Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 In a message dated 8/9/01 8:25:12 PM Eastern Daylight Time, Viligidiot@... writes: > she had earmarked those funds for her son's education and to also help the > other son and his wife. She really doesn't want to take the money from > them > for herself, though I told her she is definately worth it. > > I bet given the choice they would rather have mom alive then the money! Busching Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 > In a message dated 8/9/01 8:25:12 PM Eastern Daylight Time, > Viligidiot@a... writes: > > > > she had earmarked those funds for her son's education and to also help the > > other son and his wife. She really doesn't want to take the money from > > them > > for herself, though I told her she is definately worth it. > > > > > > I bet given the choice they would rather have mom alive then the money! > > Busching > , I was going to say the exact same thing. My mom's weight is climbing and climbing. She was about 140 when I had surgery 5 months ago, and is about 185 now. She lost 100 lbs last year and is slowly gaining it back. I told her to consider having the MGB, but doesn't think she'll qualify right now. I thought to myself that in a few months she will. I would certainly rather her spend every penny of my " inheretence " and get healthy than go on with her yo-yo dieting. manda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Thanks ! Wow they agreed to pay for any complications? That is rare....I'm forwarding your letter so she can think about this! THANKS in Ark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 , I really feel for your friend and went through the same thing with my husband's company. They DID agree to pay for any complications which was agreat relief. I went ahead and self paid and I have NEVER regretted my decision, even though I will probably have to self pay for a revision. I have lost 100 pounds, stopped losing and have another 100 to go. So just promise her that God will open up a way. He always does. I knew it would be worth it and my entire family agrees it WAS! So what if I drive my car longer or whatever. There IS a way. V Prayers please My friend, , who will be coming to the picnic with us, needs some positive prayers sent her way. She has been fighting her insurance company for this surgery for months now. She has been denied and put together an appeal packet that should have insured ANY company would cover her, but her husband's company is self insured and just said " If it is NOT life threatening, it isn't covered " . No matter what she has done to prove that obesity in itself is life threatening, they counter with " nope not life threatening still " . She has a terrible, terrible ankle which she's has surgery on that hurts her whenever she stands too long or walks on it, high blood pressure, hypertension and a knee that also gives her great pain and that she has also had surgery on after an accident. None of this matters to them. She is 317 and in great pain and they will not help her. Please pray for her. She is very down after having a terrible day and then hearing that they still are refusing her. She is actually in the position that she can pay for the surgery herself with some money that was left to her by her father upon his death last year, but she had earmarked those funds for her son's education and to also help the other son and his wife. She really doesn't want to take the money from them for herself, though I told her she is definately worth it. So please pray for her. Pray that the company will change their minds or that the road will be clear to her as to should she or shouldn't she self pay. She is also afraid that if she self pays and something goes wrong, it would ruin the family financially. Thanks in Ark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 I will pray that will feel a clear and concise answer from God what his will is in her life concerning surgery and how to pay for it. I know it is a tough decision when you have to self pay. I ended up self paying also after fighting my insurance company. I am actually still fighting them. I found a website that tries to help get your insurance to cover your claims so I have contacted them and they are trying to help me. For myself the decision to self pay was a hard one but not one that I am sorry I made. My husband has been very supportive in all of this also, which has helped tremendously. Let your friend know that we are all praying for her. Bonded by our experience, strength and hope Rhonda MGB - 11/30/00 279/203/1?? > My friend, , who will be coming to the picnic with us, needs some > positive prayers sent her way. > > She has been fighting her insurance company for this surgery for months now. > She has been denied and put together an appeal packet that should have > insured ANY company would cover her, but her husband's company is self > insured and just said " If it is NOT life threatening, it isn't covered " . No > matter what she has done to prove that obesity in itself is life threatening, > they counter with " nope not life threatening still " . She has a terrible, > terrible ankle which she's has surgery on that hurts her whenever she stands > too long or walks on it, high blood pressure, hypertension and a knee that > also gives her great pain and that she has also had surgery on after an > accident. None of this matters to them. She is 317 and in great pain and > they will not help her. > > Please pray for her. She is very down after having a terrible day and then > hearing that they still are refusing her. > > She is actually in the position that she can pay for the surgery herself with > some money that was left to her by her father upon his death last year, but > she had earmarked those funds for her son's education and to also help the > other son and his wife. She really doesn't want to take the money from them > for herself, though I told her she is definately worth it. > > So please pray for her. Pray that the company will change their minds or > that the road will be clear to her as to should she or shouldn't she self > pay. She is also afraid that if she self pays and something goes wrong, it > would ruin the family financially. > > Thanks > in Ark > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Rhonda, What's that website you mentioned? Best, Jon in Tuscaloosa MGB 11/22/00 263/170(?)