Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 I feel so sorry for you. Life is full of sadness. My son went through this too. Although he seemed bounce back quickly, he remembers everything everything about the surgery. It is painful for the kids but even worse for us. Take good care of your little one and yourself. Good luck. Yan --- tahoetreefort <tahoetreefort@...> wrote: > Hi, > > My just turned six year old will be going in to > surgery on Saturday. > She had her last surgery on 6/13/06, massive > cholesteatoma. We've been > doing CT scans every six months and her last one in > Dec. showed a 4mm > growth. The doc says it will take about 2 hours as > she has a cochlear > implant and has to work very delicately around that. > A normal person > would only take about 1/2 hour. Last time she was in > the hospital for > four days (after nine hours of surgery)! Any input > on what we can > expect recovery wise this time? I feel so sad for > her, this will be her > third surgery and I know how quick kids bounce back, > but it doesn't > make it any easier. > > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. http://tc.deals./tc/blockbuster/text5.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2008 Report Share Posted April 10, 2008 Hi - My heart goes out to you and your little one - from aged 6 to 20 I had 12 ear surgeries then a couple more for tubes inserted in my 40's and now at 50 I am going in for my 2nd c-toma - after this one I will need hearing aids . My advice is to be brave for your little one as she will look to you for strength and as a Mom it is so hard not to worry over everything. I am sure your daughter is a very brave little girl having had so many hospital visits. After reading some of the posts on this group I feel very fortunate as I had near normal hearing for almost 25 years - I know my story could have been much worse. Kinds regards, Re: Surgery Again I feel so sorry for you. Life is full of sadness. Myson went through this too. Although he seemed bounceback quickly, he remembers everything everything aboutthe surgery. It is painful for the kids but even worsefor us. Take good care of your little one andyourself. Good luck.Yan--- tahoetreefort <tahoetreefort> wrote:> Hi,> > My just turned six year old will be going in to> surgery on Saturday. > She had her last surgery on 6/13/06, massive> cholesteatoma. We've been > doing CT scans every six months and her last one in> Dec. showed a 4mm > growth. The doc says it will take about 2 hours as> she has a cochlear > implant and has to work very delicately around that.> A normal person > would only take about 1/2 hour. Last time she was in> the hospital for > four days (after nine hours of surgery)! Any input> on what we can > expect recovery wise this time? I feel so sad for> her, this will be her > third surgery and I know how quick kids bounce back,> but it doesn't > make it any easier.> > > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _You rock. That's why Blockbuster' s offering you one month of Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. http://tc.deals. / tc/blockbuster/ text5.com __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2008 Report Share Posted April 10, 2008 For All- God has given the beautiful organ of Hearing, but has made its anatomy and functioning so complicated, that any operting surgeon should feel HIS presence as Super Power. For -Sorry to know that such a tiny girl had to under go such a prolonged surgery. If the cholesteatoma is in the top portion of ear (Attic) it remains active there for months before extending down to reach the Incus and Stapes. If C-toma is in the postero superior part then it quickly destroys the long process of incus to disrupt the conduction mechanism. Long process of incus is highly vulnerable to necrosis, may be due to por blood supply extending to tip. C-toma has to be removed or it will disrupt the electrode of Coch-Implant, but it will be months and years to do so. So do not worry the results will be good. Surgeon ALWAYS tries to do his/ her best because his reputation & career is at stake, but there are always limitation to medical science. Arun On 4/9/08, tahoetreefort <tahoetreefort@...> wrote: Hi,My just turned six year old will be going in to surgery on Saturday. She had her last surgery on 6/13/06, massive cholesteatoma. We've been doing CT scans every six months and her last one in Dec. showed a 4mm growth. The doc says it will take about 2 hours as she has a cochlear implant and has to work very delicately around that. A normal person would only take about 1/2 hour. Last time she was in the hospital for four days (after nine hours of surgery)! Any input on what we can expect recovery wise this time? I feel so sad for her, this will be her third surgery and I know how quick kids bounce back, but it doesn't make it any easier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2009 Report Share Posted January 9, 2009 eenie meenie minee mo....which joint is next to go? I wish I may I wish I might know the answer that will be right! Last May, after a few days of horrible pain stopping me in my tracks.....for me that means I could'nt go shopping or when I did I had to cut the trip short, I called my?