Guest guest Posted September 24, 2010 Report Share Posted September 24, 2010 Amy, I read your blog and am so sorry that you are going through this. Nothing about this is easy. My daughter does not have SO JRA, she has Polyarticular JIA and so has not had the rashes and fevers related to this. Any way you go it is not a fun road to travel. We have so many moms on this whos kids are systemic and so they will chime in and give you support. My daughter was sick for most of the first 18 months of her life. One day after her first birthday she was admitted to the hospital because she was lethargic and no one could keep her awake, really scary. Three months later she was back in the hospital for rotovirus, she had been sick for three weeks in and out of the doctors office everyother day and not one doctor could figure out what was wrong. So we left the family practice and found a pediatrician. Then at age five she was diagnosed with a seizuer and then asthma and migrains followed by the time she was eight. So when she started haveing the swollen joints for no reason and they started testing for all sorts of things I was pretty scared. At first I thought, I do not have the energy for this, I was a single mom and her father was totally non supportive and thought I was crazy and over reacting, I mean after all these doctors appointments cost money and he tought he might have to pay for them. Fortunatly, I did not know all the things they were testing for until the results of much of it came back negative and so by then it was ruled out. It is not easy to watch your child in pain and not be able to help. It is not easy to see that they can not get up and do the things they are used to doing. It hurts to watch them sit and watch as the world moves on with out them. We got our diagnosis fairly quick compared to some, it took two weeks for " likely JIA " , from the pediatrician, then another two weeks for a " probable JIA " from the rheumatologist and then another month for a " Pauciarticular JIA " diagnosis and then a month later a change for the final " Polyarticular JIA " diagnosis. Most of Jayes joints have been involved at one time or another but mainly she has the ankles, feet, hands and knees that cause the most problem. My daughter takes methotrexate, meloxicam & hydroxichloroquine for the arthritis. She is also on folic acid and prevacid for her stomach and then on seizure meds as well. Her meds do not have her arthritis into a medicated remission but we are much better then we were a year ago. She was diagnosed at age 11 and is now 16 almost 17, wow, she is growing up. I pray that things will get better for you and Avery soon. I think being in a childrens hospital is best so that you have access to the specialists you need. And sorry you had to add another ologist to your list of " friends " . Until we headed down this road I had no idea how many different " ologists " there are out there. I have often wondered why the pediatrician is not a pediologist. As I said others will chime in and give you support, let us know how things go and I hope you get to take Avery home soon. Veri & Jaye 16 poly New here son just dx with SO JRA My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine when he can't walk. I a m used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You can find the continuations on the side of the page. http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure what they mean. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2010 Report Share Posted September 24, 2010 Veri thank you so much for you kind words of support. I hate that had to go through so much so young. I am sure you and everyone here understands the helplessness I feel. It helps knowing I don't have to explain it to you, that you get it.. I love the pediologist! lol Amy mom to Avery 17 so jra ________________________________ From: " veristroud@... " <veristroud@...> Sent: Fri, September 24, 2010 4:45:24 AM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA Amy, I read your blog and am so sorry that you are going through this. Nothing about this is easy. My daughter does not have SO JRA, she has Polyarticular JIA and so has not had the rashes and fevers related to this. Any way you go it is not a fun road to travel. We have so many moms on this whos kids are systemic and so they will chime in and give you support. My daughter was sick for most of the first 18 months of her life. One day after her first birthday she was admitted to the hospital because she was lethargic and no one could keep her awake, really scary. Three months later she was back in the hospital for rotovirus, she had been sick for three weeks in and out of the doctors office everyother day and not one doctor could figure out what was wrong. So we left the family practice and found a pediatrician. Then at age five she was diagnosed with a seizuer and then asthma and migrains followed by the time she was eight. So when she started haveing the swollen joints for no reason and they started testing for all sorts of things I was pretty scared. At first I thought, I do not have the energy for this, I was a single mom and her father was totally non supportive and thought I was crazy and over reacting, I mean after all these doctors appointments cost money and he tought he might have to pay for them. Fortunatly, I did not know all the things they were testing for until the results of much of it came back negative and so by then it was ruled out. It is not easy to watch your child in pain and not be able to help. It is not easy to see that