/150 > > My friend, , who will be coming to the picnic with us, needs > some > > positive prayers sent her way. > > > > She has been fighting her insurance company for this surgery for > months now. > > She has been denied and put together an appeal packet that should > have > > insured ANY company would cover her, but her husband's company is > self > > insured and just said " If it is NOT life threatening, it isn't > covered " . No > > matter what she has done to prove that obesity in itself is life > threatening, > > they counter with " nope not life threatening still " . She has a > terrible, > > terrible ankle which she's has surgery on that hurts her whenever > she stands > > too long or walks on it, high blood pressure, hypertension and a > knee that > > also gives her great pain and that she has also had surgery on > after an > > accident. None of this matters to them. She is 317 and in great > pain and > > they will not help her. > > > > Please pray for her. She is very down after having a terrible day > and then > > hearing that they still are refusing her. > > > > She is actually in the position that she can pay for the surgery > herself with > > some money that was left to her by her father upon his death last > year, but > > she had earmarked those funds for her son's education and to also > help the > > other son and his wife. She really doesn't want to take the money > from them > > for herself, though I told her she is definately worth it. > > > > So please pray for her. Pray that the company will change their > minds or > > that the road will be clear to her as to should she or shouldn't > she self > > pay. She is also afraid that if she self pays and something goes > wrong, it > > would ruin the family financially. > > > > Thanks > > in Ark > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 has my prayers. This is a wonderful, wonderful, operation for those who are in desperate need of it. I know that it has saved my life. She has my prayers. MGB 2/26/01 276/205 ________________________________________________________________ GET INTERNET ACCESS FROM JUNO! Juno offers FREE or PREMIUM Internet access for less! Join Juno today! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 Hi Karma, It breaks my heart to learn of 's very untimely death and very, very short life!!! I will most certainly pray for and her husband, that God will comfort them in this time of great spiritual and emotional trials in their lives!! Please tell them that for me!!! Do and her husband have any other children? I am really sorry that they lost , but I am sure that is much better off where he is now. At least he won't have to live and suffer from congenital heart disease, which I am certain would have eventually gotten worse if he had lived to adulthood!!!! I am so very sorry!!! Thank you so much for telling us about little Jerad " s passing and for asking all of us to pray for his parents!!! Where one or more are gathered, Jesus is surely among them, so our collective prayer will do much for and her husband I am sure. Karma Tucker wrote: >Hi Everyone, >I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had him fixed, apparently not. > >Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > >Sincerely, >Karma > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 You have my prayers for this couple. How sad they lost their first child. _________________________________________________________________ Don’t just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out to them- > > Hi Everyone, > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had him fixed, apparently not. > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > Sincerely, > Karma > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Karma My prayers with them also for such a sad loss! Blessings R Re: Prayers Please Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out to them- > > Hi Everyone, > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had him fixed, apparently not. > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > Sincerely, > Karma > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Prayers from me too, Karma. My sister and I have both lost babies and I can tell you it's a hard, hard thing. Please tell her that another mother who has gone through losing a little one is praying for her and sending her and her family love. Melinda Re: Prayers Please Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out to them- > > Hi Everyone, > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had him fixed, apparently not. > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > Sincerely, > Karma > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Another thought - - a lot of well meaning folks tend to minimize the loss when it's an infant. Your dear friend really needs to