-at that time-?ortho surgeon. After looking at my hip xrays it was decided my 16 year old hip replacements needed some revision. The left, which he said was worse, would go first and surgery was scheduled for June 19th. As many of you know that didn't come to be. I went to the hospital that morning. The anesthesia team came in the room to talk with me of their plans. After seeing my limited neck movement and mouth opening they seemed a bit bewildered and honestly put?alot of?fear in me. The attempt to intubate was made, but failed with poor results for me. Short of death, I was admitted to the hospital due to the torture committed to my body, leaving me with bloody fluid in my lungs. After 3 days I was released and left to plot for another attempt. I rescheduled for July 17th but with my hip feeling fine and being very skeptic I cancelled and never rescheduled. Imagine that! One of the reasons for my skepticism was not that my doctor had insisted on a revision of the left hip but that he wouldn't listen to me when I said repeatedly my left knee hurts. AND it hurt bad all the time and left me unable to do my favorite pastimes, window shop at the local malls and go for walks at my favorite parks. Worse than that it would wake me at night, make me stand 3 minutes on the left leg before I could even think of putting the right leg to the floor. Then seveal minutes of " whoa, wow and please " followed but eventually the foot made it to the floor, I could walk and the knee allowed me 30 - 60 minutes of walk time before saying sit the hell down but don't sit for more than 15 because the procedure would start again. Left leg first......the best I could get was an injection of steroid in the knee and let me say, those don't feel good, last only a little while, and?then the ritual starts again. Pain, injection, feel good, thenz back to pain....you get the picture. I had 8 injections in about 4 years but not one xray. Why did I not say anything or do anything is because I thought the doc knew what he was doing yet, I knew better. The peculiar thing is, prior to my June 19 attempt at hip revision I told family and friends I didn't understand how the right knee was going to see me through the rehab of a left hip revision. I was very concerned about this. Now, as I look back , I once again can say things happen for a reason........... Two months ago, I was reduced to taking the demonic prednisone dose pack?to see if it could help my knee and it did until I went off of it. Last week I could not take anymore and played with the decision what ortho do I call? My old ortho who now has as his assistant my very old ortho. My very old ortho was my doc from time of diagnosis in 1970 until his retirement a few years ago. Damn him....to leave me like that! Well he is back on?a part time basis and only assist in surgeries but hey, he is back and he knows me and knows me well. He did my original bi lateral hip surgery in 1993 as well as all of my other ortho surgeries. It didnt take me long to decide to go see my old and very old orthos for a second opinion, if you will. I told Tony before we went into the orthos office to not say anything about my failed hip revision because when I made the?appointment phone call I told them my knees and hips were bothering me. My hips were 16 years old and needed to be looked at anyway. Upon arrival I was escorted to the wonderfully hard and cold xray table for what was a trip of curiousity and hopefully a resolution. With anticipation I waited for what is now, once again, my ortho to come in and go over the xrays. Tony and I both were wondering what the conclusion would be and hoped for an answer to what was causing me to hurt. Was it the hip(s) making the knee(s) hurt or vice versa or was it just sciatica??The doc?looked at the hips first and his first 'make-my-jaw' drop comment was, " the hips do not look that bad but eventually will need some revising " . I looked at Tony, Tony looked at me and I said " which one appears to be the worst? " , like I didn't know. His response, which is what I thought, was, " the right hip is a little more worn and has some wearing that has created cysts and will likely need to go before the left " . WOW... less than a year ago it was the left! What the hell???? Ok so lets move on to the knees....... " Hmm " , he said, " the right knee is hurting alot " . No crap doc thats why I am here!! Bone