they can not get up and do the things they are used to doing. It hurts to watch them sit and watch as the world moves on with out them. We got our diagnosis fairly quick compared to some, it took two weeks for " likely JIA " , from the pediatrician, then another two weeks for a " probable JIA " from the rheumatologist and then another month for a " Pauciarticular JIA " diagnosis and then a month later a change for the final " Polyarticular JIA " diagnosis. Most of Jayes joints have been involved at one time or another but mainly she has the ankles, feet, hands and knees that cause the most problem. My daughter takes methotrexate, meloxicam & hydroxichloroquine for the arthritis. She is also on folic acid and prevacid for her stomach and then on seizure meds as well. Her meds do not have her arthritis into a medicated remission but we are much better then we were a year ago. She was diagnosed at age 11 and is now 16 almost 17, wow, she is growing up. I pray that things will get better for you and Avery soon. I think being in a childrens hospital is best so that you have access to the specialists you need. And sorry you had to add another ologist to your list of " friends " . Until we headed down this road I had no idea how many different " ologists " there are out there. I have often wondered why the pediatrician is not a pediologist. As I said others will chime in and give you support, let us know how things go and I hope you get to take Avery home soon. Veri & Jaye 16 poly New here son just dx with SO JRA My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine when he can't walk. I a m used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You can find the continuations on the side of the page. http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure what they mean. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2010 Report Share Posted September 24, 2010 HI Amy, I read your blog. I am no doctor, but I do have 11 years experience with systemic jra. Is he seeing a pediatric rheumatologist.? I think it is nuts that he is suffering so much. I would be telling the docs I want prednisone. It is a steroid. Yes, it is a love-hate drug, but many, many times it is the only thing that will work at first to get rid of the fevers and the rash. n's rash always changed. Don't freak out too much with the rash. n had it for six straight years. It is an indicator though that the disease process is active. n's is worse when she is tired, hot, or the disease is more active. You do need to take care of yourself. Yes, I have had n in the hospital and I know how it is. You at least have to get the minimum amount of sleep. And if you can, try to keep eating, and make it healthy eating. Amy, the beginning is the worst. It will get better. They have to find the cocktail that works for your son. I will tell you about n to give you hope. Now n has never been in remission. Not one day. She grew to a normal height, went to school, did high jump in high school, she skis, snowboards, and goes to college 700 miles away. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't accept such debilitating pain in your son. Pain meds is not the way to go with this disease. You have to stop the fevers first off. Then things will improve. Take care and I will send prayers your way today. (n, 21, systemic) On Sep 22, 2010, at 10:23 PM, Amy wrote: > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You can find the continuations on the side of the page. http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure what they mean. > > Amy > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2010 Report Share Posted September 24, 2010 Hi Amy, I'm so sorry that your son is going through this. My daughter is systemic as well, and was diagnosed 11 months ago in the hospital, with a situation that sounds eerily similar to yours. I agree with - why no prednisone?? And, I also love hearing about 's daughter n, because it gives me so much hope. I never thought I would agree that the worst of this is in the beginning. I thought I was going to die from anxiety, fear and grief in the beginning of this journey. But some things are getting better. You are in a good place being in a children's hospital. Hang in there, keep us posted. I am praying for you and your son. nn (, 9, systemic) > > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You can find the continuations on the side of the page. http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure what they mean. > > > > Amy > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2010 Report Share Posted September 24, 2010 Amy, I posted a response earlier but somehow it didn't get through onto the board. I want you to know that you are not alone. I know those feelings of anxiety, fear, grief, and not knowing whether one can continue. When my daughter had acute onset of systemic JIA (11 months ago) I thought at times that I might die from the emotional trauma of it all. I never thought that I would agree with the moms who told me that there was a light at the end of the tunnel, or that things would get better. But some things are a little bit better now. My daughter is going to start kineret (anakinra) in a couple of days. We are trying to get her off of prednisone. I was wondering, as questioned, why Avery is not on prednisone? Have the doctors mentioned that to you? Perhaps they thought the anakinra would do the trick and they wouldn't need to do prednisone, but it can bring very immediate relief. It can really help with the systemic rash, if that is what Avery is