have her loss recognized and just to know that someone is there to talk to her if she needs to talk . . . it's a very empty feeling . . . Melinda ( Re: Prayers Please Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out to them- > > Hi Everyone, > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had him fixed, apparently not. > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > Sincerely, > Karma > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Hi Melinda, I am so sorry to learn that you, too, have lost a baby!!! How long ago was that? I wonder, Melinda, do you ever wonder what would have happened if your child had lived? What kind of a person would your child be today? I have never had children, but I often wonder if women who have lost their babies live with the wonderment of how their late children would have turned out had they lived!!! Please, Melinda, if this question is too painful for you, don't force yourself to answer it. If you tell me that you don't want to answer it, then I will surely understand!!! Love always, Pat The Family wrote: >Prayers from me too, Karma. My sister and I have both lost babies and I can tell you it's a hard, hard thing. Please tell her that another mother who has gone through losing a little one is praying for her and sending her and her family love. > >Melinda > Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 I think that when a baby dies the loss should be maximized, and not minimized!!! When an adult dies, even if that adult is young rather than old, that is the more normal thing, but when an INFANT dies, I think that THAT is a real tragedy!!! Don't you agree, Melinda????? Love always, Pat The Family wrote: >Another thought - - a lot of well meaning folks tend to minimize the loss when it's an infant. Your dear friend really needs to have her loss recognized and just to know that someone is there to talk to her if she needs to talk . . . it's a very empty feeling . . . > >Melinda ( > Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 So sorry Melinda That has to be so divesting Blessings R Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Hi, Pat, It was 20 years ago this past June. Yes, I sometimes wonder what she would have been like, what kinds of things she would have done, what her personality would have been, even what she would look like now had she lived. Actually, I appreciate it that you asked. So often, I think people are afraid to talk about the loss of a baby to someone thinking it will be more painful. For the mom, it actually validates that child's existence and the mother's very private mourning. Not that other family members don't grieve, but I think this loss is especially hard for the mommies. We buried my sister's baby girl during the time I was pregnant with our youngest son Brock. Her sister-in-law was also pregnant then. I know it made it particularly difficult for my sister. We've both of course had children since, but we share a special bond because of what we've both been through. You know, that sister was the one who was at the hospital with me when I was at risk of losing Brock to premature delivery. She came in and spent time in the NICU with him, not knowing that she, too, was again pregnant. We both have beautiful children now and thank God for them. But, we'll always miss the little ones we lost. Love, Melinda ) Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Yes, it doesn't matter if a person lived 9 days or 90 years, the loss is still profound to someone. It comforts me to know that each lived their lifetime and God knows our lifetimes and what they'll be before we're ever born. Love, Melinda Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Thank you, - it was devastating, but by the grace of God, you learn to live with it. I've gained so many things I wouldn't have had otherwise. It really softened me and gave me a heart of compassion for others. Love, Melinda Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2006 Report Share Posted August 16, 2006 Praise the lord for caring you through Blessings r Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2006 Report Share Posted August 16, 2006 Thanks for the tears of joy and the bond of your sister. God is good R Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2006 Report Share Posted August 16, 2006 Hello Karma, I am so sorry to hear about 's baby. Nothing could be more devastating that to lose a child. His birthday is only 2 days after my little Great Grandson, so I can relate more than you can imagine to what it feels like to have that much love in your heart for a little one. My heart is aching for her and her family. I will continue to offers prayers for them for a long time to come. Thank you for sharing this with us. I feel honored to be asked to pray for anyone, but this is especially important. Be Healthy and take good care, Rashelle Harness the Powerful Benefits of Oxygen with LifeLift. Oxygen burns fat, tones muscles, reduces stress Be healthier with each breath you take with LifeLift www.oxygenlift.net. LifeLift is the Original Aerobic Breathing Prayers Please Hi Everyone, I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had him fixed, apparently not. Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. Sincerely, Karma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2006 Report Share Posted August 16, 2006 Hello Melinda, Bless you. Your message touched my heart. Thanks for sharing something so personal and so painful with us. We never know how many others are hurting this same way. Sharing your story may help to heal someone else's heart. Thank you for always being so open and caring. Be Healthy and take good care, Rashelle Harness the Powerful Benefits of Oxygen with LifeLift. Oxygen burns fat, tones muscles, reduces stress Be healthier with each breath you take with LifeLift www.oxygenlift.net. LifeLift is the Original Aerobic Breathing Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2006 Report Share Posted August 16, 2006 Thank you, ! Yes, Praise HIm! Melinda ) Re: Prayers Please > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > to them- > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > Sincerely, > > Karma > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2006 Report Share Posted August 19, 2006 Hi Melinda, I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to answer this message that you sent me. I read it days ago as soon as it came into my inbox and have been thinking of you in a special way ever since. I have been feeling guilty that I didn't answer this message from you immediately, and certainly were not trying to neglect you. It's just that I was really busy offline. So, here I am now, days after you wrote this message to me, and now, finally, I am answering it. I am so glad that I made you feel validated when I asked you this question and that I helped you get many things of your chest that maybe you had wanted to say for so long, but were afraid to do so. I am so sorry that you lost a baby when she was an infant, and that you never got to know your daughter and she never got to know you, but I am telling you Melinda, darling, that I know that your daughter is up in Heave and that she has been there these 20 years looking down on you and on her father with love in her heart for both of you. I know that she has been protecting you and her father that you will both be reunited with her some day!!!! Her spirit has been with you over the past two decades and will be with you for all eternity, and I never want you to forget that very, very important FACT!!! Yes, that is a FACT and not just a mere BELIEF!!!! I really do FEEL so sad for what happend to your baby and your sister's baby, but I am glad that you both went on to have other children. It must be such a sad thing to know that you had a child that died before she ever really had a chance to live!!! I really don't know how any woman could ever REALLY heal from something like that. I am 55 years old, have never married, and have never had children, either my own or adopted ones, and I do feel very sad for women who have gone through what you and your sister have gone through, but I really and truly look up to you and your sister, and to all other women who have lost their babies in their infancy. I commend each and every one of you for having gone on with your lives despite your very great sorrow!!!! I am wondering if you and your sister have ever thought about going into some kind of a lay ministry for the solace and care of women who have been through the loss of their own babies. It might be something that you might consider doing with your sister in the future. I have something to share with you, Melinda, and I promise that I will send you an email at your personal email address soon. I have some information that you might be inerested in and some links that you might like to follow up on. I will send you a personal email soon, as I say. May God bless you and your sister most richly now and always, Melinda, and thank you so much for having shared your most personal loss with all of us on this wonderful Life Lift list!!!! Love always, Pat The Family wrote: >Hi, Pat, > >It was 20 years ago this past June. Yes, I sometimes wonder what she would have been like, what kinds of things she would have done, what her personality would have been, even what she would look like now had she lived. Actually, I appreciate it that you asked. So often, I think people are afraid to talk about the loss of a baby to someone thinking it will be more painful. For the mom, it actually validates that child's existence and the mother's very private mourning. Not that other family members don't grieve, but I think this loss is especially hard for the mommies. > >We buried my sister's baby girl during the time I was pregnant with our youngest son Brock. Her sister-in-law was also pregnant then. I know it made it particularly difficult for my sister. We've both of course had children since, but we share a special bond because of what we've both been through. You know, that sister was the one who was at the hospital with me when I was at risk of losing Brock to premature delivery. She came in and spent time in the NICU with him, not knowing that she, too, was again pregnant. We both have beautiful children now and thank God for them. But, we'll always miss the little ones we lost. > >Love, > >Melinda ) > > > Re: Prayers Please > > > > Karma--so sorry for yor friend's loss--our hearts and prayers go out > > to them- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi Everyone, > > > I'm asking for prayers for a very good friend of mine named > > . I just received an e-mail from her that her first born > > baby, , who was born May 16th died this morning. > > > > > > had a very hard start to life. His little heart just wasn't > > right. He had already had heart surgery and they thought they had > > him fixed, apparently not. > > > > > > Please pray for and her husband Josh as they deal with the > > loss of their baby after a very long hard battle to save him. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > Karma > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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