on Bone, no cartilage, leaning to one side and will not come close to being straight, the doc says it needs to be replaced. Wow, can ya believe that? I knew all along even back last June it was the Rt Knee not the left hip and for this reason I postponed and postponed the hip revision. Needless to say I have shook my head alot the last few days and I have been telling myself what I have always known.... I do know my body and its alarm system better than any doc on this planet. I listened to my intuition and did not have the revision and I did follow my knees plea to call the old ortho. Medicine is a science and it is just that that it not always a given nor is it always correct but I believe the intuition the resides in us all is sometimes the best alert system we have, so follow that and precede, which is what I am doing. Although, I am still a bit confused by it all, I have a sense of satisfaction and on February 16 I will start my bodies repair work by having a new right knee put in which I know will put me back in the malls and back on my walks in the park. I know the road will be long because I also know eventually?the left knee will need replaced? along with the hip revisions but at least for now I feel I am on the right road..... A Good Credit Score is 700 or Above. See yours in just 2 easy steps! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2009 Report Share Posted January 9, 2009 Donna, although last June was terrifying, it seems God was sparing you from a surgery you should not have had....so that now you may have the surgery you truly need. We will be praying for you that all goes smoothly and after your recovery, you will be able to begin enjoying your walks in the park and the malls. You are such an inspiration to all of us on the JRA group. Please keep us up to date at the time nears and when you have your surgery. We will be praying for your health, surgery, and recovery. You are in our thoughts and prayers, & (18, poly, pidd, hashimotos) From: ajaoky@... <ajaoky@...> Subject: surgery again ajao_young_adults , Date: Friday, January 9, 2009, 9:57 AM eenie meenie minee mo....which joint is next to go? I wish I may I wish I might know the answer that will be right! Last May, after a few days of horrible pain stopping me in my tracks.....for me that means I could'nt go shopping or when I did I had to cut the trip short, I called my?-at that time-?ortho surgeon. After looking at my hip xrays it was decided my 16 year old hip replacements needed some revision. The left, which he said was worse, would go first and surgery was scheduled for June 19th. As many of you know that didn't come to be. I went to the hospital that morning. The anesthesia team came in the room to talk with me of their plans. After seeing my limited neck movement and mouth opening they seemed a bit bewildered and honestly put?alot of?fear in me. The attempt to intubate was made, but failed with poor results for me. Short of death, I was admitted to the hospital due to the torture committed to my body, leaving me with bloody fluid in my lungs. After 3 days I was released and left to plot for another attempt. I rescheduled for July 17th but with my hip feeling fine and being very skeptic I cancelled and never rescheduled. Imagine that! One of the reasons for my skepticism was not that my doctor had insisted on a revision of the left hip but that he wouldn't listen to me when I said repeatedly my left knee hurts. AND it hurt bad all the time and left me unable to do my favorite pastimes, window shop at the local malls and go for walks at my favorite parks. Worse than that it would wake me at night, make me stand 3 minutes on the left leg before I could even think of putting the right leg to the floor. Then seveal minutes of " whoa, wow and please " followed but eventually the foot made it to the floor, I could walk and the knee allowed me 30 - 60 minutes of walk time before saying sit the hell down but don't sit for more than 15 because the procedure would start again. Left leg first......the best I could get was an injection of steroid in the knee and let me say, those don't feel good, last only a little while, and?then the ritual starts again. Pain, injection, feel good, thenz back to pain....you get the picture. I had 8 injections in about 4 years but not one xray. Why did I not say anything or do anything is because I thought the doc knew what he was doing yet, I knew better. The peculiar thing is, prior to my June 19 attempt at hip revision I told family and friends I didn't understand how the right knee was going to see me through the rehab of a left hip revision. I was very concerned about this. Now, as I look back , I once again can say things happen for a reason...... ...... Two months ago, I was reduced to taking the demonic prednisone dose pack?to see