dealing with. Then later the prednisone can be withdrawn once another drug is taking effect. I have you and Avery in my thoughts and prayers. nn (, 9, systemic) > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You can find the continuations on the side of the page. http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure what they mean. > > Amy > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2010 Report Share Posted September 24, 2010 thank you so much. They started the prednisone today. Yes we now have a pediatric rheumotologist. Avery was started on Anakinra and although he only took it 3 days it stopped the fever spikes and pain. For a day he was like himself. After the second dose he got another rash and it progressed. Last night they feared it was a drug reaction and stopped the anakinra and all the symptoms came crashing back. The high fever, the shakes, his hands swelled and the pain. On top of the horrible pain from the rash. We had to give him morphine last night. So we are hoping the prednisone works quickly to give him some relief. You're daughter sounds wonderful, it is so nice to hear about her living her life. I know this disease can be so debilitating. We were all packed and ready to go home from the hospital yesterday when this happened. I'm pretty glad we stayed. lol ________________________________ From: Price <bc.price@...> Sent: Fri, September 24, 2010 8:56:35 AM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA HI Amy, I read your blog. I am no doctor, but I do have 11 years experience with systemic jra. Is he seeing a pediatric rheumatologist.? I think it is nuts that he is suffering so much. I would be telling the docs I want prednisone. It is a steroid. Yes, it is a love-hate drug, but many, many times it is the only thing that will work at first to get rid of the fevers and the rash. n's rash always changed. Don't freak out too much with the rash. n had it for six straight years. It is an indicator though that the disease process is active. n's is worse when she is tired, hot, or the disease is more active. You do need to take care of yourself. Yes, I have had n in the hospital and I know how it is. You at least have to get the minimum amount of sleep. And if you can, try to keep eating, and make it healthy eating. Amy, the beginning is the worst. It will get better. They have to find the cocktail that works for your son. I will tell you about n to give you hope. Now n has never been in remission. Not one day. She grew to a normal height, went to school, did high jump in high school, she skis, snowboards, and goes to college 700 miles away. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't accept such debilitating pain in your son. Pain meds is not the way to go with this disease. You have to stop the fevers first off. Then things will improve. Take care and I will send prayers your way today. (n, 21, systemic) On Sep 22, 2010, at 10:23 PM, Amy wrote: > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We >are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and >the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite >as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low >grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second >shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. >It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would >be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from >exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down >syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You >can find the continuations on the side of the page. >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure >what they mean. > > > Amy > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2010 Report Share Posted September 25, 2010 Amy, I am glad that they started the prednisone today and you should see good results quickly wiht that. We do not like the pred because we know what the long term effect can be but when Jaye is on it she feels wonderful. Last year about this time we had to put her on a high dose for a while and after 24 hours she said she was feeling much better, after 48 hours she said she felt pretty good, and then before 72 hours she said she felt wonderful and had forgotten it was possible to feel so good. So we know that if she was on it all the time she would probably be doing better but we also know that we do not want it long term unless we have no other option. I had heard many moms discuss their love hate relationship with prednisone and did not really understand it til last year when she was on it again. I hope that you have a good rheumy that will listen to you and be patient with Avery. Most pediatric rheumatologists are wonderful with our kids. I think our rheumy will continue to see Jaye until she turns 21, I do not want to change before then. We love him and he knows her, it is like our neurologist when we have to leave him I think we will go through a grieving process. But we have more then four years to prepare for that. I pray that today will be a wonderful day for you and Avery and that you will get to go home soon. It is just so hard to be away from home for so long and you have another child at home waiting for you I think you had said. Good luck and keep us informed, we do care. Veri & Jaye 16 poly Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA HI Amy, I read your blog. I am no doctor, but I do have 11 years experience with systemic jra. Is he seeing a pediatric rheumatologist.? I think it is nuts that he is suffering so much. I would be telling the