Guest guest Posted May 17, 2001 Report Share Posted May 17, 2001 I would not allow the school to do this. I would call another meeting and work on academic goals. The IEP is supposed to be COMPLETED (not yelling, just emphasis) at the meeting. You could probably ask for a teacher with more experience as well. Sounds like there were problems with the personnel at your son's school. There are always antecedents to behavior and the school needed to see what was causing it before they determined that the child was the problem. Time to request teacher and staff training in the IEP as well. Elaine help again > dont know if you are aware of my situation. here it is in a nutshell. my > 16yr old son with ds had been having behavior probs at school the last six > weeks. we took him for a 2nd opinion to a phychiatrist who put him on > seroquel and then increased it. his bad behavior escalated and he was > suspended. now we have a bip in place and all is going better. we are also > on diff meds. heres the deal. we went to new school for iep for next year > and all the " team " did was discuss his bad behavior on how they were going to > deal with it. they dont seem to think that the old school is in anyway > responsible for him acting out. i am not so sure. they dont want to set > academic goals until the behavior is under control. the look on his new > teachers face was one of total ....., cant find the word but scared out of > her mind sounds about right. my husband and i feel they are dwelling on > this. he has been in school for 13yrs and never had a prob until now. they > are judging him on the last two months. anyway, our hope is that the > behavior will not be an issue in the fall because this school is better able > to meet his needs. he will be with others that function more at his level. > he will also be in a contained room all day instead of mainstreaming a couple > times a day. we felt he was getting frustrated and there was no way he could > succeed. > anyway, i am looking for input as to why he may of started acting out. all > is the same at home. i have a very close loving family and we have a great > home life. i will be printing some of your responses to take with us to the > next meeting. > > any and all help is appreciated!! > > kerrie mom to ben 16ds and alex 13 nds > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2004 Report Share Posted December 2, 2004 Adore, If you will post your recipe, I am sure that someone could try to help you with the problem. It's hard to tell one what to do to correct a problem, without knowing how you got to where you are. I have mostly heard of folks having the trouble of liquid soap being too thick....not too thin. ?? Sorry I can't be of more help at this time. Candy help again > > > > does ne 1 know what i can i use 2 thicken a liquid soap? -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2004 Report Share Posted December 2, 2004 Adore, If you will post your recipe, I am sure that someone could try to help you with the problem. It's hard to tell one what to do to correct a problem, without knowing how you got to where you are. I have mostly heard of folks having the trouble of liquid soap being too thick....not too thin. ?? Sorry I can't be of more help at this time. Candy help again > > > > does ne 1 know what i can i use 2 thicken a liquid soap? -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 thank you so much sandi, that is exactly what i need to do. i forget everything it seems as soon as i step into the doctors office. im going to start today; right now even. thank you. i have another problem. when i went to my first pain appointment. i told him that i was taking x amount of pain pills a day. and that it did not totally help me through out the day. he was concerned about the amount and that it did not relieve all of my pain. he then wrote me a prescription for same meds and told me to lower my daily doses, i also got a shot in my lower back area. before i was taking too many - my prescriptions did not last as long as they were supposed too. now to make them last i get one dose a day, and the rest of the day is misery. what do i do? i know that there are better meds, meds designed for people with an opiate tolerance, but i was told i would have to choose when i wanted to feel better. it took me almost 2 months to get an appointment with him, and there are not many pain management doctors in my area. there are a lot of articles about " dea this " and " cracking down on that " on the internet for my area. what do i do? how do i make him understand? i am at my wits end, the mental battle isnt going well at all. i hope this email doesnt violate any rules, i am not trying to get names of meds i know them, i dont want ideas on how to get more, i just want to know how to explain to him the pain i am in so that he gets it. please, i just dont know what to do anymore. this has been going on for so long and my family is suffering almost as much as i am because of it. thank you for listening, sorry for whining. rob >From: " skcritters " <skcritters@...> >Reply-neck pain >neck pain >Subject: Re: ill try again >Date: Thu, 15 Dec 2005 14:27:00 -0000 > >Hi there Rob!! > >As I am sure you remember, I had a multi-level fusion of my neck in >April of this year. I have found it very helpful to keep a tablet >with me at ALL TIMES. When I am really hurting, I write down >specifically where and how the pain feels (stabbing, burning, etc.) >along with the date/time and any activities I can think of I had >done in the past 12 hrs. > >I also jot down any questions that " pop " into my head in a different >section. Yet in another section, I write down things that I have >found of interest either on this board (which are many) or on other >websites. I also print out articles that I find on other sites. > >Luckly for me, my surgeon is very experienced, smart and has the >patience of a Saint. He is the head of the head/neck orthopedic >surgery at a major teaching university in Philadelphia, so he is >indeed very buisy but firmly believes in taking the time to >understand his patients and their situation. My " notepad/journal " >was his suggestion so when he asks me " how have you been feeling " , I >can refer to the journal and be able to tell him. I find it >difficult to remember exactly how the pain felt on the " really bad >days " let alone what kinds of things I had done in the few hours >prior to it. My follow-up visits are now about every 7 weeks. > >I also jot down notes from our visit. Not sure if you would find >doing this helpful, but thought I would share. > >Today I feel like I have been run over by a truck. I live close to >Philadelphia, PA and they are calling for some nasty winter weather >this afternoon. I don't have to watch the news to know when the >storms are comming, my body certainly lets me know. > >Best wishes to everyone! > >Sandi > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > > Don't just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! > > http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's FREE! http://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 , sorry you are going through so much. It is hard to get some doctors to listen. I have tried everything to ease the pain in my back and neck. But honestly the most pain meds do is duh the pain. I have yet to find anything that takes the pain completely away. I have learned the hard way to listen to my body and I rest when the levels are up. It is getting harder for me to walk. I told in 2000 that I would eventually be in a wheel chair as my DDD and stenosis and spondylosis progressed in my back.. I don't know if you go to a pain management doctor or not. But when I went to a back specialist in Atlanta I was told that surgery would not help and It was best to start going to a pain management doctor. Any way pain management drs are more suited to deal with the pain. Hugs and Prayers, Babs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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