

>home

> > right now. but my brother who is supposed to be helping me with

>them.

> > wont. he will buy me stuff or the kids. but im supposed to watch

>them in a

> > new house that isnt child proof for a 3 yr old. they have their

>own kids

> > and wont help me with mine even though they are supposed to be. i

>sound

> > ungrateful i know, but im not physically fit enough - but if i

>complain the

> > state will take them away, i cant finish; im so

>emotionally/physically

> > messed up its not funny

> >

> > No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no

>one cares or

> > understands.

> >

> > >From: <suzyqq@...>

> > >Reply-neck pain

> > >neck pain

> > >CC: Gehle <robgehle@...>

> > >Subject: RE: Re: ??? Rob

> > >Date: Wed, 18 Jul 2007 13:01:27 -0700

> > >

> > >Rob,

> > >What cause the medical problems with you. Is there a profile I

>could read?

> > >How old are your children and do you have any family and where

>is your

> > >wife? What do you mean that the county has your boys? It sounds

>like you

> > >are having a horrible time. If you donâ€™t' want to answer, I

>will

> > >understand. I was just trying to think of a way to help you. What

>about

> > >your church? The wheels in my mind are spinning. The quote at the

>end of

> > >your messages, I have a feeling that it means so much more to you

>than I

> > >can imagine. What's your deal with that message. It sounds like

>you have

> > >been abandoned. I would like to help, but need to know more in

>order to do

> > >so. Please let me know and if you aren't afraid, what state are

>you in?

> > >Different states have different laws.

> > >Please let me!!!

> > >Puddin

> >

> > _________________________________________________________________

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> >

>

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July 19, 2007

Rob,

When your wife left you in the middle of town, was she at home with the kids?

Where was she during that time? A house can be made child proof. You just need

some help to do it. Do you have a church you belong to? Most any church would

help if they knew. I am going to talk to my pastor and see if we have any sister

churches in VA. I need to know what town you are in. HOLD ON. I AM PRAYING FOR

YOU AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER. TURN TO GOD EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY FEEL LIKE HE HAS

LET YOU DOWN. HE HAS NOT AND IS WITH YOU. I need to know what town you are in.

You can file for disability. The social service should not take your kids

because you are unable to work, especially with your brother helping you with

finances. You have got gain strength emotionally and mentally. Start by praying

even though you may feel like you don't mean it. I need your town to see if we

have a sister church in that area. Finish your story anyway. It will help you

work through the pain. Start thinking about the things you still have left and

there are many things you still have. I have been through these rough times and

you have got to remember what you do have left. Let me know.

Puddin

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