docs I want prednisone. It is a steroid. Yes, it is a love-hate drug, but many, many times it is the only thing that will work at first to get rid of the fevers and the rash. n's rash always changed. Don't freak out too much with the rash. n had it for six straight years. It is an indicator though that the disease process is active. n's is worse when she is tired, hot, or the disease is more active. You do need to take care of yourself. Yes, I have had n in the hospital and I know how it is. You at least have to get the minimum amount of sleep. And if you can, try to keep eating, and make it healthy eating. Amy, the beginning is the worst. It will get better. They have to find the cocktail that works for your son. I will tell you about n to give you hope. Now n has never been in remission. Not one day. She grew to a normal height, went to school, did high jump in high school, she skis, snowboards, and goes to college 700 miles away. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't accept such debilitating pain in your son. Pain meds is not the way to go with this disease. You have to stop the fevers first off. Then things will improve. Take care and I will send prayers your way today. (n, 21, systemic) On Sep 22, 2010, at 10:23 PM, Amy wrote: > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We >are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and >the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite >as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low >grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second >shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. >It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would >be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from >exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down >syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You >can find the continuations on the side of the page. >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure >what they mean. > > > Amy > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2010 Report Share Posted September 25, 2010 Hi Amy, We all get it here. We are all parents with sick children. Enough said. I am so happy he was started on prednisone. Do I like the drug? No, but there are times we have used it with n. It seems to be the only drug that will stop the fever, organ involvement, and rashes. Then he will be slowly weaned off of it, as another med ramps up in his system. I wonder if they will try methotrexate on him? Most of the systemics are on that with some other type of biological such as enbrel or kineret. Weaning a systemic off of steroids is half art and half science. I was told that 100 ped rheumys were asked at the last CARRA meeting how they prescribed prednisone. There were 75 different answers. I do give n a calcium supplement whenever she is on prednisone. She likes Viactiv. Also, I don't know if your ped rheumy has mentioned vitamin D yet, but ours is a firm believer in it and tells the parents how much each child should take a day. When he gets out of the hospital, I will tell you the tidbits I have learned about prednisone thru the years. (n, 21, systemic) On Sep 24, 2010, at 3:30 PM, Amy Spurger wrote: > thank you so much. They started the prednisone today. Yes we now have > a pediatric rheumotologist. Avery was started on Anakinra and although he only > took it 3 days it stopped the fever spikes and pain. For a day he was like > himself. After the second dose he got another rash and it progressed. Last > night they feared it was a drug reaction and stopped the anakinra and all the > symptoms came crashing back. The high fever, the shakes, his hands swelled and > the pain. On top of the horrible pain from the rash. We had to give him > morphine last night. So we are hoping the prednisone works quickly to give him > some relief. You're daughter sounds wonderful, it is so nice to hear about her > living her life. I know this disease can be so debilitating. We were all > packed and ready to go home from the hospital yesterday when this happened. I'm > pretty glad we stayed. lol > > > ________________________________ > From: Price <bc.price@...> > > Sent: Fri, September 24, 2010 8:56:35 AM > Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA > > HI Amy, > > I read your blog. I am no doctor, but I do have 11 years experience with > systemic jra. Is he seeing a pediatric rheumatologist.? I think it is nuts > that he is suffering so much. I would be telling the docs I want prednisone. > It is a steroid. Yes, it is a love-hate drug, but many, many times it is the > only thing that will work at first to get rid of the fevers and the rash. > > n's rash always changed. Don't freak out too much with the rash. n > had it for six straight years. It is an indicator though that the disease > process is active. n's is worse when she is tired, hot, or the disease is > more active. > > You do need to take care of yourself. Yes, I have had n in the hospital > and I know how it is. You at least have to get the minimum amount of sleep. > And if you can, try to keep eating, and make it healthy eating. > > Amy, the beginning is the worst. It will get better. They have to find the > cocktail that works for your son. I will tell you about n to give you > hope. Now n has never been in remission. Not one day. She grew to a > normal height, went to school, did high jump in high school, she skis, > snowboards, and goes to college 700 miles away. There is light at the end of > the tunnel. Don't accept such debilitating pain in your son. Pain