if it could help my knee and it did until I went off of it. Last week I could not take anymore and played with the decision what ortho do I call? My old ortho who now has as his assistant my very old ortho. My very old ortho was my doc from time of diagnosis in 1970 until his retirement a few years ago. Damn him....to leave me like that! Well he is back on?a part time basis and only assist in surgeries but hey, he is back and he knows me and knows me well. He did my original bi lateral hip surgery in 1993 as well as all of my other ortho surgeries. It didnt take me long to decide to go see my old and very old orthos for a second opinion, if you will. I told Tony before we went into the orthos office to not say anything about my failed hip revision because when I made the?appointment phone call I told them my knees and hips were bothering me. My hips were 16 years old and needed to be looked at anyway. Upon arrival I was escorted to the wonderfully hard and cold xray table for what was a trip of curiousity and hopefully a resolution. With anticipation I waited for what is now, once again, my ortho to come in and go over the xrays. Tony and I both were wondering what the conclusion would be and hoped for an answer to what was causing me to hurt. Was it the hip(s) making the knee(s) hurt or vice versa or was it just sciatica??The doc?looked at the hips first and his first 'make-my-jaw' drop comment was, " the hips do not look that bad but eventually will need some revising " . I looked at Tony, Tony looked at me and I said " which one appears to be the worst? " , like I didn't know. His response, which is what I thought, was, " the right hip is a little more worn and has some wearing that has created cysts and will likely need to go before the left " . WOW... less than a year ago it was the left! What the hell???? Ok so lets move on to the knees....... " Hmm " , he said, " the right knee is hurting alot " . No crap doc thats why I am here!! Bone on Bone, no cartilage, leaning to one side and will not come close to being straight, the doc says it needs to be replaced. Wow, can ya believe that? I knew all along even back last June it was the Rt Knee not the left hip and for this reason I postponed and postponed the hip revision. Needless to say I have shook my head alot the last few days and I have been telling myself what I have always known.... I do know my body and its alarm system better than any doc on this planet. I listened to my intuition and did not have the revision and I did follow my knees plea to call the old ortho. Medicine is a science and it is just that that it not always a given nor is it always correct but I believe the intuition the resides in us all is sometimes the best alert system we have, so follow that and precede, which is what I am doing. Although, I am still a bit confused by it all, I have a sense of satisfaction and on February 16 I will start my bodies repair work by having a new right knee put in which I know will put me back in the malls and back on my walks in the park. I know the road will be long because I also know eventually?the left knee will need replaced? along with the hip revisions but at least for now I feel I am on the right road..... A Good Credit Score is 700 or Above. See yours in just 2 easy steps! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2009 Report Share Posted January 14, 2009 i was glued to this post because i've wanted so badly to write about the same thing. you did an awesome job of writing the whole long story...and kept it readable. thank you so much for stepping up to the soapbox and spreading this info. that so many people need to know and understand in order to be their own advocates and guardians. kudos. ~osh > > > eenie meenie minee mo....which joint is next to go? I wish I may I wish I might know the answer that will be right! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2009 Report Share Posted January 15, 2009 Donna, When are you going in for Surgery? Robbin **************A Good Credit Score is 700 or Above. See yours in just 2 easy steps! (http://pr.atwola.com/promoclk/100000075x1215855013x1201028747/aol?redir=http://\ www.freecreditreport.com/pm/default.aspx?sc=668072%26hmpgID=62%26bcd=De cemailfooterNO62) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 16, 2009 Report Share Posted January 16, 2009 Thank you Osh! as hard as it is to know whats right vs what the docs say?vs what?your own body says I believe it is so important to hear the doc, step back a minute, listen to your heart, your head and of course your achy joints and then make the most informed decision you can and always, always educate yourself by talking to others who have been there and done that. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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