meds is not > the way to go with this disease. You have to stop the fevers first off. Then > things will improve. Take care and I will send prayers your way today. > (n, 21, systemic) > > On Sep 22, 2010, at 10:23 PM, Amy wrote: > > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We > >are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and > >the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite > >as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low > >grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second > >shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. > >It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would > >be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from > >exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down > >syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done > >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a > >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine > >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. > >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You > >can find the continuations on the side of the page. > >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and > >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure > >what they mean. > > > > > > Amy > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2010 Report Share Posted September 28, 2010 Hi, Amy and welcome to the list. I was just reading your blog and see that Avery came home last night. I hope he continues to improve, please keep us up to date on how things are going. You have found a valuable resource here with this list, feel free to ask any questions as you continue on your JA journey, Michele ( 23, spondy) From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Amy Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2010 12:24 AM Subject: New here son just dx with SO JRA My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You can find the continuations on the side of the page. http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure what they mean. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2010 Report Share Posted September 28, 2010 Thank you Michele! We did come home. I was just catching up on my email and was going to send an update. I have already found this list valuable. Amy - Avery 17 so jra ________________________________ From: " Tepper, Michele " <MTepper@...> " " < > Sent: Tue, September 28, 2010 1:54:32 PM Subject: RE: New here son just dx with SO JRA Hi, Amy and welcome to the list. I was just reading your blog and see that Avery came home last night. I hope he continues to improve, please keep us up to date on how things are going. You have found a valuable resource here with this list, feel free to ask any questions as you continue on your JA journey, Michele ( 23, spondy) From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Amy Sent: Thursday, September 23, 2010 12:24 AM Subject: New here son just dx with SO JRA My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You can find the continuations on the side of the page. http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure what they mean. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2010 Report Share Posted October 2, 2010 has been systemic onset since a couple months before his 3rd bday.He first got a viral infection with his highest fever ever 103 and a concave rash under his eye. Two weeks later he wrecked on his little bike and came in running and crying that his scab on his elbow broke open and blood was running down his arm. That night he complained of his lft ankle hurting.The next morning he went to get out of bed and could not bare weight on his his lft leg and had a strange looking rash on his lft thigh.Took him to the ped and he thought the rash was contact from the wet grass and his ankle would be ok.He juggled 3 samples of childrens Ibuprofen and gave it to us. All seemed fine,this was an a MON. Waited until Friday when things seemed to be getting better.Took him to preschool and they said he was compaining about his head hurting. did not talk much and had speach problems.Turned out head was hand and his wrist was swollen.Took him to the ped on Sat and had it x rayed nothing showed up but by this time the screaming started and he felt hot turned out over 104 hot.Then every day it got worse and worse.More joints involved but in less then 1 week our ped thought he had SoJRA and made a referal.19 days after the bike wreck we were in high panic mode and made an apointmet with a ped in Nashville that has connections with Vanderbuilt childrens Hospital.By this time he was contracted in a fetal position and his whole body was covered in hives and 5 welts on his back.It was all over his face and when we carried him in other moms and dads stared and moved their children away.The ped started to cry and excused herself to call rheumatology at Vanderbilt and got in the next day.21 days after the very first symptom.I realy thought my baby was dying.They gave him a tentative diagnosis odf SoJRA and started high dose pred and maxed out his Ibuprofen. We had to wait 3 more weeks to start MTX just in case but he was realy obvious.Biologicals were new at the time so wound up maxed on 25mg MTX sub q and 200mg Plaquenil along with maxed out on IBuprofen and still couldn't get close to comming of the pred. It did help everything but his resistant ankle that got drained and injected twice within three months.Oh by the way he was 6 months systemic free but 9 months on the waiting list for Enbrel. Our dear moderator Georgina posted a ling on the Enbrel registry in 2002. I called, was accepted and thats when the miricle happened.He was 4 at the time.He has been playing baseball since 6,played football last yr and is trying out for his middle school next yr. He has been in his second medicated remission for almost 4 yrs.Off of MTX for 9 months and could have come off the Enbral in August but put him in a research study at Cincinatti Childrens for the withdrawl of TNF's so it will be FEb. There is hope and it is not impossible for these precious children to do everything their friends do and more. Be agressive and stay on top of labs and such.Whan started Enbrel it was his 3rd DMARD in combination plus the NSAID and pred. It can and will get better,just give it time,which is the hardest. Becki and 12 systemic onset but no systemic since 2002 ________________________________ From: nn <rosannwinn@...> Sent: Fri, September 24, 2010 10:22:34 AM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA Hi Amy, I'm so sorry that your son is going through this. My daughter is systemic as well, and was diagnosed 11 months ago in the hospital, with a situation that sounds eerily similar to yours. I agree with - why no prednisone?? And, I also love hearing about 's daughter n, because it gives me so much hope. I never thought I would agree that the worst of this is in the beginning. I thought I was going to die from anxiety, fear and grief in the beginning of this journey. But some things are getting better. You are in a good place being in a children's hospital. Hang in there, keep us posted. I am praying for you and your son. nn (, 9, systemic) > > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. >We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far >and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not >quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and >more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the >second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively >worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. >I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass >out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had >down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You >can find the continuations on the side of the page. >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure >what they mean. > > > > > Amy > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2010 Report Share Posted October 3, 2010 Becki thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I feel lucky Avery was in the hospital during the onset of this, I guess if that is even possible. We were lucky to have Rheumatoid consulting in his second week of symptoms and first few days of hospitalization. He can't take NSAID's because of kidney damage that started with these symptoms. His Dr's are the one's who discovered the link with IL1 and really believe in the biologics, unfortunately he was allergic to the first one. Right now he is only on 60 mg of prednisone, coming off 3 days of pulse. If we can keep him at 60 for 4 weeks, we can get him into a study for the next biologic. But she did tell me that his disease will tell us what to do and if he is too sick for the study then we will use whatever we need to. Amy - Avery 17 systemic ________________________________ From: Becki Larson <sojramom@...> Sent: Sat, October 2, 2010 10:26:36 PM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA has been systemic onset since a couple months before his 3rd bday.He first got a viral infection with his highest fever ever 103 and a concave rash under his eye. Two weeks later he wrecked on his little bike and came in running and crying that his scab on his elbow broke open and blood was running down his arm. That night he complained of his lft ankle hurting.The next morning he went to get out of bed and could not bare weight on his his lft leg and had a strange looking rash on his lft thigh.Took him to the ped and he thought the rash was contact from the wet grass and his ankle would be ok.He juggled 3 samples of childrens Ibuprofen and gave it to us. All seemed fine,this was an a MON. Waited until Friday when things seemed to be getting better.Took him to preschool and they said he was compaining about his head hurting. did not talk much and had speach problems.Turned out head was hand and his wrist was swollen.Took him to the ped on Sat and had it x rayed nothing showed up but by this time the screaming started and he felt hot turned out over 104 hot.Then every day it got worse and worse.More joints involved but in less then 1 week our ped thought he had SoJRA and made a referal.19 days after the bike wreck we were in high panic mode and made an apointmet with a ped in Nashville that has connections with Vanderbuilt childrens Hospital.By this time he was contracted in a fetal position and his whole body was covered in hives and 5 welts on his back.It was all over his face and when we carried him in other moms and dads stared and moved their children away.The ped started to cry and excused herself to call rheumatology at Vanderbilt and got in the next day.21 days after the very first symptom.I realy thought my baby was dying.They gave him a tentative diagnosis odf SoJRA and started high dose pred and maxed out his Ibuprofen. We had to wait 3 more weeks to start MTX just in case but he was realy obvious.Biologicals were new at the time so wound up maxed on 25mg MTX sub q and 200mg Plaquenil along with maxed out on IBuprofen and still couldn't get close to comming of the pred. It did help everything but his resistant ankle that got drained and injected twice within three months.Oh by the way he was 6 months systemic free but 9 months on the waiting list for Enbrel. Our dear moderator Georgina posted a ling on the Enbrel registry in 2002. I called, was accepted and thats when the miricle happened.He was 4 at the time.He has been playing baseball since 6,played football last yr and is trying out for his middle school next yr. He has been in his second medicated remission for almost 4 yrs.Off of MTX for 9 months and could have come off the Enbral in August but put him in a research study at Cincinatti Childrens for the withdrawl of TNF's so it will be FEb. There is hope and it is not impossible for these precious children to do everything their friends do and more. Be agressive and stay on top of labs and such.Whan started Enbrel it was his 3rd DMARD in combination plus the NSAID and pred. It can and will get better,just give it time,which is the hardest. Becki and 12 systemic onset but no systemic since 2002 ________________________________ From: nn <rosannwinn@...> Sent: Fri, September 24, 2010 10:22:34 AM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA Hi Amy, I'm so sorry that your son is going through this. My daughter is systemic as well, and was diagnosed 11 months ago in the hospital, with a situation that sounds eerily similar to yours. I agree with - why no prednisone?? And, I also love hearing about 's daughter n, because it gives me so much hope. I never thought I would agree that the worst of this is in the beginning. I thought I was going to die from anxiety, fear and grief in the beginning of this journey. But some things are getting better. You are in a good place being in a children's hospital. Hang in there, keep us posted. I am praying for you and your son. nn (, 9, systemic) > > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. >We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far >and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not >quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and >more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the >second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively >worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. >I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass >out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had > >down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done > >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. > >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You >can find the continuations on the side of the page. >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure > >what they mean. > > > > > Amy > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2010 Report Share Posted October 3, 2010 Amy, Just out of curiousity do you know how long the doctors at Avery's hospital have been using kineret or another biologic as a first line with systemics who are in the hospital at onset? Is he at Texas ish ? Is that a Children's hospital? I'm keeping my fingers crossed that Avery will maintain well at the 60mg so he can enter the study! Thanks, nn > > > > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. > >We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so far > > >and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not > >quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and > >more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the > >second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively > >worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of weeks. > > >I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to pass > > >out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also had > > > >down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has done > > > >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a > >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine > >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to me. > > > >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. You > > >can find the continuations on the side of the page. > >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > > > > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new and > > >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never sure > > > >what they mean. > > > > > > > > Amy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2010 Report Share Posted October 3, 2010 The director of the department saw us Friday in the hospital and she told me they have been using them for 7 years and her team did the research that found the link with IL1. He has been in Children's in Dallas but will be seen in clinic at ish Rite and if he has to be admitted again on Wednesday it will be there. I can tell he is not feeling any where as good today as he has been after the pulse. He is having joint pain and isn't wanting to walk any more again. He will not tell me if he hurts and doesn't complain so it makes it hard. He is talking really funny and moving his mouth odd. We keep asking him if it hurts but it's not normal for him. I did tell my husband that when they put him on the iv morphine for the rash he spoke so clearly. He can't take nsaids and the Tylenol doesn't help so I am at a loss. I also think he has an ulcer, they started him on nexium and tums but he is still having break through pain. Amy - Avery 17 systemic ________________________________ From: nn <rosannwinn@...> Sent: Sun, October 3, 2010 2:46:23 PM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA Amy, Just out of curiousity do you know how long the doctors at Avery's hospital have been using kineret or another biologic as a first line with systemics who are in the hospital at onset? Is he at Texas ish ? Is that a Children's hospital? I'm keeping my fingers crossed that Avery will maintain well at the 60mg so he can enter the study! Thanks, nn > > > > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. > > >We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so >far > > > >and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not > >quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and > >more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the > >second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively > > >worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of >weeks. > > > >I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to >pass > > > >out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also >had > > > > >down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has >done > > > > >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a > >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine > > >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to >me. > > > > >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. >You > > > >can find the continuations on the side of the page. > >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > > > > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new >and > > > >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never >sure > > > > >what they mean. > > > > > > > > Amy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 If you think he has an ulcer, please look into it. These meds, as you know, can so affect the stomach and you would not want to miss anything. There have been children who have issues and if they are not looked into, it can lead to awful consequences. Many of the kids here take something like Tagament or Prevacid automatically with the meds they are on. If you think there is an issue, I would have it checked out. As to the mouth issue, sometimes the TMJ becomes inflamed or the jaw area. Perhaps that is why he is talking funny. Keep us updated, Michele ( 23, spondy) From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Amy Spurger Sent: Sunday, October 03, 2010 6:10 PM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA The director of the department saw us Friday in the hospital and she told me they have been using them for 7 years and her team did the research that found the link with IL1. He has been in Children's in Dallas but will be seen in clinic at ish Rite and if he has to be admitted again on Wednesday it will be there. I can tell he is not feeling any where as good today as he has been after the pulse. He is having joint pain and isn't wanting to walk any more again. He will not tell me if he hurts and doesn't complain so it makes it hard. He is talking really funny and moving his mouth odd. We keep asking him if it hurts but it's not normal for him. I did tell my husband that when they put him on the iv morphine for the rash he spoke so clearly. He can't take nsaids and the Tylenol doesn't help so I am at a loss. I also think he has an ulcer, they started him on nexium and tums but he is still having break through pain. Amy - Avery 17 systemic ________________________________ From: nn <rosannwinn@...<mailto:rosannwinn%40gmail.com>> <mailto: %40> Sent: Sun, October 3, 2010 2:46:23 PM Subject: Re: New here son just dx with SO JRA Amy, Just out of curiousity do you know how long the doctors at Avery's hospital have been using kineret or another biologic as a first line with systemics who are in the hospital at onset? Is he at Texas ish ? Is that a Children's hospital? I'm keeping my fingers crossed that Avery will maintain well at the 60mg so he can enter the study! Thanks, nn > > > > > My name is Amy and my son Avery who just turned 17 was just dx with SO jra. > > >We are still in the hospital and have started anakinra shots. He's had 3 so >far > > > >and the first one really made improvement. He still had a fever spike but not > >quite as bad. The second one still showed improvement but not as drastic and > >more low grade fever. His spike didn't happen until later but right after the > >second shot. After the second one he got a rash which has gotten progressively > > >worse. It's not like any of the rashes we've had over the past couple of >weeks. > > > >I would be happy to reshare my story but I have blogged it and am about to >pass > > > >out from exhaustion so I thought I'd just share the link to that. Avery also >had > > > > >down syndrome so I kinda thought we'd gotten our share early on. lol He has >done > > > > >amazingly these past couple weeks but is getting really tire of it. He has a > >hard time communicating his feelings and tends to just tell the dr's he's fine > > >when he can't walk. I am used to advocating for my son so this is not new to >me. > > > > >Here is a link to my blog, I am linking to the fist post about his illness. >You > > > >can find the continuations on the side of the page. > >http://mom2anz.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-party-when-dad-goes-to-work.html > > > > > > If you made it to the end of my mutterings thank you. This is all so new >and > > > >scary to us. The fevers freak me out and so do the rashes, since I am never >sure > > > > >what they mean. > > > > > > > > Amy > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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